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Messages - why don't people want to message back - [quote=Sm435]
5. People totally content with swinging are already in an established party or meet group and have people come to them now. They are tons of fun, experienced swingers that know how to balance normal life and swinging life.
So we always tell newbs there is a huge learning curve to this lifestyle. No, it’s not the sex part, we all already do that, it’s the ability to sort through the mess and find connections. Living where you do makes it even harder. Try some other sites to see if they fit better.
Don’t jump at every friend request. Our experience over 4 years is the blind ones with no message lead no where.
We use the sites for first contact, then k!k (you can live pic verify there) and chat to see if it’s a match. Remember it’s a frustrating road ahead.
Just keep at it. We are to the point now we can spot most flakes, cheaters and collectors quickly and we block and move on. When you do finally meet just be open. Network, be friends, that can lead to parties or new friends. Start looking to just meet cool fucking people and learn from there.[/quote]
Well said. We just quoted the parts we completely agree with. You should remember that once you find a good group of FWB - you are less inclined to follow up on every offer. This is more a time management issue than a rejection. Hopefully people will still be responsive.
The only emails we don’t respond to are blind friend requests .... especially from people with no profile pics. Sorry - we won’t respond to blind requests. If you are interested - send a thoughtful message - if you are not, simply say so. We think that is good form.
Good luck - it’s wonderful when it works. We have been extremely lucky in finding some lifetime great friends. We’ve only had one couple we played with who ghosted us - we’ll never understand that - but it happens. That’s on them, not us. We feel like what comes around goes around. Wouldn’t change anything about our LS experience though - we feel blessed to have expanded our circle of friends to FWB. Lucky, lucky, lucky us!! May you all have similar luck!
Girls that are into DP - How common is this activity among the swingers? - I LOVE dp :) love love love. I would like to try dvp too. but we don't do single guys and finding girls that want to do it/allow their hubby's to do it is difficult. :(
swingin - thought this site was a swingers site - Not everyone goes to a swingers party with sex on the brain.
Many go looking forward to conversation, good food, good wine or other drink, connecting with old friends, making new ones.
If sex happens, great! If not, a great night was still experienced.
There are some though who go expecting sex, are quite crude and crass and then leave the party in a huff because nobody would partner up with them.
Go to any online community that is geared for a specific topic or lifestyle and you will always find off topic conversation. Why is that? Because human beings are multi-faceted beings with a wide variety of interests. We crave knowledge, humor, entertainment, enlightenment, you name it, we want most of it, if not all. When one's thoughts and spoken topics all center around one thing, it makes a person very dull.
I'm an excellent cook. But if all I ever talked about was cheesecake, rack of lamb, creme brulee, I'd be pretty damn boring no matter how cute I am. It's the same with anyone. One track mind, one topic = boring.
Open up. Show who you are, what makes you tick. That is how you make connections IN and OUT of the bedroom.
Ali
Girls that are into DP - How common is this activity among the swingers? - [quote=NEWFUNCOUPLEXXX]MMMMm! Sounds HOT!! We have never tried either!! WE really want to!!!! [/quote]
Let's try it!
Girls that are into DP - How common is this activity among the swingers? - oh yeah!....love DP
Why swingers are happier. - - Evildoers; I know it is for fun but I shake my head and chuckle. I now know what you do for a living. You must work as a spin doctor for a political organization. Because no other intelligent individual could take that much info about the general public and make it apply to everyone in this lifestyle.[em]Emo_17[/em]
What sets you apart from other swingers - Lets see whos looking for what. - Maybe it is the fact that I am single?! :z
Mon chalet - Swingers motel - Mon chalet was a great place for the weekend its a must try hot us up if you want info
Alot of you people are gonna freak out about this - our profiles - HEHE....I LOOOOVE to google myself!!!! And FLAPLAYA... don't say it will be a bad hurricane season, we are moving to NC in a month :-( Lived on the coast in Naples, FL for 20 years and was pretty damn lucky. Don't have to worry about hurricanes in UT, just all these freaky, crazy and BEAUTIFUL swingers!!!! I sure hope NC is just as fun...
Game ON....which sign is Hornier...(is that a word?) - zodiac signs of swingers? - Tony - Scorpio
Karen - Cancer
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