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We will be there sept23-28. :-)
What are you really looking for? -
More than the profile -
[quote=SIMPLEPLEASURES]Looks like we end to arrange a party that is tailored for couples to meet and see if they mesh. [/quote]
We love these type of events, say ten couples or so in a casual type environment, to big and it seems you get lost in the crowd. Then you only talk to the ones you may already know.
Or maybe we should do a speed dating for swingers, ten couples and ten questions to give to each couple.
#1 do you like sex
#2 do you like sex
#3 do you like sex often
#4 if we have sex will we still be friends
#5 would you like sex now
#6 can we have sex again
#7-10 When can we ?
That may work huh
That may work huh
Polyamory -
Pro's and con's of Polyamory -
Question... As a new and exploring member, I find it difficult to understand where the difference is between FWB, Polyamory, and Swingers. Don't we all fall into the same lifestyle classification? I understand what each is, but maybe there is more for me to understand.
What to wear to a swingers party??? -
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Wear whatever makes you comfortable ladies wear something sexy guys don't show up in suit coat and tie or you will be the only one there like that ! Sports shirt and sports pants for a a guy is the norm. Clothing is not really a big deal if its a true swingers party clothes won't be on that long anyways lol.
Norm&Sharon
Why so much hate in the swingers world... -
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Posted By: KRISTYLYNN2002 Reply posted on:
Jan 8, 2008 - 1:23 pm
ok fuck it just line up at my door and i will fuck everyone that cums through it..
oh don't forget to bring your livestock,,
then you can call me a slut..lol
kristy
We plan on being up your way 3/6 - 3/9 We will have to hit saddle jacks ;)
Question -
do you talk about other swingers? -
No utfun your not wrong at all. Some times when people start talking (without name dropping) not meaning anything bad just an experience, other people will say things you dont want them too. Lesson learned here feelings get hurt and that sucks , so we just stopped talking about anything but good in people. Mr and Mrs tart
Do you kiss first and then ask?? -
Does anyone else ask about HSV 1 (oral cold sores) before kissing? -
Well the 80% number is for adults.. of course kids who have not kissed yet is less. IT is fairly contagious. Enough that the experts recommend changing towels in the bathroom often if someone in the family has HSV 1. So if a couple got married without many kissing partners when they were young and have been married for 25 years the 80% does not apply. The testing reliability is a problem because of cross counts between HSV 1 & 2 or some technical thing I dont feel like quoting right now. But some positives might be negative however a negative is good new from what I have read.
As far as swingers not playing because they have a tingle in their lip. I dont see that stopping many of the folks we have met at some of these parties.
I hear it all the time life is dangerous and you could get in a car crash today.... YEs but we do what we can to prevent things and some of us more than others.
Swinging Web Pages -
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Just throw "swingers" in the subject for google search and it brings up all sorts of pages, including plenty concerning the movie "Swingers" from a couple years back. The results are so many you will get tired of looking...;)
STD/STI Testing -
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[quote=ABCWOMAN]No, Toki, you are the Jackwagon! The way you responded to this thread is an obvious display of your lack of intelligence about this issue. Maybemor and others are just attempting to make this lifestyle a little safer for all involved. Not sure if you read much but there was a situation recently in Kansas City where a man and his wife were HIV Positive and managed to put a number of people at risk of contracting HIV, and these are supposedly "swingers" who know better.
I've been to parties for over 4 years!! Not everyone uses condoms. Maybe you do! But even a condom isn't going to protect you against Herpes!! You always use latex with oral sex Toki.. hmm... probably not.. and guess what, you are putting yourself at risk for Herpes!
Even if you get tested for Herpes you still are at risk. You could have contracted it on the weekend, go in on Monday get tested, the whole gamut of tests, get negatives on everything. Then two to three weeks later you come down with itchy bumps that turn into sores, oh shit, guess what.. yep.. you just were infected and are now positive for Herpes.. Why.. because you don't get it!!!
The reason we need more people to talk about this is people are getting STD's on this site and others like it. I applaud Rob and his willingness to do what some of you may think is not needed. Toki is a prime example of why you don't play with just anyone!
Sure you can't stop everything all the time, and frankly anytime you have sex with multiple partners it's a risk. But let's not be stupid folks, let's be careful. You only have this life to live, why fuck it up for yourself and the one you love because you are stupid?
PS.. I wrote a long post a few months ago about our own experience with the STD issue. I received a number of posts about others who carry HSV2. Interesting thing is some of these people who have HSV2, DO NOT always tell their potential partners they have the disease. Why? PURE IGNORANCE or just they don't give a shit (which is worse).
I want to make sure everyone knows, this is MR ABC who is writing this post.[/quote]
Again, the voice of reason. (((K)))
Do we need to remind people that if they don't want to read about a subject on the forum they do not have to click on it?
But in the meantime, until all potential risks from having sex are wiped out, reminders to get tested, practice safe sex, and having open dialogues are not going anywhere. If it reading about hits a nerve perhaps you seriously need to ask yourself WHY. And then GET THE FUCK OVER YOURSELF.
Kudos to MM for posting this.
xox
Tammy
Why the male side of Couples are here...? -
I will admit I am hoping to spark some heated debate on this.... -
Well as for me the male half in our equation I do not want to just get laid and I guess I am fortunate but the Mrs. would never think of treating me like a penis in waiting. I would not even consider knowingly fucking a woman that thinks about me or men like that. If that is really what women in the swinging scene generally think then all men, single and in a relationship, should be asking themselves why do they bother. I know there are a lot of women that behave otherwise, and that respect men that do at least dabble in non monogamy. These women would and should be insulted by such a selfish portrayal of who they are. Men that feel you are not worthy of equality get a hold of yourself.
Considering who I am coupled with that is easy to understand. My wife is pretty damned special and extremely sexy and we remain extremely attracted to each other and the sexual chemistry is still there and evolving. Yes it is much easier to understand why I would be so captivated by her then the other way around but she loves me and I know how lucky that makes me. We still really, really dig each other. We both have to feel some real chemistry with any potential playmates for sex to happen. When you are happy then why settle so we don't? No interest on either side of our equation to just get laid. We already suspect that swinging will eventually run it's course and we will just lose interest. We seem to be almost totally disinterested in all the big events and only occasionally attend a meet and greet. There is a lot of dysfunction within the community and yet there are a lot of solid self aware functioning swingers. Excuse us but even some of the established rules of safe and fair swinger engagement seem subject to a lot of dysfunctional interpretation these days. Maybe the ease of access to these events that allows all sorts of at risk singles and couples, with at least one person attending that just wants to get laid, to just sign up is a problem for us. For now there is still a place within us for close encounters of the sexual kind with the right sort of friends (Friends we already have thank you for being so cool) but we are NOT someone's dick or pussy in waiting.
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