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Swingers - a couples only lifestyle? - Are singles considered to be swingers? - Then how would you define the men and women that are involved in the lifestyle that are married but thier signifigant others do not play? They are married,do you concider them "single" then?My wife got my into the Lifestyle about 8 years ago and then she passed away 4 years ago,does that mean now that i am "single" that i shouldnt be in the Lifestyle? I am looking for a partner in the lifestyle and its not easy.I think that people who think "singles" shouldnt be in the Lifestyle really dont know what the Lifestyle is or what it represents.Sure,sex is a HUGE part of it but its not ALL of it.To me the Lifestyle represents the idea of people being themselves without being judged or riticuled for what the like or believe.Its about Adults being Adults doing Adult things with other likeminded Adults.Sex is the by-product of likeminded Adults getting together and having that certain "Spark",chemistry if you will,with the people they are around.To me,thats what the Lifestyle is about.If i am single,does that mean that i should give up those ideas and beliefs? Just my thoughts.Happy Swinging.Scott
COVID and Lifestyle - Testing or risking it - [quote=NPDP99]Hey we are in Tennessee and wondering if anyone knows of any adult theaters[/quote]
You've come to the right place. If there's ANYTHING that swingers in Utah are knowledgable about it's adult theaters in Tennessee!
Vegas: Swingers circle or couples oasis? - Which do I prefer - hotfire...which club?
Lying About Your Age? - Is lying about your age considered proper? - Does age really matter? I know several couples on this site and others that have porposely lowered their age. Basically, lying about how old they are. Is it considered proper among swingers to lie about how old they are? If they lie about their age, what else are they lying about? Once you find out how old they really are, and knowing they lied, would you trust them? Or, can you say you are younger if you look younger than your age? Does lying about age fall into the same catagory of deceit as posting pictures that are 5 to 10 years old, or saying 10 lbs or more overweigth is "Average"? Would having a penile implant or hysterectomy matter. Some would think it would matter more than age would. What's your opinion?
Church Swingers, are they out there? - - Notice to all the ladies:
Please refrain from yelling "OH GOD" when you have an orgasm.
We have heard about it many times........... - Couples that are swingers - mi hermano, if at al interested let meknow im straight but would enjoy some fun with your lady
alex
801-357 9559
Have you ever... - - OK, in the interest of playing, here you go:
Had sex outside? yes
Had sex in public? (movie theater, concert, theme park) yes
Had sex in an unusual location? yes
Had a threesome? yes
A foursome? yes
More than a foursome? yes
Had a happy ending? yes
Been tied up? no
Tied someone up yes
Been to a sex club / swingers club? yes
Watched a porno? yes
Been in a porno? Professionally? no
Wore a costume / role played during sex? yes
Recieved a spanking?yes
Given a spanking? yes
Paid for sex? No. (not directly, but dinner, drinks, etc...?)
Had sex with someone you weren't attracted to / didn't like? yes
Had sex with someone you didn't know / just met? yes
Traveled more than 50 miles to have sex? yes
How many States / Countries have you had sex in? 8 states
Favorite position? being straddled while sitting.
Had a 'nooner'? (skipped out of work / school to go have sex and then returned) yes
Had sex at work? yes
With a co-worker? yes
Slept your way to the top? no
Preferred location of "money shot"? Inside a nice wet pussy
Women - sexiest outfit / lingerie you own? describe in detail
Men - best pickup line? Pull my finger
Preferred hairstyle? (on you and on others) Shaved bare? Landing strip? 70's fro? Other style? shaved or trimmed neatly
Underwear choice? Ganny panties / tightie whiteys? Thong? G-string? Commando?anything easy to remove
Easiest way to get you turned on? her talking dirty to me
Worst mood killer? Him talking dirty to me.
Preferred style? Soft and romantic? Wham Bam Thank You Ma'am? Hard and fast? Hair pulling, ass spanking deep and rough? Yes Please.
Piercings? Love 'em
Tattoos? Love 'em more
Shoes / socks on or off?On. It means we can't even wait to get undressed all the way.
Do you fantasize about other people when having sex with your spouce / usual partner? Sometimes
Who is your fantasy partner? Who's available?
Describe the perfect sexual encounter... My next one
Willing to give me your answers in person? Naked? Absolutely!!!
We're Back!!! - Hi there! - [quote=Starlights]Makes me wonder how many viable, sincere hits you two get with such a specific search criteria. You don’t consider yourselves “swingers”, but you’re on a swinger site looking for an exclusive relationship… from my own personal experience and from what I’ve seen with others, this type of relationship with another couple burns short but bright. I always caution couples we know when they come across other couples that change their minds from a sexy fun friendship to trying to back them into a serious “exclusive” relationship… excluding all other friends they’ve made in this LS along the way. It can be a drama filled and painful road. I’m sure of the 6 couples you’ve dated over the years you can attest to that if you’re being 💯 honest to yourselves.
This type of relationship should be (imo) found organically and mutually if that’s what it ends up being… Saying you want to be exclusive with a potential swinger couple from the start, while upfront and honest, can sound forced and rigid. Some of the stories of possessiveness between couples just sound absurd to us given the LS they’ve chosen.
In any case, good luck with your search.[/quote]
👍 I get that. If I'm understanding Candyrocks criteria, I can empathize with them though. We feel similarly challenged in that we haven't much interest in couples whose focus is bouncing from couple to couple. At the same time, I realize that the relationship we hope to find is like looking for a needle in a haystack. Adding to that challenge is our location, and, more these days, the time.
Our search might be narrow enough that we're dooming ourselves of any adult fun with others. But, if we settle for something that doesn't closely fit what we're hoping to find, it would seem we were not being true to ourselves, or the other couple.
I Have A Question - Poly vs. Open - [quote=EVILDOERS]Thanks for the responses so far. I thought of a couple of additional questions. Are you seeking, finding and connecting with other open/poly people here on Swingular or are you finding people thru other means? Also, do you find that most of the people you connect with are single or are they in their own primary relationships? Does it matter much to you if they are single or coupled?[/quote]
Great question. Almost exclusively non swinger community singles surprisingly. Have tried amongst the swingers but they seem to have a very quid pro quo mentality.
Swinging capitol of USA - What state is the Swinging Capitol of USA and why? - Actually I would have to disagree wi Mr Evil. Although everyone brings up Utahs alcohol laws as the main argument. Although many question the laws here there are many states with more and stricter laws than us. The only one possibly as an argument is the 3.2% ABV beer content which is ridiculous. Anyway off point.
Perhaps that many people LDS or otherwise have just come to an enlightened understanding of what is meant by adultery and that it is not as deviant as people assume to want multiple partners as nature has hardwired into us over Thousands of years of evolution, and church or no church we just want to have a good time and party.
As for personal experiences during my month long workation in Hawaii I looked for swingers to play with and even being in the capital and most populated area of Hawaii their swinger scene from what I could find was non existant at best.
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