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Why do they run? - Why do most couples run when you suggest a real full swap? - I am certain that insecurity has no bearing on the decisions that we make in regard to the lifestyle. What you are suggesting simply isnt for us. We take so much from being in close proximity to each other during our encounters that it would render the experience...perhaps ackward or fruitless, for lack of a better term.
There is a reason that so many couples run from the possibility of what you call \"full swap\". Many years ago when we were first introduced to the lifestyle, \"full swap\" entailed having sexual intercourse with another couple. \"Soft swap\" meant oral play or touching only, no intercourse. Perhaps the deffinition has changed over the years...
I am certain that what you are describing is closer to what traditional polyamory is all about. In fact, there is a reason why the couples that you approach about this subject \"run like the wind\" as you call it. More times than not, it has proven to be destructive to the relationships in question. Best intentions or not, we are all human. Shit happens. Most seasoned swingers know this, and avoid this situation at all costs.
Most of the relationships that we have seen over the years that were as you describe ended in ruin. Most of the people that we have known to consider this method were (coincidentally) new swingers, who had not yet developed a sense of direction or an identity in the lifestyle. There are some mistakes that you can make in the lifestlye without jeopadizing your standing with your mate. There are some that you simply can not. What you are suggesting to other couples, while it may seem like something that would be fun and cool, has proven to be atleast problematic to many other people.
Just our .02 cents.
Best of luck to you both.
Luvbugs! (mR.)
:D
Hollywood Swingers? - - Discretion is the name of the game. You could go through my trash for last 20 years and never find one scrap of paper showing my wife and I were swingers. My computer would be a different story. I guess a dedicated "hacker" could get into my computer but which one would he choose? Anyway, I say that if the Hollywood types want to play it is none of my business, unless of course for some reason they want to play with me.
Ways to point out Swingers in public - - [quote=FUNCOUP4SEX]I wear an ankle bracelet on my right ankle, which is supposed to indicate we are into Swinging/Hotwifing.
Haven't had one person approach us, or appear to notice it at this point. But it's fun and naughty, so we still go out with it. :) [/quote]
Ah yes, the old (hot) wives tale of the ankle bracelet. [em]Emo_4[/em] Got into a rather heated argument with a guy on the other swingsite we're on regarding that subject a few years ago. He was ADAMANT that it was a surefire way to identify other swingers as well as hotwives. I finally posted a pic of a group of tweens I saw down at City Creek Center...all wearing ankle bracelets. [em]Emo_49[/em]
Mormon Swingers - - search LDS in the name search, you'll have to sift from results but you'll find a few that actively proclaim it on their profile names
To Bi or not to Bi. - - Some great replies. Thanks to those that have opened up and shared your thoughts and experiences. It’s hot hearing the stories. Maybe we can meet some of you at the next swingers event. 😁
On Premise Swingers Club - SLC - we would join and come regular would love to see a place like this
Girls that are into DP - How common is this activity among the swingers? - Best way to have sex... ;)
Swingers cars??? - What ya driving?? - ours are still a work in progress for the mrs. a 55 oldsmobile super 88 four door with the orignal 324 and 4 speed hydromatic and i have to have a truck so if thats how it is then for me a 56 gmc with a chevy dash small back window and a in line 6 with a McCulic supercharger hopfully both will be running by next spring and they will be daily drivers as for now a 91 acura integra it makes gas and handles like the tires are glued to the pavment
Swingers Dares - Text for cards in the game - How about kissing the Ice cube to your Favs.Make out with the host/hostess, one minute.Everyone stand tightly in front of each other and pass the orange forward using chin/shoulder.Penis bagle tossTwo girls tie a ribbon on a penis only using there mouthsAll girls have to kissBlindfolded oral sex (guess who the partner is)Everyones blindfold and try to find your partner.Remove an article of clothing from your fav. and it has to stay off the whole evening.Try a friends drinkPass the cherry, lips only.Fondle For Fun (1 min.) your choice.Men, serve the woman through out the night; fruit, (periodically). There choice who.8:30 Clothes, 10:30 Lingerie, 11:30 one article of clothing. turn out the lights.Hope this helps, sounds like fun. Oh and the Bagle toss is a real ringer.
LOOKING FOR LADIES THAT LIKE TO CAM FOR A JOB - MY SITE IS GOING TO OFFER WEB CAM SERVICE FOR ALL THOSE THAT LIKE TO PUT ON SHOWS - IS IT A SAFE JOB ????
THE SHOWS ARE DONE FROM YOUR HOUSE OR A FRIENDS OR WHEREVER YOU WANT TO SET UP A COMPUTER AND PUT ON A SHOW .
THAT PART HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH ME .. OR THE SITE ITSELF . U PICK WHERE U WANT TO DO IT FROM .
THE SITE HAS FREE CAM AMOUNG MEMBERS . WE ARE SETTING IT UP WHERE PEOPLE CAN CHOOSE TO DO IT FOR FREE . OR CHARGE .
WHEN WE HAVE IT SET UP SO PEOPLE CAN CHARGE . U CAN STILL DO IT FOR FREE FOR THOSE THAT U WANT TO IF U DID WANT TO GIVE THEM A FREE SHOW . OR U CAN CHARGE WHOEVER THAT WANTS TO WATCH U AND WHO WANTS TO PAY . .
U CAN PUT ON NAUGHTY SHOWS WITH YOU PLAYING WITH A TOY OR PLAYING WITH A SPOUSE OR FRIEND OR U CAN JUST TURN ON YOUR CAM AND LET OR CHARGE PEOPLE TO WATCH U DO ANYTHING . LIKE CLEANING THE HOUSE OR WORKING ON THE COMPUTER OR TRYING ON CLOTHES . WHATEVER U WANT TO SHOW .
THERE IS NO RULES .
THIS IS NOT A CAM WORKING SITE . WHERE WE TELL U WHAT U HAVE TO DO OR NOT DO . . ITS ALL UP TO U ON WHAT U WANT TO DO OR SHOW .
WE ARE JUST OFFERING A SITE TO DO IT OFF OF .
WE DONT PAY YOU ANYTHING . U HAVE TO EARN WHATEVER MONEY BY DOING WHAT U WANT TO THE PEOPLE THAT WANT TO WATCH U . SOME PEOPLE LIKE TO WATCH LADIES CLEAN THE HOUSE OR STUFF LIKE THAT , OR DIRTY CHAT WITH THEM . IF THATS WHAT U WANT TO DO THEN THATS ALL U HAVE TO DO . IF U CAN GET PEOPLE THAT WILL PAY U TO DO THAT THEN GREAT . THERE IS NO HOURS OR ANY RULES ABOUT STUFF THAT U HAVE TO DO OR WHEN .. U CAN JUST TURN ON YOUR CAM AND DO WHAT U WANT TO DO AND WHEN U WANT TO DO IT .
THE ONLY RULES IS NO KIDS ANYWHERE IN VIEW . LIKE IF U ARE A STAY AT HOME MOM DONT TURN ON YOUR CAM TO JUST CLEAN HOUSE IF U HAVE A TODDLER WALKING AROUND OR ANYTHING LIKE THAT .AND NO KINDA OF PLAYING WITH PETS OR CRITTERS . ANYTHING ELSE IS UP TO U .
WHAT IF SOMEONE YOU KNOW OR FAMILY MEMBERS COME ON ??????
I CANT CONTROL ANY OF THAT STUFF . CAUSE I DONTKNOW WHO YOUR FRIENDS OF FAMILY MEMBERS ARE . OR WHO U DO WANT TO SEE U OR NOT SEE YOU IN THE LIFE STYLE OR ON A SWINGERS SITE OR ON WEB CAM ...
THE SITE IS OPEN TO ANYBODY AND EVERYBODY THAT WANTS TO JOIN IT AND THEY CAN USE IT FOR THEIR NEEDS AS THEY SEE FIT .
AS FOR YOUR CAMS . WHEN U ARE CHARGING PEOPLE THEN U WILL PICK WHO GETS TO SEE U OR NOT .U HAVE TO OK THEM TO SEE YOU . AND YOU WILL KNOW THEIR SCREEN NAME AND INFO . SO IT WOULD BE UP TO U TO SCREEN WHO U ARE PUTTING ON SHOWS FOR .
AND I THINK IF U HAVE THAT MANY FRIENDS AND FAMILY MEMBERS LOOKING FOR STUFF LIKE THAT . THEN MAYBE YALL SHOULD GO INTO BUSSINESS WITH EACH OTHER AND START YOUR OWN SITE WITH CAM AND MAKE LOTS OF MONEY .. HA HA HA
NAUGHTY DREAMS
FREAKY KITTY
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