Creating an Effective Profile

Profile Basics

Your profile is your first impression. It should communicate who you are, what you're looking for, and give others enough information to know if you're compatible.

Complete all sections of your profile
Be honest about your situation and interests
State clearly what you're seeking (couples, singles, specific dynamics)
Mention any dealbreakers or requirements
Show personality—generic profiles get ignored

Writing Your Bio

Good Examples

• "Married couple, together 10 years, exploring for 2. Looking for other couples for dinner, chemistry, and maybe more."
• "She's bi-curious, he's straight. Interested in soft swap same room only."
• "Single woman seeking couples who prioritize consent and communication."

Avoid

• Empty bios or single-sentence descriptions
• "Ask me anything" (puts all effort on others)
• Negativity ("No drama," "Don't message if...")
• Explicit content as the only focus

Couples: Speaking as a Unit

For couples, the profile should represent both of you. Avoid profiles that only feature one partner or are clearly written by one person without the other's input. Mention interests and boundaries for both partners. Show that you're a team.

Get Verified

Verification badges (REAL and VIP) significantly increase trust and response rates. In a sea of profiles, verification signals that you're real and serious. It's one of the best investments in your profile.