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BUSTED! Your Kids Found Out Your Swingers. Now What? - - SPERMINT-are you saying children finding out their parents are in the lifestyle is the "no.1 a reason for children to commit suicide"? Where in the world did you find this information?
Just because a couple is in the lifestyle and has children, why is it assumed that "for swinging the children may have now found evidence that the father is not the real father"? Who says the couple was swinging when they were building their family?
There are probably a lot of questions for children who discover their parents are swingers but I'm not so sure that this is the first concern.
"all i can tell you all here this is one of my professions i have worked with gov. agency for years". Hhhmmmmmm....government agency.... What capacity? Where are you getting this information or where are the studies?
???????????????wow, where to even go with this?
Swingers gone bad?? - - Just a thought here...
Compare this to another post about women being drugged at parties...
In both situations you are giving another human being a substance to reduce or remove any ability to say no to unwanted sexual advances.
Rape is rape no matter if it is an adult/adult rape or adult/child rape. And if someone is too drunk/high/drugged to consent and the person continues, it's rape.
To those thinking it's kind of cool, wrong. For an adult who is by their age, in a position of power to abuse that power and sexually assault another is not cool.
It's illegal, it's immoral and it's flat out disgusting.
Respect...Needed? or just forgotten. - - If we ever got rude replies like that, we just delete the mail, they arent worth our time. You have to have some common decency and repsect. A nice introduction with your name and an polite \'We\'d like to get together, how about we meet....\' will always gain more points.
We don\'t get much mail anyway, so we havent had to encounter it that much. But those messages we have gotten out of the blue are usually more rude then polite.
We find that the polite approach at the swingers club always wins us over and the single guys who just start touching, usually turn us off. Being cordial and you will get more :)
New Swingers Club in Utah - Gauging interest in new club - just curious if there has been any momentum from this feed? It seems there is a following, so where do we go from here? Being a swinger in Utah definitely has it's down falls, one of which being "follow through". We have tried nearly every avenue in finding fwb only to find most just want sexting buddies. If we had a place to physically meet, the way it was once upon a time before technology, there would be a much higher success rate at actually meeting people! I've seen an e-vite somewhere floating around that invites members of swingular to a private area of a public club downtown on Friday nights. Has anyone ever attended this? How was it? I think that would be a good place to start for getting a feel of how many would actually attend something like this if you are serious about opening a venue.
Cuming out of the Swinger closet - - [quote=CNTRLCPL][quote=SJA]After some time in the lifestyle, we have recently started to break the news to some of our close friends that we are swingers.
We have great friends and so far they have taken the information really well. However, we have other friends that would never want to hear it, and god forbid if we ever told our family about it.
What are everyone else's thoughts about coming out of the "Swinger" closet?[/quote]
Have you even considered the implications for others that may want to stay "in the closet"? You may be committing "Swinger Suicide" as it were... your openness might be great for you, but other may want to stay behind the curtain and would not want to be outed by association. [/quote]
This is an excellent point we hadn't thought about. Luckily, we've only shared with a couple VERY close friends. Plus, we keep our vanilla friends and swinger friends quite separate to avoid this situation.
Those damn single men! - Where do they fit in this lifestyle? - WOW!! I go to work and I get all kinds of replies! Thanks to ALL!!!
I'm not here to change anyones way of thinking!
I'm not here to tell anyone they need to change!
I'm not here for a pissing contest, and have done my best with this thread to avoid pissing on anyones toes!
Hwy I always enjoy your input, you are straight up and blunt I like that.
Sexy LMAO I'd enjoy seeing you in action at a swingers club...
UTHOT Sorry, I havent been sleeping well, and I get bored...
Lets all have fun in whatever it is you do...
Seeking mormon swingers - - [quote=ismello][quote=jim098777]i would love have some fun with you guys[/quote][/quote]
[quote=jim098777]I am interested text me 435-315-2415[/quote]
are you guys mormons? could you both come in your bike and short sleeve shirts?
The vent! - Judgements, I'm so tired of them. - Ah,
It's a decision we all live with - ebb and flow with. There are interesting things that occur within as Swingers, but the changes are pretty much within.
Learn to let go of what doesn't matter. Hold on to what does. In the end, live and let live! They are entitled to be as well as you.
So...just get in the mud and have a good time!
---------------K_T
"Loyalty to petrified opinion never yet broke a chain or freed a human soul in this world--and never will."
Mark Twain
Forum Community - EVERYONE!! - HEY WHATS UP WITH EVERYBODY ? MY NAME IS FREAKY KITTY . AND I LOVE MAKING NEW FRIENDS . SO IF ANYONE WANTS TO SAY HI PLEASE DO SO I ONLY BITE WHEN TURN ON .
NORMALLY ON SAT NIGHTS WE ARE AT PLEASURE PALACE . IF ANYONE EVER WANTS TO GO LET US KNOW . WE HAVE 3 KIDS AND VERY BUSY RUNNING A AUCTION SITE FOR SEXY CLOTHES AND STUFF SO WE DONT GET OUT MUCH . WE TELL EVERYBODY THAT WANTS TO HANG OUT WITH US TO COME UP TO THE CLUB .
SINCE WE DO ADV IN BODY PAINTS FOR PEOPLES WEB SITES AND SWINGERS GROUPS WE TAKE ALOT OF PICS . BUT ANYONE THAT WANTS TO HANG OUT DOESNT HAVE TO DO PICS . SO IF UARE CAM SHY THATS OK TO . BUT WE WOULD LOVE TO FIND MORE PEOPLE LIKE US . WE TAKE ALOT OF PICS . AND NOW TRYING TO MAKE THE TIME AND GET SOME FRIENDS TOG TO MAKE SOME MOVIES . WE ARE ALWAYS LOOKING FOR A GOOD PLACE TO TAKE SOME GOOD PICS AT . SO IF U KNOW OF A PLACE THAT WOULD BE GOOD PLEAASE LET US KNOW .WE WOULD LIKE TO FIND SOMEONE WITH A CAR/BIKE SHOP TO DO SOME PICS IN . I WOULD DO FREE ADV AND PICS FOR THEM IN RETURN OF LETTING ME TAKE SOME NAUGHTY PICS AT THIER SHOP .....
NAUGHTY DREAMS
FREAKY KITTY
PICTURE SURFERS HANG A 180 LOL - - I think what they mean by "friends and MAYBE more" is that they are looking for friends first and if everyone establishes a friendship and clicks sexually more will follow. I guess everyone is different when it comes to the lifestyle and some take it more slowly than others. Some require a strong friendship before playing, some don't. Some feel that they may establish a friendship but one of the people just doesn't click sexually with one or more of the others and that feeling needs to be respected by all.
When we first started we were in the mindset that we had to find "best friends" with benefits and quickly discovered that we don't necessairly need to be best of friends, we do need to like the other people though and feel that attitude and personality are very important to us. We've been fortunate enough to maintain a friendship with everyone we've played with and some that we haven't because one of the group just couldn't make it to that level but we still maintain contact with each other.
I guess what I hate the most is when you run across someone that thinks that just because you are in the lifestyle and on a swingers site you automatically have to lay down and spread for anyone that asks. Doesn't happen often but seems like we get more than our share of it.
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