If Something Happens

If You Test Positive

Don't panic—most STIs are treatable or very manageable
Follow your healthcare provider's treatment plan completely
Abstain from sexual activity until cleared or stable
Notify recent partners so they can get tested
This is a health issue, not a moral failing

Notifying Partners

This is difficult but important. You can do it personally or anonymously:

Direct message with factual, non-blaming information
Anonymous notification services exist for those who need them
Some health departments offer partner notification assistance

In the lifestyle community, responsible disclosure is respected. People understand that STIs happen despite precautions.

Continuing in the Lifestyle

A positive diagnosis doesn't end your participation in the lifestyle:

Curable STIs

Chlamydia, gonorrhea, syphilis, and trichomoniasis are curable with antibiotics. Complete treatment, get retested, and you can resume activities.

Manageable STIs

HSV (herpes), HIV, and HPV are manageable. Many people with these conditions remain active in the lifestyle with appropriate disclosure and precautions. Antivirals can reduce transmission risk significantly.

You're Not Alone

STIs are common. The CDC estimates that 1 in 5 Americans has an STI at any given time. Many lifestyle participants have navigated diagnosis and continued their journey. Support exists, and stigma is the enemy—not the infection.