Bull Etiquette & Best Practices

Communication Protocol

How you communicate sets the tone for the entire experience:

• Always include the husband in initial conversations
• Ask how they prefer to communicate (group chat, separately, etc.)
• Never go behind the husband's back, even if the wife suggests it
• Be responsive but not pushy—couples are busy
• Discuss expectations, boundaries, and the dynamic before meeting

Respecting the Husband

The husband is not your competition—he's your host. Treat him accordingly:

During the Encounter

• Arrive on time, clean, and well-groomed
• Let them set the pace initially
• Pay attention to non-verbal cues from both partners
• If they want you to be dominant, do so within agreed boundaries
• Check in verbally if you're unsure about anything
• Be present and engaged—this isn't just about your pleasure

After the Encounter

• Send a thank-you message to both partners
• Give them space—don't blow up their phones
• Be graceful if they don't want to meet again
• Never share details with others or post about it
• If asked to do something you're not comfortable with, politely decline