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Singles who are married and cheating - - JenandBrandon: Spot on! If you can't discuss this with your spouse, 1 Don't do it! or 2 End it and move on! Don't drag them down into the gutter of lies deceit and broken trust.
Blueeysinutah: You are honest, and discrete. You're right your kids don't need to see this. But the fact that you are honest with your husband, whether he agrees with you or not (as you are separated and seeking dissolution of your marriage) shows the kind of integrity, so quickly evaporating from our larger society, that is to be commended.
T4REAL69: If you mean to imply that having open sexual relations with others means that as swingers we have no right to define any morals, there are plenty of places in which you may live in your sainted paradise. In our experience the greatest thing we have found among REAL swingers is integrity. This is one of the greatest and most anciently recognized virtues. Without that societies based on social contract of any kind will revert to total lawless brutality. The concept of "The Rule of Law" is a social contract, and has no hold where integrity is absent.
As for our part, we do take self proclaimed singles at their word with the honor system. We appreciate the honesty of those who do tell us about their situation, and decline any opportunities to play with them, as we don't need any of that kind of drama (buckshot anyone?) Even for those who are in the lifestyle and have a "hall pass" we will make a best effort to confirm with all parties that it is ok before we do any play. We do not feel it our place to "out" anyone whom we have discovered as a cheater, as this is something between them, with whomever they are espoused, and with whomever they are involved. If push comes to shove, we will however not hesitate to "throw them under the bus."
Tired of Politics and Religion! - - Quack quack ;)
There is a reason why there are many categories on the front page for forum topics.
It's called diversity.
Something that many so-called swingers claim to hold as a tenet of their lives.
So...in theory, there is a little something for everyone.
Gosh...there are even sexual/Lifestyle-related categories...which PROBABLY means that someone...if they get REALLY wild and crazy...just MIGHT actually generate a thread that's based on something sexually oriented.
Of course...it's wholly conceivable that those same "someones" JUST might prefer to expend their energy composing and generating a thread that whines about the non-swinging threads.
Perhaps ADMINISTRATOR should add an additional category to the list and call it "JUST FOR THE SAKE OF WHINING". I'm certain that this thread would be very apropos for that category.
Come on people...get real...and get a life...and evolve.
If you're soooo tired of the religion/politics discussions of late...start a thread of something you like; of something PRODUCTIVE, and bump the ones you don't like off the front page.
Yes...it's really THAT simple!
Gosh!
J
Safe Sex - How do you (or don't you) protect yourselves? - We now have the rule that we always use condoms. And we are still shopping around for the best ones that work for hubby. He would prefer not having to use them but not enough that he is going to stop. (Side Note: red condoms can have a BAD visual connotation for some guys)
I admit that when we started out we didn\'t use them the first couple of times we played. We then discovered that the first couple we played with doesn\'t use them at all. They had some of the same arguments I\'ve seen posted here. The fact that STD\'s can be transmitted via oral sex, condoms don\'t feel right, etc. I can see those points. But then we found out that they don\'t get tested at all and he picks up random chicks while traveling (with wife\'s knowledge and permision) I think that is the point that makes me the most uncomfortable. Most of the swingers we have met so far are very aware of STD\'s and take some precautions such as getting tested, condoms, etc. But I have seen the statistics on STD\'s in single sexually active people and it\'s like 1 in 4 and most don\'t know they are infected. So he is playing russian roulette in my opinion. We didn\'t know all this before we played with them.
So I guess the moral of the story is to talk with potential partners and ask questions!! For us newbies, it may be awkward and feel like you are being crass, nosy, or killing the spark, but the other couple should be willing to at least discuss it or maybe they aren\'t right for you!!
Carrie V.
Vegas Baby! - Clubs - Lived in Vegas for 5 yrs and just visited a few days ago. We agree with the "Nasty .. and not in a good way" comment. Been to them all and some that are no longer there. The Sin City Swingers parties are good, been members a long time. Don't waste time or money on Reds (Red Roster). If your not THE FIRST to use a room for the night, your just laying with everyone else that's been there. Green Door same way. Cleanest and best places are gone. Hit the clubs, sure you will find some great like minded people.
Have fun... and be sure to cum back and share your story..
Mormon Swingers - - You'll find them on this site...but you need a temple recommend to join them.
Pineapple Stickers - pineapple sticker = swingers? - We have friends with pineapple tattoos signifying they are in the lifestyle.
Requesting participants! - - Hi Everybody,
Who says you have to live in Utah to have a great orgy?
The Jacksonville Seductions Group is planning a huge get together for Swingers to meet with each other on Friday April 21st in the St. Augustine Area, and a follow on orgy to end all orgies ;)
Send me an email if you would like details or an invite.
I hope to meet you all then.
Are swingers moral? - Who determines what morals are? - MORALITY?
If ur asking then there's your answer.
First u have to ask yourself are u religous or Spirtual.
If ur Religous then banging someone else's wife is wrong.
If your Spiritual then it's more about the belief's/Guidelines you set for yourself in life.
That being said I'd have to think everyone on this site is more Spirtual than the other,
if not referrence Sodom and Gamorrah also Paganism.
Polyamory - Please share your thoughts.... - polyamory
Definition: participation in multiple and simultaneous loving or sexual relationships
bigamy
Definition: marrying while one has a wife or husband still living, from whom no valid divorce has been effected.
polygamy
Definition:
1. the practice or condition of having more than one spouse, esp. wife, at one time..
2. the habit or system of mating with more than one individual, either simultaneously or successively.
swingers
Definition: a person who engages in the exchanging of spouses for sexual activities.
monogamy
Definition:
1. marriage with only one person at a time.
2. the practice of having only one mate.
3. the practice of marrying only once during life.
(btw. i didn't write these myself. they were on dictionary.com)
Ways to point out Swingers in public - - How about an item most of us have, swingers or not, but then wear it very differently!
No mater if a person is a swinger or not most of us have a wrist watch and when we wear it it's on the left wrist and face on the out side yes a lot of people don't bother to wear it anymore they just look at their phone, so not only wear it, but put it on the right wrist and face on the inside of the wrist, if someone calls you on it and either you don't fancy them or think they are vanilla just having a dig at you, then all you have to say is "Really, swingers wear their watch like this!" and say thanks as you are taking it off and moving it back to the other side! Latter you can move it back again.
Maybe not always wear it like this but when you are going to known or supposed Swinger hang out place, Bar's Etc would be a good way all "Wave a Flag" so to speak.
Just a thought
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