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Swingers House Party in Jerome, Id - Free Swingers House Party - The date is final October 23rd 2010 Jerome, Id. If you are interested in cumming please RSVP to us at [email protected] and we will get to know you and get you all the info. Invite all your lifestyle friends. This is our second house party and being halloween feel free to drees up but costume is not required if that just isnt your thing. Couples and single ladies welcome with RSVP, single men must apply first cum first invited.
Orgy Party by Swingers Circle in Las Vegas - - [quote=SLCCOUPLEFUN]We attended once, left at the break...comically bad, like something that swinger horror stories are made of. Words can't describe the creep factor vibe that the organizer gives off, we still laugh about it several years later.[/quote]
Same here, wouldn't recommend. I'm still having nightmares.
Travel and first time - - Your comments make me wonder if you should be in this lifestyle at all. Controlling how close you get to someone is part of the territory. You solve that like any other problem by talking and making decisions togheter.
One time threesomes are as often a flop as they are a thumbs up encounter. A lot depends on what you are looking for along that line. If you have never had one you may not even know exactly what you are looking for. The two of you need to sit down and discuss what you want to have happen. For some it is just the size of the dick while the opposite end of the spectrum is some skill and the two of you working together to give her an earth shaking experience.
But, unless you are a minute man and pretty lousy in giving her what she needs in the bedroom I would not worry too much about it. But that is just me. If you are a stingy tight wad, or abuse her, or just a general putts and the two of you are always fighting then you might have a lot to fear.
Swingers do get divorced but stats will show that there is just as much danger from someone in your neighborhood that you do not know about than there is from a swinging with a couple that you know. In general you will find that relationships in and out of this lifestyle are a funny and complex thing. There is no such thing as a typical relationship. In general, although someone might give up a bad marriage for a relationship with someone else that is a better spouse. it is rare that someone gives up a good marriage just for someone else that is just better in bed.
who starts? - -
You would think, as much as the phrase [i]communication is key[/i], gets bandied about people would really want to actively engage in communication. It would seem natural that the more experienced parties would take the lead in discussing how things get done much like flight instructors explaining that when the oxygen masks drop from the overhead compartment, you place it over your head, secure the elastic strap and breathe.
However in this lifestyle that couldn't be further from the truth. The problem is that if there is too much chit chat then someone is always in danger of being dumbfounded by the use of a big word. It's hard to be sexy when all the blood is now rushing to your head in a desperate attempt to draw upon a vocabulary that just isn't there in the first place. How do you get around this? Well, I certainly don't need to explain the folly of having a dictionary next to the hot tub.
This is why it is strongly encouraged that swingers incorporate healthy role-play. When trying to get that new couple to first base it's best to stick with the basics. A good old fashion game of Neanderthals...ahem, excuse me, I mean cave people. Then the fun can proceed upon simple phrases like, "You look good" or "Me touch you now?" When becoming aroused you might say, "Oooh, this is how make fire," or "I look in hole for water," to facilitate cunnilingus.
This role-play is especially helpful to those who don't have hot tubs, or who may have suggested strip Uno because they thought a
Soft-core roll call - A call out to those interested in the softer side. - Canvas,
It sounds like you and your wife are not quite on the same page yet, which is quite normal at the beginning of exploring the Lifestyle. You are looking for friendships with those who are in a similar situation. That's a good idea, but be prepared that even those friendships may be fleeting as the chemistry or level of comfort may still be different.
At the beginning of our lifestyle journey, my wife and I were just as you are today, (I was also at a different level as my wife too). TheFunCouple offers excellent advice on going to meet & greets. I also add that you might want to check out a place like Sea Mountain Inn in Palm Springs. There you can see how comfortable it is to be nude in front of others and witness all the different levels of the lifestyle. You will have opportunities to talk to others and learn more. There is no pressure to play. Plus, you will be out of Utah and away from people who might recognize you.
If you are adventurous enough, maybe plan a vacation to Temptations Resort in Mexico. This resort is not truly a lifestyle resort but is a lifestyle friendly resort since so many non swingers go there. It still is a sexually charged resort. You will meet a lot of people who are similar to you there and you have a whole week to be relaxed, get into vacation mode, and explore your steps into the lifestyle together without judgement or pressure.
Lifestyle Vacations - - [b]Tampa - Swingers Resorts[/b]
[b]Paradise Lakes Resort:[/b]
The same atmosphere as the Hedo & Desire but a [b]WHOLE[/b] lot cheaper on the pocket book. [url=http://www.paradiselakes.com/newsletter_formatt-deb1.html]Click here for Website...[/url]
[b]Caliente Resort:[/b] Same theme and basic atmosphere as others and a lot nicer (but more expensive) than Paradise Lakes. [url=http://www.calienteresorts.com/index.html]Click here for Website..[/url]
Both are only a few miles apart, you could stay at one and visit the other one. Both places are "un-official" swingers resorts and have been here for many years.
Swingers Club - Swingers Club - There's a Chinese Buffet/Swing Club? Why wasn't I told about this?
I'd like a number 7. You get egg rolls with that, right? A number 12, oh and some crab wontons. (And some hot unicorns.) [em]Emo_84[/em]
And I have a coupon from The Clipper...
Ways to point out Swingers in public - - My wife bought me a super cool chevron stack ring (3 rings that stack together) by David Yurman. The middle ring is black. I wear it on my right hand and sometimes pull the 2 silver rings off and just wear the black middle ring. I’m always on the look out for black rings. We have some friends that wear them.
Do your friends and family know about your lifestyle? - - Its funny that this post came out, I was swimming laps last night at the pool in town, and the lifeguard came up to me and started telling me how she heard there was a swingers community in Blackfoot, and how what a wild town its becoming.
Rude comments can stop members from sharing. - - Well kids if your going to post photos that can been seen by people from "U-Taw" to Katmandu then expect feedback both good and bad OR just send them to your friends and get a nice round of applause to get that warm and fuzzy or hairy feeling... what ever makes you happy.
Personally we don't care for " close up photos" of either male or female organs, we love a good rare steak but I don't want to see a photo of it because that would NOT make me hungry. If a couple has those type photos in their personal photos the we won't be a match. (Call us Baptist Swingers)
That being said many on this site like posting the ---biggest dick/cum on my large hooters (Both real and fake) Vaginas on parade.... etc.
Quit your whining, spread it like the "Jaws of Life" and expect those that like it to give you THREE THUMBS up and a small group to give you the FINGER. (This is a forum)
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