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New to this all - - Single guys donn't exactly have a easy time of it in the swinging world. It's made up mostly of couples with the occassional Unicorn (single female), and many couples have a "we're trading, but you're not providing the female part of the trade" attitude, which goes all the way back to when what is now called swinging was called wife swapping. And the vast majority of couples who are interested in inviting a single person to play with them are looking for a female, not a male. There just aren't very many people looking for a single male, and there are tons of them looking to be involved. So the numbers are against you. Besides that, it's hard for a single male to meet people. They're allowed to attend only a very, very few parties and/or events unless they have a female with them. Even the male half of a known swinging couple often isn't welcome if the female half isn't with him. He may be in a couple, but withput the woman he's just another single guy. Your best chance at someone being interested in you is online at a site like this. But, again, there are gazillions more single males than there are people looking for them, so the competition is pretty tough. To be a "winner", you usually need to be relatively young, pretty good looking, and fairly fit. So if you want to generate any interest, you have to post pics. And while nudes are a good idea if you hsave the body for it, straight dick pics are not, unless it's 10 inches long or something. And even then it might be a turn off more than a turn on for lots of people. If you don't have any pics of yourself posted, those difficult odds you face morph into impossible odds. If you do manage to attend any parties or events, chill. Don't be aggressive. Single males have a rep for assuming any woman at a swinger's function wants to jump into the sack with them. From what I've seen, most single males aren't like that, but enough are that single guys get labelled as a group, so the best way to behave is as if the woman you're talking to is someone you just met at some "normal" party. The only real difference between a swinging woman and a "normal" woman, whether she's single or in a couple, is that she doesn't think it's necessary to be in some kind of a relationship with someone in order to have sex. Female swingers are just as selective as women in general, and while her presence at a swinging party does mean she's interested in sex, she might not be interested right then, or she might not be interested in you. And a good way to turn that interest off if it's there is to act like it's a given that she wants you. The most important thing to remember is that it's always up to the woman. Whether anything happens, and if it does just what happens, is her decision. So post some pics, be just as respectful to any swinger women you might meet as you would be to any non-swinger woman and if she's part of a couple be respectful to her man, and good luck.

It's a full MOON! - - I love how swingers get on a full moon... Do you think it's the moon or our minds on the moon? I vote for the moon.

Need to know.... - - People lie..like a rug... Swingers are people too.. Everyone online lies. At least a little bit. Opinions are like assholes... Administration, please put a selection for BMI and Skin Fold Testing and H2O Dunk Analysis and so we can all have a better idea of how much everyone lies.. Have fun! [img]http://doug-johnson.squarespace.com/storage/disclaimer.jpg[/img]

Mobile app - There really needs to be and easier way. - [quote=MINDYPINDY][quote=JUST_HORNY1]I think an app would be great. I also this it would be a cool idea to put a "Swinger in the area" function on it. That way people can register with their cell phone on the site and using their GPS it will alert you when you are out and about or in the clubs if other swingers are close by. Of course you would be able to turn this off and on from your phone in case you really don't want people to find you at a given time. I think this would be an easier way then bracelets to determine if people around are in fact swingers. Just a thought.[/quote] Brilliant![/quote] Actually, this idea has already been successfully implemented in a slightly different context. grindr.com has been offering precisely this functionality for a gay demographic. Here is an interesting article about their current plan to broaden their market: [url=http://www.salon.com/entertainment/tv/feature/2011/07/01/grindr_new_project_amicus_interview/index.html ]http://www.salon.com/entertainment/tv/feature/2011/07/01/grindr_new_project_amicus_interview/index.html[/url]

Children - - Riderz. I can see that angle too. Very good point. My kids are teens and we rarely cam with them around, unless we are just chatting normally and they can't see the screen. I've shown my kids to a few people on the chat when bragging about how fuckin' beautiful they are, in a conversation. HOWEVER... we do not expose them directly to the adult aspects of the website. They do know that we are swingers and what that means. We do not shelter our children. On the same token, we also teach them what privacy is by not allowing them into our private affairs. Anyway, everyone has their own standards for their children. I think we are doing ok. Ours are pretty fuckin cool. I think as long as you are not breaking the law, you should be fine. -D-

Glory Hole - - One of the swingers clubs here in town has a hole in one of the doors to a room. We tried it, my wife was giving oral to the first dick to pop through the hole and I played with her and admired her. She took about 3 licks and said...I cant do this. The guys hadnt cleaned himself prior and she hated the taste. Since then we swore them off, we want to know who the person is.

Cuckolding - Interesting article from some outsiders, what do yo - - I read the article and from a swinging standpoint don't consider encouraging and enjoying my wife's enjoyment of her sexuality as anything even approaching cuckoldry. I'm sure some vanillas might see it differently thru the lenses of their "vanilla goggles" but swinging is definitely NOT cuckoldry. The sad thing is that (yes, I have to go there) some single men view coupled male swingers as nothing more than cucks and often act accordingly and thus perpetuate the dreaded SM stigma. Don't get me wrong. There definitely are cucks in the lifestyle and to some the "hotwife" style of play approaches if not at times reaches the level of cuckoldry. But the vast majority of male swingers are definitely not cucks and simply enjoy the fact that their partners are free to explore their sexuality and "get off", if you will, on the fact that their partner is turned on and experiencing their sexual desires to the fullest.

what is the protocol for cheating spouses?? - - We think you should tell all your friends in the lifestyle, what happened, who he is and how to identify his profile. You do not need to be mean or judgmental about it but certainly your friends have the right to know the truth about this man. Married people male or female hooking up with swingers under false pretenses suggesting they are single is an ongoing problem and a little help in identifying cheaters within the community is always appreciated. We think you should be honest with his wife about what happened but do not give her any more personal information about yourselves than necessary. Her husband was who violate an agreement with her. You were duped into meeting him under false pretenses. The betrayal is all his. You do not know her or how she will react or if she may try and exact some idea of vengeance upon you, as if that would be fair or accomplish any good thing whatsoever. People do crazy things. We sympathize with you. Your agreement as a couple to pursue this adventure together should have never been violated in such a way by this man. His actions are so very selfish.

HOT ONE NIGHTER - - Well, I am sorry for you guys. We all go through dry spells. But is a swingers' group the proper forum? Try a Yahoo chat room.

Sexting to make her happy - My better half wants me to talk nasty to another woman. - [quote=UTAHSFINEST]I am not his wife. I am supposed to be his girlfriend but apparently I am not enough![/quote] Most of this community, both the men and the women, do not believe that one is enough or should be enough. That is why the term swingers applies to us. Committed to one person: YES. Exclusively: NO. So I will give you a bit of advice that you and others probably will no like: Not every couple survives this lifestyle. We are not better at keeping it going than any other group. So don't expect the other person to change how they think because most of the time it does not happen. Either find a way to live with in the lifestyle or leave the lifestyle and find happiness elsewhere. In either case we wish you happiness and peace of mind.

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