Dating for Open Relationships
Connect with other couples in open relationships. A safe, discreet community where you can explore connections outside your primary relationship with full transparency and trust.
Understanding Open Relationships
Open relationships are becoming more common as couples discover that love doesn't have to be exclusive to be meaningful.
What Makes a Relationship "Open"?
An open relationship is one where partners mutually agree to pursue romantic or sexual connections with others. The specifics vary—some couples only pursue others together, while others date separately. The common thread is consent, communication, and honesty.
Open ≠ Uncommitted
Couples in open relationships are often deeply committed to each other. Opening a relationship can actually strengthen bonds through increased communication, trust, and personal growth.
Growing Acceptance
Studies show that 35% of adults under 35 are open to non-monogamous relationships. Open relationships are no longer fringe—they're a legitimate choice for modern couples.
Types of Open Relationships
Swinging
Sexual activities with others, usually as a couple. Often at parties or with other couples.
Open Marriage
Married couples who allow each other to have outside romantic or sexual relationships.
Monogamish
Primarily monogamous with occasional exceptions under agreed-upon circumstances.
Don't Ask, Don't Tell
Partners have freedom but choose not to discuss details of outside connections.
Hierarchical
A primary relationship takes precedence, with secondary relationships having different boundaries.
Why Open Couples Choose Swingular
Verified Real Couples
Our verification system ensures you connect with real couples, not catfish or scammers.
Maximum Discretion
Robust privacy controls keep your open relationship private. You control who sees what.
Understanding Community
Connect with people who get it. No judgment, no explanations needed.
Free for Couples
Verified couples get free premium features. We believe in rewarding authentic couples.
Meaningful Connections
Find couples who share your values, boundaries, and what you are looking for.
Events & Travel
Discover lifestyle events and plan trips with other open couples.
Tips for Successful Open Relationships
Whether you're newly open or experienced, these principles help relationships thrive.
Communicate Constantly
Check in regularly with your partner. Share feelings, concerns, and experiences. Communication is the foundation of successful open relationships.
Set Clear Boundaries
Define what is and isn't okay. Boundaries can evolve, but having clear agreements prevents misunderstandings and hurt feelings.
Address Jealousy
Jealousy is normal. Don't suppress it—discuss it. Understanding the root cause often leads to deeper intimacy and trust.
Prioritize Your Primary Relationship
Outside connections should enhance, not replace, your primary relationship. Make time for each other.
Practice Safer Sex
Agree on safer sex practices with outside partners. Regular testing and open communication about sexual health are essential.
Go at Your Own Pace
There's no rush. Some couples take months or years to feel comfortable. Honor your timeline.
Open Relationship Questions
What is an open relationship?
An open relationship is a romantic relationship where both partners agree that each can have sexual or romantic relationships with other people. The key elements are mutual consent, communication, and agreed-upon boundaries.
Is Swingular only for couples in open relationships?
Swingular welcomes all types of ethical non-monogamy, including open relationships, swinging, polyamory, and more. We also welcome curious couples who are exploring these options.
How do we find other couples in open relationships?
Use our advanced search filters to find couples who share your relationship style. You can filter by location, interests, experience level, and what you are looking for.
Is our open relationship kept private?
Absolutely. Swingular offers robust privacy controls. Your profile is only visible to other members, and you control who can see your photos and details. We never share your information.
Can we explore open relationships without meeting anyone?
Yes! Many couples use Swingular to chat with others, learn from experienced couples, and explore fantasies online before deciding if they want to meet in person.
What if only one of us wants an open relationship?
Opening a relationship works best when both partners are enthusiastic. We recommend having honest conversations with your partner before joining. Our resources section has guides for couples considering this step.
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