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Encounters

Browse and post social meetup ads with specific dates, times, and preferences. Meet for drinks, events, and more.

Personal ads interface displaying scheduled encounters with date and location details

Key Encounters Features

Scheduled Meetups

Plan social meetups in advance with specific dates and times, perfect for organizing your lifestyle activities.

Detailed Preferences

Specify exactly what you're looking for with our comprehensive preference system.

Multiple Connections

Connect with multiple potential matches and choose the best fit for your planned encounter.

Types of Encounters

Date Night

Plan a social outing with dinner, drinks, and great conversation with like-minded people.

  • •Dinner & Drinks
  • •Club or Event Attendance
  • •Weekend Getaways

Group Social

Organize small gatherings with multiple couples or singles for social events and meetups.

  • •House Parties
  • •Venue Meetups
  • •Themed Events

Travel Companions

Find companions for upcoming trips, cruises, or resort stays.

  • •Resort Buddies
  • •Cruise Companions
  • •Event Partners

Creating the Perfect Ad

Tips for Success

  • 1

    Be Specific

    Clearly state what you're looking for, when you're available, and any preferences or requirements.

  • 2

    Use Quality Photos

    Include recent, clear photos that accurately represent you or your couple.

  • 3

    Be Responsive

    Reply to messages promptly to show your interest and respect for others' time.

  • 4

    Set Clear Boundaries

    Be upfront about your limits and expectations to ensure a positive experience for everyone.

Sample Encounter Ad

Couple Seeking Another Couple for Dinner & Drinks

Couple
Saturday, April 10th, 8:00 PMDowntown Area

We're an outgoing couple (35M/33F) looking to connect with another couple for dinner and drinks. We're planning to try the new steakhouse downtown and would love some company. We enjoy meeting new people in the lifestyle and prefer couples who are respectful and easy to talk to. Recent photos appreciated in response.

Couples OnlyDinner DateExperiencedDowntown

Search & Filter

Our advanced search and filtering system helps you find exactly what you're looking for.

By Type

  • Couples Seeking Couples
  • Couples Seeking Singles
  • Singles Seeking Couples
  • Groups & Parties

By Location

  • Distance Range
  • City/Neighborhood
  • Travel Destinations
  • Event Locations

By Date

  • This Weekend
  • Specific Date Range
  • Recurring Events
  • Special Occasions

Ready to Plan Your Next Meetup?

Join Swingular today and start browsing or posting social meetup ads.

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Frequently Asked Questions

What makes Encounters different from other social features?

Encounters allows you to plan meetups in advance with specific dates and times. It's perfect for organizing social get-togethers, group events, or finding travel companions.

Can I specify exact dates and times?

Yes, you can specify exact dates, times, and locations for your planned encounters. This helps set clear expectations and reduces scheduling conflicts.

What types of encounters can I post?

You can post ads for social outings, group gatherings, travel companions, event invitations, or any other type of planned lifestyle meetup.

How do I find encounters in my area?

Use our location-based search and filtering system to find encounters within your preferred distance range, city, or travel destination.

Are Encounters ads moderated?

Yes, all encounter ads are moderated to ensure they comply with our community guidelines and maintain a respectful environment for all members.