Vetting Potential Partners
How to verify people are who they claim to be before meeting.
Pontos-chave
- •Video chat is the most important verification step
- •Both partners should participate in vetting
- •Take your time—good connections can wait
- •Use platform features designed for safety
Basic Verification Steps
- Check for REAL or VIP verification badges
- Review their profile thoroughly for completeness
- Look for reviews or certifications from others
- Have extended conversations before meeting
- Video chat before any in-person meeting
Video Chat Verification
Video chatting before meeting in person is essential:
- Confirms they match their photos
- Allows you to assess chemistry and communication
- Ensures both partners (for couples) are involved and enthusiastic
- Gives a preview of personality beyond text
- Use Swingular's video call feature to stay on-platform
For Couples Meeting Couples
Both partners should participate in the vetting process. A video call should include all four people at some point. Watch for:
- Both partners seeming genuinely interested and engaged
- Natural conversation that flows between all parties
- No signs that one partner is coerced or reluctant
- Consistent information from both partners
Meeting in Public First
Even after video verification, first in-person meetings should be in public places. A dinner or drinks allows everyone to confirm in-person chemistry and provides an easy exit if something feels wrong.
Use Platform Features
Swingular's verification, video calling, and messaging features are designed to help you vet safely while staying on-platform. Using them gives you an extra layer of protection compared to moving to other apps.
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