What does soft swap mean?

Soft swap refers to couples who engage in intimate activities with another couple — such as kissing, touching, or oral — but do not have intercourse with the other couple. It's a common starting point for couples new to the lifestyle.

Is soft swap a good starting point for beginners?

Yes, many couples start with soft swap to ease into the lifestyle. It allows you to explore boundaries and build comfort at your own pace without pressure to go further.

How do I find other soft swap couples?

Many Swingular members list their swap preferences on their profiles. Use our filters to find couples who match your comfort level, and always communicate expectations before meeting.

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