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Influx of Single Males - - Single guys, if you are going to show up, at a swing event, don't be a couples cock blocker, for lack of a better term, and try and insert yourself in the middle of couples obviously doing well together and conversing at a meet and greet. If you see a couple flirting with a single guy, here again, it does not mean that you have their permission to go get involved. Social skills are every bit as important within the swing community as they are in the vanilla dating world.
Many, if not most, of the wives and husbands, who are part of a swinging couple, are women and men that did not have any problem getting into romantic and sexual relationships when they were single. We are not, and never were desperate for sex or sex deprived. Hell yes, a lot of swingers are interested in discovering new and exciting lovers, and in pursuing a variety of sexual adventures! We do remain discriminate as to who we will date, and or fuck as part of our sexual adventures! If a guy can't get laid in the vanilla world, joining a swing site, or showing up at a swingers event probably won't make any difference. Polite, charming and attractive single men, who enjoy an association with the swing community, because they enjoy playing with couples, groups and such, tend to find some friends to play with, in and out of the swing community.
If you are a single guy and you are consistently striking out, it's not our fault, it's yours.
Help us out.. Take this Survey - For Utah Swingers - So the results are super interesting, and there are a lot of early/obvious conclusions... but I'll wait to share the complete data set until there are a few more responses... (Over 300 couples have already responded, which is more than enough to be statistically significant).
Sinle female but married , hubby not interested - Husband is not interested but wife is . - I agree with the above posters. Having seen a few threads like this on here you will probably find that the majority of this community will feel the same. Even swingers can cheat because cheating is about the lie. Most swingers I have met disapprove of cheating. (although, just like with non swingers, some still fall short of this ideal) The mansion party thing is a good idea. The environment doesn't require play and lets you understand this world before you make decisions about it. Your husband may find it not so intimidating and that there isn't actually any mustard to cut after all.
Why so much hate in the swingers world... - - BICOU4BIF_FL,
Again, your experience is unique to you. It's been our experience that very few single men have been "pushy" or disrespectful. It's different for all of us and doesn't justify anyone trying to foil every single males swinging life by campaigning against them as a whole. Intolerance is never justified.
If you choose individually not to play with singles, then that is ok. We all have our preference. However, why try and bad mouth the entire group, in an attempt to demonize them to everyone else or to exclude them from social gatherings.
If you invite people that are interested in single males to your parties, it will even things out. I think a lot of it has to do with insecurity. I have yet to see a married woman fuck a single male at a party without the her and husband's consent.
Alton wrote:
"but thats your opinion ,,you are right & we are wrong
then again we are right & you are wrong,,
it's funny, its a no win situation,lol"
Thanks for validating my analogy for murder, abortion, marijuana or any other subject. If you say it's ok to be racist, because it's your opinion. Then it should be ok to murder, because it's your opinion. Your logic is flawed. ;-)
-D-
Why so much hate in the swingers world... - - Uluv.... you asked and have gotten may differnt responses. We are one of those couples looking for single males but your location makes it difficult to hook up. As for the hate you feel.... well it is my opinion that people on here give their opinions and a person takes it the way the want. Yes your name sounds a bit like porno but this isn't the Brady Bunch's website either.
As for Utah being the whitest state.... that I would have to agree on. My 10 year old son met my sisters boyfriend a while back who is black and told him the he needed to use more soap because he didn't get the dirt all the way off. Thank god the guy was good about it but it comes from not many black people in this state.
And then to the comment about single males bring nothing to the table. I have heard that many times on these forums and it bothers me. A single male brings in a lot of different possibilities if you are open enough to the experience. If you are not open or have had probs with single males it does not mean that the single male cannot provide fun for another couple.
Tasha
"Black Ring" or other Lifestyle insignia? - - we use to sell the bracelets at the meet and greets but not that many people bought them... I think that when it comes to meeting new couples and thinking that you are turning them into swingers (not really the case) turns some people on so they don't want to be labeled....
If that makes sense?
Freedom of the Seas Swinger Cruise Nov 2012 - - [quote=JONJOY17]Is it really that much? We were looking into it but only on the website. Never made any calls... [/quote]
Yeah, go here https://secureregistrationonline.com/freedom_nov_2012/decks.php?affiliateId=6
In retrospec, that isn't too bad. Desire costs $400 a day per couple so this is right in line.
Mav
PS. Anyone want to open a Swingers resort and make some good money? ;)
Now that you're one of them there fancy swingers... - - [quote=DELICIOUSLYWET]Quality over quantity is what most of us want. If that is true then you have to strive to be what you want. Choose your friends wisely and you can spend your time enjoying and thinking about what you have going on in your life rather than what you want. Choose the right friends and perhaps the right opportunities could be so numerous you won
Secret Swingers Club Ogden, UT - Clubs - Does anyone know if Unspoken is having a LS gathering Friday night and if so what is the secret code to get in the door? If I recall this info is all on a secret facebook page that we are not on. TIA
Swingers cars??? - What ya driving?? - Any one doing MOAB in two weeks??
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