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Preferences? - - So are we the only ones lookin to get some stinky hot strange? Or is everyone else just too ashamed to admit it? Swingers is such a shady term. It doesn't define everyone to a "T". To be a swinger does it mean we hard swap? soft swap? same room sex shit? Or what? Hell... maybe it just means I enjoy having someone else's wife watch me while I take a shit. (FUCK YOU FOR JUDGING ME!!!! LOL) The point is... that my wife and I are simply looking to explore our fantasies. These fantasies are very vivid and very clear. We never EVER turn anyone down as far as making friends and getting to know people. We love EVERYONE in the sense (as long as they are respectful). However when it comes to gettin down and throwin the bone? Well... to be honest... my wife and I have to both be attracted to the couple in question to begin with. That's not to say that couples who we weren't attracted to physically in the begining haven't broken through the shallow depths of our psyche, however for the most part we only will play with those we are attracted to. Some call it shallow, some call it having high standards. But one thing is for sure, we are in this for us, and no one else. I'm not looking for another wife and inversely she is not seeking another husband (at least... I don't think... WAIT A MINUTE!!!!)... So if we are not seeking the emotional connections, when it comes to sex that leaves what we are physically attracted to. Call it what you will, but I'm not lookin to fuck just anyone. My tubby ass (and YES I'M TUBBY) wants to bang beautiful women with my wife... FUCKIN SUE ME!!!! Don, don't sell yourself short... you are a sexy mother fucker and we both think so... her more than me hahahhahhaa. And BunnyPlus1... you just LOVE my hairy ass... and maybe my wife a little too.. but It's mostly me, just admit it already!!! -J

How do we find a female fire a threesome? - - [quote=8NowUntilThen8]Get the hell off of a swingers sure. Go to tinder or some shit like that looking for a single woman. Guess what bud? We are mostly couples in here except the irritating single males. Lmfao[/quote] Spoken by someone who has been on the site for less than 6 months. Try 15 years! Perhaps it is you that needs to get the hell off. Members of this site are tolerant of others; always have been. Now it is your turn to adopt to our ways or get the fuck out. Sorry, I don't normally call out BS when I see it but damn, that quotation was just rude and non-informed. Mav

Hollywood Swingers? - - I believe Gene Simmins and his lovely Gal are but i don't think that is news to anybody,,I'm not Famous but I was in that band Wall Of Voodoo who did that song "Mexican Radio"

How Do you Find Out - Question about Friends - For the most part, DON'T ASK... There are WAY more NON-SWINGERS in the country than swingers, so your chances of your friends being swingers is slim. There are a few things that will point to swinging. Check her closet. If there is allot of club wear the chances are better. Ask about their vacations. If they mention a place like HEDO they are pretty much swingers.. If there is a couple you would like to play with you can create a fun night and when things feel right, ask if they have ever thought about swinging... Keep in mind that not all swingers want to be KNOWN due to family, friends, jobs etc. Good luck... ... Steve

Denial - What is the proper way to turn someone down. - Your worrying about it too much. Hope this doesn't offend, but really you are over thinking it. I'd just do what you want to do and not worry about what everyone feels or thinks. The only thing you SHOULD do if you don't want to get a lot of emails telling you how stuck up you are, is just be NICE. Being NICE is actually pretty hard for some people and I still don't understand why. As for answering the mountains of board mails you will get on this site, Don't stress it. We used to think we should respond to every email and I'll tell you right now, it's impossible. We made a rule really early and that was that your friend request would only be approved if we did in fact know you personally, or if the one asking had made some effort to get to know us in a Chat room, or by email. One thing though that I would advise you as newbies on this site. If you allow your "sexual preferences" to dictate who and if you will meet someone in the lifestyle, then you are going to miss out on it's rich experience. Not everyone you meet that you may develop of friendship with is going to want to fuck you. So I'd not worry about meeting new people, even if they are asking to be your friend online. The key is always controlling how you'll meet people (which is easy) and then letting things take their course. As for the "old" factor. You both are going to be really disappointed then with the "No one over 35" rule. The average age for Swingers in the United States is 35-45. Your wife is fairly young, she feels funny about guys my age being her Dad's age, well the feeling is mutual. Contrary to what some women might think, it's not all about the tight ass and perky boobs. But as for a friendship (non-sexual) why the hell not? If your patient, friendly, and get out there and meet other swingers (like the parties), I think you'll find what you are looking for in sexual partners. I also think in some cases newbies are pretty "fixed" on what they think they want sexually. But after 4 years you may notice that what you "thought was ideal" is no longer the case. Keeping an open mind is pretty important in anything in life and it's not a bad idea in regards to swinging as well. Good luck to you guys Mr ABC

Moab Utah - Swingers in Moab - [quote=TheAdventurousCouple]Just got back...[/quote] Castle valley! Did you hit the whole enchilada? We love to ride down there...bikes and each other ;)

Destiny's June 24th Birthday Party for Tammy-the hostess - On-premise swingers basement parties at Destiny's Basement - Hello All, It's a Birthday Bash for the hostess, Tammy, at Destiny's Basement tonight, so come and enjoy all the fun and festivites with the rest of us, and get to meet couples from all over the world. I have a couple coming from Britain that will be partying with us tonight, and they are really excited to be able to meet the group. The party starts up at 8pm, it's BYOB, and I have a small 4 x 8 foot wading pool to relax in under the sunroom, if you like. There is a small door donation for each gathering. The address for the party is: 1028 Williamson Chapel Road, Maryville, Tenn., 37801 You're welcome to google it from your place to mine for directions. Check out the web site for more information about our gatherings through-out the month and year...http://www.webspawner.com/users/destinyssocials/index.html http://www.webspawner.com/users/destinytw39/index.html Hope to see you there tonight. Take Care, Play Safe, and Enjoy Life. Your friend and hostess, Tammy

Friend collectors or swingers - - We don't fuck people we don't consider friends. But you don't HAVE to fuck us to be our friend. Our friend list, right now, has maybe a dozen couples on it...only one of which we are currently (and infrequently, I might add) playing with. Personally, we're not looking for more people to play with until this whole COVID thing is a LOT more under control. Like SweettAndH, we prune the garden quite frequently and usually delete "friends" if there is no movement to get to know one another better in some way within several weeks at most. *shrug*

sluts? what? - how so? - [quote=DELICIOUSLYWET]There is a book called "The Ethical Slut: A Guide to Infinite Sexual Possibilities" written by Dossie Easton and Janet Hardy that defines Slut in a positive light. They might be using slut in that context. The book has been very popular with swingers for quite a few years. [/quote] I would hope they are using it in that sense.. but words that compile around the slut term make it strongly seem like it's a negative term.. sadly..

Best Halloween activities (corn mazes, haunted houses, etc) - - We're the same way lol, we'd love to meet other swingers in a non club/bar atmosphere.