Apply to Join Swingular
A private lifestyle community for couples and singles. Free for verified members with access to over 90% of features.
Please read below before applying.
What We're About
Swingular is a private, members-only lifestyle community built exclusively for those in the lifestyle.
Invitation Only
All applications are manually reviewed for authenticity and community fit
100% Real Members
Verification ensures every member is a real person — no fake profiles, no spam
Discretion First
No PII required. Full control over your photos, profile visibility, and connections
Who Can Apply
We welcome applications from singles and couples in the lifestyle.
Single Females
Open to all single women interested in the lifestyle community.
Couples
One shared profile for both partners. Browse and connect together.
Single Males
Accepted by approval. Members can block single males from contacting them.
How to Apply
Complete these steps to submit your application.
Choose Type
Select Single Female, Couple, or Single Male (by approval).
Complete Profile
Fill out your profile completely with meaningful, honest information.
Upload Photo
A profile photo is required. Faces optional. Blurred faces allowed.
Submit & Wait
Applications are manually reviewed. Most are processed within 24 hours.
Photo Requirements
A profile photo is required to complete your application.
Accepted
- Actual photo of you (or your couple)
- Faces optional — blurred faces are fine
- Tasteful nudity welcome (artistic, suggestive)
Not Allowed
- Cartoons, memes, or images that aren't you
- Explicit or pornographic content
- Close-up genital photos
Incomplete applications or missing photos will be automatically denied and deleted.
Privacy & Photo Controls
Once approved, you'll have full control over who sees your content.
Selective Face Blurring
Option to automatically blur faces to single men
Guest Member Protection
All photos are completely blurred to guest members
Photo Privacy Settings
Control exactly who can see your more intimate photos
Secure Storage
All photos are stored securely with encryption
Membership & Verification
All new members start as Guest members with read-only access. Verify to unlock the full experience.
Real Verification
Submit a photo of yourself holding a handwritten sign with the word Swingular, your username, and the current date.
VIP Verification
Get verified via webcam session or in person at lifestyle events hosted by approved organizers or Swingular representatives.
Verified members get free access to over 90% of features — plus more visibility, more messages, and more invitations because other members know you're real.
Approval Timeline
Immediate Access
All new users get read-only access immediately after registration. To protect our members, guest members cannot view profile photos, have limited access to profile information, and cannot interact with other members.
Full Approval
Applications are reviewed within 24 hours, at which point you'll gain full access to all features.
Ready to Join?
Create your free profile and join the lifestyle community trusted by real members since 2001.
Apply for Membership