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Girls that are into DP - How common is this activity among the swingers? - [quote=KITTYCAT27]DP is my fantasy and the reason why I signed up for a swing site.[/quote]Would love to help

Swingers Party - Doesnt mean who ever is there is open to everyone elsa - first and foremost, boundaries must always be respected and no one ever has the right to do things to another person without their permission. however, i also acknowledge that at a party where the intention/perception that playing will or is occurring can create some areas of "unknown". it is important to find out what is ok and when it is ok. for some, that means french kissing within the first few minutes, others may not. i have seen different ways that people have tried to find out. the simplest and most direct is to ask. however, i have seen people do so by "testing the waters" - small hug, then a bigger one, then a peck, then a lingering kiss, then french kiss, etc. and at each step trying to "read" the body language of the other. and i have seen that some people have become so "desensitized" to some of these things that their starting point is further on the scale than others. i dont have a problem with someone trying to open-mouth kiss my wife (even if they have only met for 2 minutes - which she has done with some guys and girls that she was immediately attracted to). i have a problem if they try, she tells them "no", and then they try again. but we go to these parties with the mindset that if there is a mutual interest of the involved parties, then sex is a likely outcome for the evening (unless the party is a "meet-n-greet"). and for us, open-mouth kisses are part of foreplay with our partners. we have even had some parties that we have just "made-out" with some without engaging in sex. ultimately, it is important to find the common ground of what is acceptable for those involved and being respectful of that. it is also important to politely inform someone when they have crossed a boundary. it is unfair of us to expect that others implicitly know all of our boundaries.

KEY PARTY - - We 'get' and actually applaud the effort to find some way to avoid the often typical cliquey swing party but still have to wonder how feasible it might be in practice. The problem, as we see it, is that swinging is an atypical social construct in that it is driven almost entirely by superficial factors such as relative attractiveness (age, height, weight, body type, breast size, cock size, and any number of other physical characteristics). When we first started swinging, back around the time Cleopatra was busy inventing hookup culture and the term unicorn, we quickly discovered that swinging wasn't the sexual egalitarian utopia that many people believe it should be. Indeed, there was actually a broad, distinct caste system, if you will, that governed who hooked up with who and who was relegated to the sidelines at least in certain circles or situations. This might be best illustrated by one of our very early encounters with two couples at a swinger meet and greet back east. One of the couples was loudly expounding on their utter disgust with the concept that people in the lifestyle seem to be so "stuck-up" (their term) and were too concerned about "looks" and other superficial characteristics. They went on and on for probably close to an hour before they, I guess, ran out of steam and decided to leave. After they were gone, the other couple at the table laughed a little bit and gave us some fairly sage advice. They told us that we would likely meet three general kinds of swingers in the lifestyle. They said that the first couple was the "Hey, you're swingers and we're swingers so let's fuck!" kind of people and that on the opposite end of the spectrum were the extremely picky, "beautiful people" who spent more time "watching the door" at a swing function always looking for the BBD (bigger, better, deal) and who more often than not left without actually hooking-up/playing. They said that the relatively smaller group in between those two extremes were those who had a little more realistic attitude and who were, while still giving a good amount of weight to initial physical attraction, actually looking a little more FOR reasons to play rather than for reasons NOT to play. They told us to decide for ourselves what kind of swingers we wanted to be and go from there but to never fuck someone that we really didn't want to fuck. *shrug* As to your idea of making it more of a "speed swinging" type of party, I'm almost certain that there are at least a few people here on Swingular who have talked about, if not hosted, just such a party. It might be interesting if they or any of their guests chimed in as to how it turned out.

does anyone else go through periods of doubt? - as to whether this lifestyle is what they want? - You sound perfectly normal to me. Some people need a real connection with a person to make a connection, whether it be physical or otherwise. Some swingers (especially the men) can just do it with anybody, it's just something new, that's good enough. Personally, I like to have a strong physical attraction to someone before I consider sex with them. Another thing you mention, I believe is also similar to me, I'm a giver, not a receiver. I love to perform oral, men or women,(and I'm told I'm really good at it :)) but I'm not that good at receiving it (from either sex) until that person has really learned me(how I like to be touched or licked), and it may take a few times together, and sometimes either I or they don't have the patience, lol But performing it on others, especially when they're really enjoying it is a huge turn-on for me. So anyway the bottom line is...who's to say what's normal or not, don't worry about it. The lifestyle is mostly about being free to enjoy yourself and others. So, you like what you like, enjoy yourself, if others don't like it, let them move on.

Girls that are into DP - How common is this activity among the swingers? - [quote=NEWFUNCOUPLEXXX][quote=TOTO73]only done it once, but would love to try it again. any volunteers [/quote] we haven't done but we are willing!!! lol[/quote] We would love to try!! ;)

Any Swingers out there? Golf swingers that is... - - The Mrs. doesn't golf, so if anyone needs someone to make a foresome, or a threesome, I'm available

Girls that are into DP - How common is this activity among the swingers? - [quote=CANDJ23]I can't wait to try DP! and I want to try having 3 guys at once, so I can have one in my mouth too...[/quote] Oh yes, now you've got her cumming! Totally forgot about one in her mouth and I should know better. ;) We'd love to try this too. how about DVP, DP, and one in her mouth, at the same time? I think we've tried the double vaginal with toys while I was slipping in the backdoor.......I'm thinking it was a bit much for her. Still hot as hell though!!

Destiny's July 29th Trio Birthday Bash Basement Party - On-premise swingers basement party at Destiny's Basement - DESTINY'S PRIVATE DANCE SOCIAL 865-898-8098 (cell) 865-856-5784 (Destiny's Number) Party Hours: 8pm until 2am Hosts: Tammy Williams Jeff Williams http://www.webspawner.com/users/destinyssocials/index.html http://www.webspawner.com/users/destinytw39/index.html http://www.swingular.com/JEFFANDTAMMY/ http://www.hometown.aol.com/tenaseestripper/myhomepage/profile.html http://adultfriendfinder.com/go/p49785c http://157159525.home.icq.com/destinys%20party%20services.html Hello All Guests, For this Saturday night, we're going to be celebrating some birthdays for some of the members, and hope you can cum and enjoy the fun and games with the birthday members. Two are female, so any guys willing to give some strip dances...fell free to.....and then we have one male that needs some attention too from the ladies...so cum on and have a ball with the rest of us. The party starts up at 8pm and goes until we can't party anymore. If you like to camp-out...I have a big back yard, so you're welcome to use it. If you need directions...you can google it...but the roads to remember are: Hwy 411 to Thompson Bridge Road..to Nine Mile Road...to Williamson Chapel Road...1028 Willliamson Chapel Road, Maryville, Tenn., 37801...turn in second gravel driveway please, and enter at the basement door. Happy Birthday goes out to Kelly tonight.....and Chip and Sandy was on July 18th, but were under the weather...but hopefully they're ready to make up for lost time.....lol........HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO YOU ALL. Take Care, Play Safe, and Enjoy Life. Your friend and hostess, Tammy Have a great night, Tammy PS.....Directions to new house in Maryville. 1028 Williamson Chapel Road, Maryville, Tn., 37801 From Knoxville: Take 1-40 to Alcoa Hwy. South towards Maryville Take Alcoa Hwy. and turn right at the split, towards Maryville-Fontana to 411 South Take 411 South for about 11 miles from (Foothills Mall) towards Greenback Look for Thompson Bridge Road on your left, after passing Loudon County sign (on right side of road) and turn LEFT onto Thompson Bridge Road, just past the Gymnastics Building and a closed fireworks stand, also on your left side of Hwy. Go 1.3 miles and turn left onto Nine Mile Road (look for a small white metal sign with "Wiiliamson Chapel Church" directly across from the road you turn left on.) Go 0.2 miles and turn right onto Williamson Chapel Road The Blue vinyl and red brick house is on your right, with two gravel driveways, with 1028 on the black mailbox. There is also a wire fence around the yard. Pull into the 2nd driveway, we have plenty of parking in the back, and Jesse will show you where to park. I will have a sign with "Destiny" that will be hanging from the mailbox. I'll have both my phones near, if anyone needs help getting to the house. From Athens, Chattanooga, Sweetwater, etc.. Take 1-75 North to Hwy. 411 North You can take Hwy. 68 from the intertstate or Hwy 72. to get to Hwy. 411 After coming into Greenback, go PAST Citigo gas station towards Maryviile You'll see the 55 speed limit sign....get ready to turn right. Turn right onto first road you come to........Thompson Bridge Road Go 1.3 miles and turn left onto Nine Mile Road, which is after you go around a sharp curve, also veering to the left. They will be a small metal sign with "Williamson Chapel Church" on it, directly across from Nine Mile Road. Go .02 miles and turn right onto Williamson Chapel Road Go over hill, around curve, and at the top of the hill, the house is on your right, with two gravel driveways, for parking in back.

Newbie Advice? - - Unless that's specifically the scene you are looking for and only want to play in you might want to seriously reconsider your screen name. A HUGE misconception among single males looking to play in the lifestyle is that most, or even many, married males are cucks looking for a bull to fuck their wives. While there certainly are some that are into that scene they are a very small minority of swingers. You might want to check out some cuck-specific websites or maybe even some Hotwife sites rather than swinger sites if that's your thing.

Looking to establish a group of safe swingers - - Ok, yeah HPV is fair enough. But I know we don’t have it. And we’d like to keep it that way.