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Policing Ourselves - Can it be done? - Policing ourselves, can it be done? NO!
Advice for a newbie, LOL! I would say "RUN, run away as fast as you can!"
Seriously the first thing I would say to a new person/couple is "What ever you think swinging is, its not."
I think that with each couple comes different rules, as well as with each different scenario. How can you have a set precedence with as many different types of people that are even on this site alone? Let alone in the lifestyle.
I have often wondered why swingers would even have rules, I think the lifestyle is about the moment and with each moment you should take it as it comes. But that's just my opinion.
To set ground rules is to invite anarchy. Why bother?, a person either has respect, or they don't period. For every rule you could come up with someone could justify breaking it.
My 2 cents.
~K~
LDS Swingers Survey - Will any former/active LDS swingers take my survey? - if you add questions, maybe asking if you're still LDS. or if inactive or simply not LDS anymore at all... what age you left the church might be a good question.
Age - New to the swingers community - is age a factor in how a couple is viewed? - Wow! It's adorable to read the comments of those 20 through 40's. We remember those years. There are times that memories of incontrolable thrusts and unconscious passion give pause, but experience... though overstated is under-rated. Though there are some "young'uns" out there that appreciate the gentility of exploring "water flow naturally to seek its level, impulses more often drive than draw." A young, (or young in experience) lady sometimes welcomes a partner who has gotten past the self-serving impulses of youth. As well, a young buck who seeks to find his stride can benefit from being unthreatened by the challenges of unknown expectations and often finds the same growth. The true deciding factor is, "are you into the trip, or just obsessed with reaching a destination you've never been to? A true sensualist finds pleasure in the textures of a rose petal and burlap to be different... but equal.
Identifying Swingers! - Lots of talk and now some action! :) - we are only about 30 mins from you do you have a store, ect or can i call you to order them then you can send then to me ect .......please let me know
Thumper
How close is too close - - I think that the question poses a number of possibilities... If only one person is starting to feel something beyond sexual attraction then that person should step back and examine why they are feeling this way. If it is only one way then the person who is having the feelings needs to take stock of the reality of the situation and realize the potential problems involved. If the situation is mutual and noone else realizes it then the two involved need to discuss it... and they both have to weigh the situation. Why is this happening and are the possible ramifications worth the risks involved... If it is possible talk about it with everyone concerned and make a determination as to what needs to be done. I've actually heard about a situation where a couple split over a swinging situation and the lady from the one couple went with the guy from the other couple and the gal from the other couple went with the husband of the woman that went with her husband.. A real twist on the concept of swapping....
Being poly may put a totally different slant on how I look at this problem... since I am involved with a married woman. My wife and her husband are not poly... The other couple are not swingers and we are very good friend as couples... and everyone knows about she and I. It's very difficult to explain to anyone how this works but it does and it can..... So I have a unique perspective on love and swinging... or just married people and love between non married people in married situations.
I would generally say, however, that swingers should not get into love situations unless you and your mate and the other couple can handle this situation.. If a love relationship starts to happen run don't walk to the nearest exit and don't turn around.
Just possibilities .. There are quite a few poly people involved iin swinging...including some of the older people entering into swinging... They are looking to expand their sexual and love relationships as well. THere are also younger people in the lifestyle who are poly.. The subject has come up a surprising number of times of various swinger sites...
So if you're not poly and start to feel love for someone other than you mate... Assess you first as to why... but regardless, if you love your mate....get away fromo that particular situation...
Ray
Funny Joke About Forums - How Many Forum Members Does It Take to Change A Lightbulb? - WOW!!
After reading about BRADD, when swingers go bad, and controlling men I needed that laugh.
Thanks BABES!
Worlds Largest Sex Survey - Want to know what other people are thinking about sex? - This is one idea of what you may see.
When was the last time you had sex?
17.0% Today! (last 24 hours)
31.7% This Week (last 7 days)
18.4% This Month (last 30 days)
16.2% This Year
16.7% Loooonger Than a Year
Total Responses: 9019
Woo Hoo we are part of the 17% all the time, that is a good thing!
Another one:
Have you ever had a threesome?
74.8% No
15.7% Yes - 2 Girls, 1 Guy
6.8% Yes - 2 Guys, 1 Girl
1.5% Yes - 3 Guys
1.2% Yes - 3 Girls
Total Responses: 9106
WE HAVE TO CHANGE THIS ONE, SO MORE SWINGERS NEED TO ANSWER HERE - LOL - Too high of a percentage of NO's.
Skicouple - Going beyond flirt with delicious vanilla - I (female) have a very flirtatious relationship with my chiropractor. Sometimes I wonder if he and his wife are also in the lifestyle, because his flirting is so "forward". I know enough about his wife to say that my husband would love to play with her.
Would love to see some suggestions on how to approach the subject of asking him if he and his wife are swingers. I certainly do not want to make the guy think that I am suggesting an affair or a random fuck...
Male on male - Not sure if this is where this goes, but male on male tonight only. - [quote=MASSMN]I think part of the problem why guy's don't want to put it on the profile or try it is they may be afraid if their GUY friends would ever find out that might cause problems with their friends. Remember these site's can be accessed by anyone this is the same reason alot of swingers don't post a face photo. [/quote]
AMEN!!
But you'd be astonished at how many people here on Swingular just don't understand why some of us choose to NOT have a "public" profile pic.
Looking to establish a group of safe swingers - - This sounds like a good group to be a part of. We are interested.
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