Yes / No / Maybe Worksheet
A worksheet to explore desires and boundaries. Fill out separately, then compare.
Key takeaways
- •"Maybe" is a valid answer
- •Fill out separately before comparing
- •Discuss the "why" behind each answer
- •Update as your comfort levels change
How to Use This Worksheet
- Each partner fills this out independently
- Mark each item as Yes, No, or Maybe
- Come together to compare and discuss
- Focus on understanding, not convincing
Watching other couples
Being watched by others
Soft swap (everything except intercourse)
Full swap with another couple
Same-room play only
Separate room play
MFM threesome (two men, one woman)
MFF threesome (one man, two women)
Same-sex experiences
Hotwife/Stag-Vixen dynamic (wife plays, husband watches/knows)
Cuckold dynamic (with humiliation element)
One partner plays alone (separate play)
Wife one-on-one with another woman
Husband one-on-one with another woman
Attending a lifestyle club or party
Lifestyle resort or cruise
Online-only interaction
Video chat with others
Sharing explicit photos
Developing ongoing friendships
Keeping experiences strictly casual
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