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real members? - - You've struck on an interesting topic. I call them cyber swingers. They are swinger wanna be's . They find the thought of swinging erotic and interesting but they don't have the balls to actually get involved in the lifestyle. They like to hide behind the safety of their computer screen. They'll exchange email with you as long as you're willing or dumb enough to keep writing them. They'll never actually meet you or anyone else. That would be way too personal and would force them to crawl out from behind the security of their computer. Or you ocasionally run into the single guy that has created this fictional "couple". It's all a big game for him. He's just there to collect photos or maybe trick someone into playing with him because his wifes is "unavailable " at the moment. Whatever their game they're all the same because they both violate the principles of honesty and trust that the lifestyle revolves on. We get email all the time from couples that "have read your profile--think you guys are great and want to get to know you better". That generally sends off alarm bells for us. We'll respond and exchange an email or two. If the other couple doesn't have pics posted or pics of just one of them we ask for additional photos in the first email. Since we have good pics of both of us in our profile we never send any other pics other than those posted. If we get the "don't have any pics of him or he's camera shy or don't have a camera yet" or any one of the other lame excuses we've gotten over the past year or so--that's it--you're done as far as we're concerned. We'll give out our cell phone number right away and tell them to call us or give us theirs and we'll call them. We want to speak to both of them. If we can't because one's not there we'll call back at a more convenient time when we can talk to both of them. If everything seems ok during the conversation we'll make a date to meet at a convenient restaurant or club and take things from there. This seems to work well for us. It tends to weed out the "cyber swinger" right away. John & Colleen

Here's something Ive been curious about - - [quote=DELICIOUSLYWET][quote=EVILDOERS]You can't be a "real" swinger unless you're official. We answered an ad in the back of a Spiderman comic book, sent in a quiz and a drawing (boobs and a penis) and they told us we would be AWESOME swingers and to send them 19.95 plus P&H. Now we're card carrying swingers. If our certification ever expires we're just gonna be plain old wife swappers.[/quote] Did you also buy the x-ray glasses and the Sea Monkeys? Their advertisements are usually on the next page. I did and what a rip-off.[quote=PEBBLEROCK][quote=NAUGHTYELFS]we have discussed this and we feel it is possible for the ever elusive unicorn to be a swinger. however, for our money a single male cannot be a swinger he is just another horny male who is often single for a reason lol[/quote]That's the dumbest fuckin thing I ever heard!! A single (unicorn) female can be a swinger, but a single male is "just another horny male who is often single for a reason"??? What about a single female that's single for a reason? Whatever that reason might be...it's no different. Just different parts. That was such a huge chauvinistic statement from some fucker that's probably sittin home on his couch covered in potato chip droppings, wackin his fuckin pud as he picture-surfs everyone on here!!! It's people just like you that make it so hard for some of these really decent guys to get a dialogue going with a couple at least, or a friendship at best. There's no damn difference in a single male or a single female being considered a "swinger". The COUPLE is the "swinging" part of the equation, not the single...they're just wanting to get they're "fuck" on, male or female, for whatever reasons they might have. So do me a favor...hurry up and get your nut, wipe the chip grease off your fingers so you don't fuck up your keys too bad when your wife needs to check her email, and go hang yourself!!! I have no patience for fucktards like you that have no idea what this really is!!! Play your own game, but don't ruin it for other's that are trying like hell to play within the rules!!! Wanna borrow a rope???[/quote] Are the two of you, perhaps, being a bit reactionary about this thread? Pebbles I would agree that many if not most everyone involved in someway with the swing scene is mostly trying "to get their fuck on" and I appreciate you honesty, but to offer the guy a rope? Either he or she or both made a reductionist statement about single men. Their opinion really only spoils a single males chances with them and only them. Remember guys with the big sabers don't need to rattle them and the ladies also read these forums and the ladies usually prefer a gentleman. Peace people, peace. [/quote]You're right, I was a bit reactionary and over the top. I guess I get a bit defensive for the truly respectful single males out there. And YES we have them blocked, but only because Pebbles is into girls and very close relationships right now. Thanks for reminding me to tone it down a bit. Peace babies!

Do you kiss first and then ask?? - Does anyone else ask about HSV 1 (oral cold sores) before kissing? - Well the 80% number is for adults.. of course kids who have not kissed yet is less. IT is fairly contagious. Enough that the experts recommend changing towels in the bathroom often if someone in the family has HSV 1. So if a couple got married without many kissing partners when they were young and have been married for 25 years the 80% does not apply. The testing reliability is a problem because of cross counts between HSV 1 & 2 or some technical thing I dont feel like quoting right now. But some positives might be negative however a negative is good new from what I have read. As far as swingers not playing because they have a tingle in their lip. I dont see that stopping many of the folks we have met at some of these parties. I hear it all the time life is dangerous and you could get in a car crash today.... YEs but we do what we can to prevent things and some of us more than others.

Secret Swingers Club Ogden, UT - Clubs - The bar is called unspoken, but I can't find ANYTHING on it.

upside down pineapple? - - [quote=JULESVERNE]Just was told that displaying a pineapple upside down is a way of advertising that you are a swinger. In 20 years of being in the lifestyle, how have we missed this?[/quote] Greetings from your fellow 20+ yr. LS veterans. I think is a forced meme with more fuzz than action. But is relatively new, 4 yrs at most. You haven't missed anything. We would not approach anyone using an upside down pineapple because there are plenty of safer, foolproof ways to meet playbuddies. Also, what if I'm wearing a pineapple upside down at the mall and a single male approaches us about it? My pineapple will for sure go up his ass and then I'll lose it. As per urban dictionary, The pineapple represents hospitality and welcoming. A pineapple is placed on a porch or mail box by swingers to signify that a swinger party is going on. A pineapple is turned upside down when a person is in search of a swinger party. Originally it was turned up side down in the individuals shopping cart. But pineapple popularity has made it accepts on clothes and other items. Swingers use this symbol to identify each other in public. I'll stick to the good ol' internet or quality, single male free LS gatherings. There are plenty of those.

PLEASURE PALACE NEW YEARS PARTY - HUGE PARTY ALL NIGHT LONG WITH BREAKFAST IN THE AM - ALOT OF PEOPLE HAVE BEEN WRITING ME SAYING THEY WILL BE THERE FOR SURE . SO IT LOOKS LIKE ITS GOING TO BE A GREAT PARTY . IF U ARENT A MEMEBER TO PLEASURE PALACE . NOW IS THE TIME TO GET YOUR MEMBERSHIP . CAUSE THE NEW YEARS PARTY IS GOING TO BE A HUGE BLAST . IF U MISS IT THEN ILL SHARE MY PICS WITH U TO SHOW U ALL THE FUN U MISSED. HA HA I WOULD LOVE TO HANG OUT WITH ALL OF OUR FRIENDS. AND HOPEFULLY MEET ALOT OF NEW FRIENDS . PLEASURE PALACE IS A NON PRESSURE KINDA OF PLACE . SO IF U HAVE NEVER BEEN LET ME TELL U THERE IS NOTHING TO BE AFRAID OF THERE . THEIR PARTIES BRING IN FROM 500- 1500 PEOPLE . THERE IS ALOT OF SWINGERS GROUPS THAT GO THERE . AND FOR THE MOST PART. EVERYBODY IS SUPER FRIENDLY AND VERY RESPECTFUL . THIS IS OUR FAV SWINGERS CLUB . CAUSE OF THE WAY EVERYBODY IS THERE . THE COUPLE THAT RUNS IT TRIES VERY HARD TO MAKE SURE EVERYBODY IS HAVING A GREAT NIGHT . THERE IS HOST COUPLES THAT SHOW U AROUND THE CLUB AND HELP U MEET NEW FRIENDS IF U WANT THEM TO . THEY SEVER ALOT OF FOOD AND SNACKS . ITS A BYOB CLUB . THE CLUB OPENS AT 800 AND U LEAVE WHENU WANT TO . THERE IS TWO SIDES TO THE PALACE . A TAME SIDE TO DRINK AND HANG OUT AND DANCE AND ALL OF THAT . BUT NO NUDITY . AND THEN THE WILD SIDE . WHERE U CAN BE NUDE . AND PLAY ANYWHERE AND EVERYWHERE . THEY HAVE MANY DIFFERENT THEME ROOMS . A HOT TUB . LOT S OF COUCHES TO SIT AND WATCH SOME GREAT LIVE SEX SHOWS OR MAKE ONE YOURSELF . A POOL TABLE TO PLAY AS U WISH ON . ALL KINDS OF NEAT STUFF ALL OVER . ITS REALLY A GREAT FUN CLUB . AND THE PEOPLE ARE SO EASY TO MAKE FRIENDS WITH . REALLY ALL IT TAKES IS A SMILE . IF U WANT TO MAKE MORE FRIENDS THEN JUST WALK AROUND AND SMILE AND U WILL. IF U JUST WANT TO SIT BACK AND WATCH EVERYBODY YOUR SPACE WILL BE GIVEN TO U . WE ALWAYS HAVE A BLAST THERE .A ND ANYONE ELSE THAT WE HAVE EVER INVTED HAS ALWAYS SAID THE SAME AND CAME BACK FOR MORE FUN TIMES . WARNING ...... GOING TO THIS CLUB WILL HURT YOUR MOUTH . EVERY TIME WE GO MY MOUTH HURTS FOR AT LEAST A DAY FROM SMILING AND LAUGHING SO MUCH . SO PLEASE COME ON BY PLEASURE PALACE AND SEE WHY EVERYBODY HAS SO MUCH FUN THERE . THIS IS THE PERFECT CLUB FOR ANY LEVEL OF SWINGERS . FROM WATCHERS TO NEWBIES LOOKING FOR FRIENDS TO HARD CORE SWINGERS LOOKING FOR GANG BANGS . THE CLUB HAS IT ALL . SEE EVERYBODY THERE . IF U SEE US PLEASE COME AND SAY HI . NO CAMS ARE ALOUD AT PLEASURE PALACE . WE ARE THE ONLY ONES THAT TAKE PICS THERE . WE TAKE PICS OF THE PARTIES FOR THE CLUB TO USE FOR THIER WEB SITE . WE TAKE PICS OF OR WITH ANYBODY THAT WANTS THEM DONE . AND THEN AFTER WE GET PERMISSION FROM U WITHPROOF ON WHO U ARE WE EMAIL THEM TO U OR PUT THEM ON THE SITES PARTY FOLDER FOR THAT PARTY . WHICH EVER WAY U WANT . NAUGHTY DREAMS FREAKY KITTY

Kylie - ????? - [quote=EVILDOERS]Because Utah is fuckin' AWESOME and it's a little known fact that thanks to the Mormon church and it's history of polygamy over half the population are swingers. True story! [em]Emo_4[/em][/quote] And there is nothing more powerful than hitting a house party with all six sister wives in tow and passing them out like candy 🍭

Is it a “preference” or is it “ discrimination” - - [quote=DANDTCURIOUS][quote=EVILDOERS]Discrimination can be against non-physical attributes as well (Political and religious are the two most obvious nowadays.) But I would call almost everything else a preference, at least as far as swinging is concerned. One of the biggest hurdles we found when we first entered the lifestyle was people who were upset that, for whatever reason, we didn't want to fuck them. Their mindset was, "We're swingers and you're swingers so what's the problem? Let's fuck!" We did, eventually, come to the realization that in some instances our first impression, based on looks or whatever, could be overcome, in time, by getting to know people better and eventually finding a different kind of attractiveness that trumped simple physical attraction. YMMV[/quote] Oh of course discrimination can be against non-physical ... my question was can a non-physical attribute be just a preference and not be discrimination .. it sounds like you think so ... other than maybe with political or religious? Hmmm so let’s say someone keenly despises Trump, or Bernie (not that anyone does lol) .... like really can’t stand them. And someone crazy hot that LOVEs Trump, like wears a red MAGA hat loves, wants to hook up ... Could the political disposition “preference” still be only a preference, and not discrimination, if it gets in the way of any possible sexual attraction ?[/quote] Holy shit! You mean it messes me up when I wear my MAGA hat in sexual situations (Though I prefer a more discriminatory MAGA hat "Make Adam God Again" The Mormon Vatican peeps will understand that one)? I thought everyone got turned on by Trump. Ask him... He will tell you. He is the best at ______. 🤣 i freaking loved your example by the way, hilarious and good point. Great example, totally got the visual! 🤣🤣🤣

Ways to point out Swingers in public - - HAHAHA Yeah, I wouldn't ever think it is a guarantee on any level. We always wonder when we see other women wearing them. But as you mention, it seems like A LOT of people wear them, so we would never approach someone based on that. :) Hopefully at some point someone does approach us based on how i'm dressed, etc. But in our experience it means more for our playtime and fun than anyone else :)

RV Swingers? - - Well, shortly the wife and I will be buying a new RV and traveling full time for a few years. Is there anyone from the lifestyle that are full timers? We are pretty excited to get out and travel some and meet new peeps.