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Playing with \"swingers\" vs \"nonswingers\" - - I would not worry so much that the young guy in question is too eager. Thats common with the young ones. You need to talk with him and make sure he understands what descretion means and what you expect of him before and after. Will he keep his mouth shut to his buddies and protect your privacy? This is what worries us with the young ones. Most of the guys we have talked with that were supposidly in the \"lifestyle\" turned out to just be married guys looking to score on the side or guys who ran across the web site trying to get laid. We only met one man who really was a regular swinger type. Its always a crap shoot. Your a hot looking woman, Im sure he is eager to try you.

How Old Is Old - - hey blueeyes, from our perspective at least, we think you are probably right and probably wrong at the same time!!! . . . you are right about being in the minority relative to the kind words offered by most in this post, but we really believe you are also part of the vast majority of swingers who use age as a primary basis for discrimination . . . kind of a strong opinion we suppose, except that we can see at least 4 different ways anyone can pretty easily check for age discrimination providing some basis for that opinion . . . BUT, before we go into all of that, please understand that we realize that everyone is entitled to discriminate in any way they see fit . . . in fact, discrimination is not just ok, it is absolutely necessary!!! . . . you see, no one has enough time to sample from every cup (sigh!!!), so everyone has to establish discriminating criteria . . . and, for sure, we're NOT feelin' sorry for ourselves; we realize it's just part of the deal . . . there is one more thing to mention before listing ways to check for age discrimination: we think there is a pretty easy and logical answer for the OP . . . those tired of reading already, can skip to the bottom and get that opinion . . . however, we kinda hope peeps continue reading 'cause, sooner or later, age is an issue everyone will face . . . so, how does one check for age discrimination??? . . . try this: pick any population center (like slc) . . . open a bunch of profiles in that population from different age groups (say, 30's, 40's, 50's, and beyond) . . . record the number of times each profile was "recently viewed" (ya know, that little statistic conveniently provided by swingular) . . . then, simply compare the numbers for the different age groups . . . if your sample is big enough, you will see profile interest decreases with age . . . if you don't want to do the math, just talk with folks of all ages and ask them what they see . . . i know many (most???) complain like crazy about email (but somehow, everyone seems ok with tweeting, texting, facebooking, etc - - - hmmm???) . . . and, shit, there is always face-to-face (omg!!!) . . . so anywho, find an acceptable way to communicate, just ask, and keep track of what people say . . . we've done that to some extent, without any surprises . . . (although this method takes a bit more time, it has the added benefit of allowing you to connect with others) . . . another way to look for age discrimination centers on visiting other swing sites . . . we won't mention those competitors, 'cause we don't want to upset swingular management . . . but, hey, most all of us know where to look anyhow . . . in our experience, virtually all other sites list age preferences inside each profile . . . so, open a bunch of 'em and note age preferences . . . if your sample is big enough, you will see that there is almost no interest in those beyond 55 . . . it's almost like a cliff, and that somehow, sex, sensuality, desirability, etc, have an expiration date . . . we would like to think that it really depends on the individuals involved . . . and finally, there is an acid test: simply stick around the lifestyle . . . sooner or later, you will have a personal verification of the age discrimination issue . . . btw, we hope you do stick around, and we hope you have a great time doing it . . . so, how old is too old??? . . . we simply believe you are too old when finding suitable partners becomes too hard . . . what is "too hard" and who is "suitable" will vary for everyone, so the chronological marker for every swinger will be a bit different . . . but, the bottom line is the same: you are too old when this business gets too hard . . . btw, we certainly hope our time doesn't come too soon!!! . . . cheers!!! . . .

How far are you willing to travel ? - - HOW FAR AM I WILLING TO GO TO MEET THEM HOOK UP ? ALL DEPENDS ON HOW GOOD THE ASS IS ..... HA HA HA HA JUST KIDDING . U KNOW SOMEONE HAD TO SAY IT ........ WE REALLY DONT TRAVEL MUCH TO SEE OR DO ANYTHING ..... SO I WOULD SAY NOT TO FAR . BUT WE HAVE ALOT OF PEOPLE THAT INVITE US OR EMAIL US AND TELL US THAT WE WANT TO HOOK UP THEY CAN COME HERE . TALK ABOUT PRESSURE . I DONT THINK I WOULD GO TO SOMEONE ELSE LIKE THAT UNLESS I HAVE CHATTED ALONG TIME WITH THEM AND KNOW WE CLIKC WELL . OR HAVE MET THEM BEFORE . CAUSE I DONT WANT TO TRAVLE FAR AWAY AND THEN FIND OUT WE DONT CLICK WELL. WE HAVE 3 KIDS AND WE ARE REDOING A HOUSE .I RUN A SWINGERS SITE .HE DOES BODY PAINTS . SO WE HAVE NO TIME TO DO ANYTHING . WE ARE BUSY ALL WEEK LONG . AND THEN THE WEEKEND IS TO DO EXTRA THINGS AND SPEND TIME WITH THE KIDS AND FAMILY AND STUFF LIKE THAT . WE GO TO A SWINGERS CLUB ON SAT NIGHTS WHEN WE CAN GET OUT . AND WE WELCOME ANYONE TO COME AND HANG OUT WITH US THERE . WE ARE MAINLY LOOKING FOR NEW FRIENDS ALL THE TIME TO MEET AND HANG OUT WITH. WE PLAY WITH THE ONES WE REALLY LIKE AND CLICK WITH . WE DONT MEET ANDPLAY . WE ONLY PLAY WITH GOOD FRIENDS . I REALLY DONT CARE IF THEY LIVE OUT OF STATE OR RIGHT NEXT DOOR . AS LONG AAS IT ISNT GOING TO BE A ONE NIGHT STAND THEN WE CAN HANG OUT WITH THEMWHEN EVER THEY COME TO TOWN . ALOT OF SWINGERS TRAVEL ALL OVER . FOR FUN OR WORK . AND ALOT OF THEM COME TO OUR ARE CAUSE WE HAVE ALOT OF SWINGERS CLUBS AND NUDIEST RESORTS HERE . SO PEOPLE TRAVEL TO COME HERE ALL THE TIME . THERE IS SOME THAT COME EVERY WEEKEND . SO WE DONT JUDGE PEOPLE BY HOW FAR THEY LIVE AWAY FROM US . CAUSE THAT CAN CHANGE ANY DAY . IF THEY ARE LOOKING FOR THE SAME THINGS AS IN FRIENDSHIP AND THEY ARE RESPECTFUL AND FUN WE WILL CHAT AND STUFF LIKE THAT . WHEN THEY COME HERE THEN WE MIGHT PLAY OR NOT DEPENDING ON THE PEOPLE . BUT I DONT HAVE TIME TO TRAVEL TO GO TO PEOPLE. AND IAMNOT TO WORRIED ABOUT HOOKING UP TO DO THAT EITHER . THE LIFE STYLE IS ALOT MORE TO US THEN JUST HOOKING UP AND GETTING SOME ONE NEW TOPLAY WITH . SO I SEE NO REASON TO TRAVEL TO ANYONE . TAMPA IS FULL OF SWINGERS THAT LIVE HERE AND TRAVEL HERE . WE JUST SAY LET US KNOW WHEN U COME TO TOWN AND WE WILL TELL U WHAT PARTIES ARE PLAN THEN . IF U WANT TO HANG OUT THEN GREAT . IF NOT HOPE YOUR VISIT HERE IS GREAT ! BUT PLEASE DONT TAKE OUR FREAKS BACK HOME WITH U . LEAVE THEM HERE FOR EVERYBODY ELSE .......... HA HA HA HA NAUGHTY DREAMS FREAKY KITTY

Is hard core porn killing sex (and swinging)? - - So are people drinking and doing drugs more now than in the late 80's? Or are there just way more swingers and that automatically means more potential for failure?

Key West - Lifestyle Friendly Places in Key West - [quote=TONYIRINA]The best thing to do is hook up with some local nudist/swingers that have a boat and talk them into taking you out to the sandbar so you can get naked and drink till your completely pickled!! :)[/quote] So, Ginger and I are planning on going down to Key West either this October or next... Do you guys have a boat?

Why is it so hard for peole to answer their mail??? - - Not having the time is a poor excuse. All the sites we have used offer a "canned" reply that is polite and straight forward. All it it takes is a click of the mouse. Don't think I have ever received a nasty gram from a no thank you email. When we first placed ads on swinger sites years ago, most emails were answered. Now that the net is popular and used by more and more people I suspect the precentage of ads from true swingers is smaller. I does make one wonder when you answer an ad with information that describes exactly what the couple is looking fot and don't get an answer???

Swingers Club - Swingers Club - Looking to visit a swingers club for the first time? The closest to utah that can be consider a great experience is the scarlet ranch in Denver. Look it up. It is worth the trip.

hall passes - who all does it - Thanks Eros, as you agreed with me, our game has to improve. But just because we think we're enlightened and progressive because we're swingers, some of societies stereotypes still apply. Men are still men, and women are still women. In other words, pursuit is usually up to the male. Chauvinist as that may sound, it probably is more about genetics then anything else. How many species in the animal kingdom do you see, where the female aggressively looks for a male. It's almost always the reverse. So men, work your ass off in the gym, pay the 30 bucks for that that PDF manual on how to improve your game. (kidding of course about the last suggestion). What you may find is that it improves your own relationship with the wife or girlfriend. One thing I noticed, when I improve myself, it only enhances my own marriage and my other relationship. That's always a plus plus in my book!!!

RECOGNIZING OTHER SWINGERS - Outside of clubs & parties. - A few years back I learned right here in this forum that an upside down PINEAPPLE in your shopping cart was a signal to others that you are a swinger and on the prowl. So most times we are in a hurry while shopping, but when we do buy an pineapple we do set it on it's top in the kids seat part of the cart.. So far I have only ever seen 1 other person do it and I wasn't interested, so I passed. I have spoken to others about this and NOT 1 PERSON I know, knows about this!! So how many of you know this??? Also, I have been asked if I was a friend of ELLIS. (L-S) LIFESTYLE.... I did not get it at first, but this works as well if you already have reason to ask!!! How many knew this???

Where to go, what to do. - Non club activities - Hoe about a swingers bowling league ?