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Where on Earth are all the hot Virginia Swingers? - Show us what you have to offer VA!!! - I\'d have to agree with BEAUTYNBEAST. VA is very uptight-\"This town needs an enema!\" lol

Reno Fun - Business Trip to Reno - Where are all the Reno swingers? I'll be headed out to Reno in a couple weeks for a couple weeks. My wife will be with for part of that trip. We'd like to play maybe while we're out there. Couples and single females only. We'd love to go out for drinks and dinner maybe and see where things go. Take a look at our profile. DMs open!

KUTV News Story on Swingers - News - "Dark side of the lifestyle?" Just in time for Star Wars. I see your schwartz is as big as mine.

Mexico! Come with us!!! :) - Trying to put together a group of Swingers to go to Mexico with us! - We have a little one but shouldn't be a problem, hopefully there's alot of hot babes!

looking for couples who want to be dominated - Couples domination - Though many people have fetishes and such most domi or dom would never act like this ever. Some people are into humiliation but swingers are in a league of their own.........You cant even get in the club you lozer!!! Go to some other site....obviously you can't find any....You retard!!! Oh sorry everyone else I think my Domi side just came out! YOu spineless pathetic peace of shit!!! Maybe you like the name calling cause that is all your going to get you groveling fool!!! I know their are people who love to get marked and, peirced and, even treated like a pet. I am not even against anything sexual or erotic. Some even enjoy blood and so much more....However it would be a very rare thing to find any real swingers even interested in most of these. Even a little Black Snake Moan is not so bad.....Very sexy indeed.....I love being choke but, I love being in control of everything and sooooo does my man. So can we dominate you the way you asked to dominate this community......I bet all who have replied would be willing to help torture you for you stupid ass comments. This post should of been deleted. Maybe even if you had a brain you could of asked it differently but you did not. People like you are out of your mind insane so go choke on your hanging rope!!! Now if you would of asked a simpler question then possibly you may have found a person but never a couple who likes this to that extreme.......Go to a fetish site....You will have better luck and even then its a needle in a haystack....Just saying....To know a dom you better address them the right way....You are not following any rules and at least someone who is submissive has rules!!!

Utah - - We like the fact that as swingers in Utah we have this dirty little secret that we have and we can sneak around (not unlike a cheating spouse we imagine) behind our neighbors, family and the Church's back doing all sorts of evil deeds and loving every minute of it. We've met TONS of Mormon "refugees" like ourselves who are so happy and excited to finally have the yoke of the Church off our backs that we go quite wild and enjoy our debauchery all the more. Other areas we've lived and "swung" don't quite have the same naughty feel as though we're getting away with something quite forbidden. So yeah, a lot of living in Utah can be a compromise and some of it downright sucks but overall it's extremely fun being EXTREMELY bad here. ;-) The Evildoers

What about the lifestyle didn't meet your expectations? - Preconceptions and disappointment. - I'm home bored, so stop here if you don't want to read a bunch of shite. lol. I think we both entered the lifestyle with some preconceived notions of what the people in the LS would be like, but that was mostly from our limited experience with being vanilla and having LS peeps try to hit on us. It just seemed creepy, desperate and gross at the time. We assumed most of the players would be super aggressive, ready to fuck anyone and have zero interest in relationships outside of sex. Our initial entry was simply to watch and be watched. We quickly learned that there are just as many wonderful people in the LS as out of it. Maybe more. There will always be the outliers, the few percentage on each end of the spectrum that are more extreme, but that happens in any population. Overall, it was a happy surprise. So that would be a negative expectation that wasn't met. As far as things we were hoping would happen or expectation that weren't met, we have very few. But we also went into the labyrinth without really expecting or assuming anything. I don't think we were naive enough to think that this segment of the population was somehow immune from the social characteristics that reveal themselves in any other social class or group. You will always have the "cool kids" the "shy people" the "jocks" the "geeks" the people who classify themselves as the "pity party" and blame the world for their problems. Those things will exist anywhere and should. Swingers are a diverse group of people with a few, maybe very few, common goals. Those goals I think are to meet others with social deviancy and those interested in expanding their sexual experiences or simply to meet new friends. Swinging, in itself, doesn't solidify your beliefs in anything else (politics, food preferences, choice of travel location, or even how or what you are looking for as swingers). I think that is where expectations can fail. If a person goes into a situation thinking, "I/we think "x" so everyone else must think "x" as well", they are bound to be disappointed. I've said this a lot of times, the lifestyle is not black and white. Life isn't black and white. There will be frustrations around every turn if you allow yourself to be duped into thinking your way of thinking is more than just your viewpoint, that it is universal to everyone. I see people complaining of flakes, people who meet once then run away, etc. That's how they roll. That's their truth. It's what they are comfortable with or wanting and who am I to judge. That being said, I don't have to associate with them and hopefully learn how to avoid that situation or become more efficient at finding people with similar interests. The lifestyle is work. Sometimes a lot of work. I think it's foolish to think that it should be easy to find 4 people who all jive. Think about how many people you have dated before settling on the right one for you. And to assume that somehow changes in the lifestyle and that after chatting on kik for a few weeks then meeting over drinks will somehow magically connect you. Ugh. Sometimes it happens. Sometimes not. But I wouldn't expect it. For others, the thought of any connection past the one-nighter is absurd. Why would you want to make friends with your fuck-buddies? It may be too risky and cause too many emotions. Point is, we are all different and that is what makes the journey so beautiful. And, just a note about flakes, since it is a recurrent theme. Yes, maybe there are more flakes in the lifestyle, but I'm guessing it's specifically related to the nature of the LS. Swinging for some can be very intimidating and frightening. Sometimes the chase is much more fun than the fucking. Not excusing them that do flake, it seems a problem for sure, but I think I understand, at least in part, why it happens so much. There is so much social pressure not to be in the lifestyle and most were brought up without it being the normal way to live. So society is telling us we are wrong, gross, deviant, etc. Add to that the fear of actually getting naked and fucking someone else and it can cause a lot of anxiety in some. When we first started we were petrified to even go the parties thinking it was going to be a fuck/rape fest. lol. Turned out we were wrong but it was a learning process. Lastly, if you are already treading carefully and the couple/person you are supposed to be meeting gives off any bad vibes, maybe flaking is best. It's hard not to hurt someone's feelings and honesty isn't always what happens. I know we have been honest with couples and it turned into a shit-show. Why don't you like us? If you only meet us and give us a chance we can prove we are wonderful. Other's like us, why don't you. It's hard to be honest at times about why there isn't a connection. May flaking be a way to spare feelings? I don't know. There are probably a plethora (Hefe, do you know what a plethora is?)of reasons people flake and some of those my be that they are just douches. But likely there are other people that aren't and are just trying to get out of a situation they are unfamiliar with. Avoid the douches but maybe give those others a second chance. Evil: always good topics you bring to the table. So you think because people like sex they should be good at it? I know a lot of people who love food but suck at cooking. haha. Maybe having too many options on the table can also make people lazy. I don't have to try hard if I know tomorrow is another partner. To some it's the quantity and not the quality. But I can see why the expectation would be there. All in all we really have no complaints. It's been a fascination journey. Some ups, some downs, but always and adventure. We will keep our expectations low, both of ourselves and those around us. Less disappointment that way. I'm going back to sitting in my underwear, drinking a beer and watching TV. Zero expectations. haha. :) Mr. SRO

San Diego Swing clubs - - We are headed for San Diego in a few weeks and are looking for some good swingers clubs. Does anyone have any suggestions???

When is this site going to get back to SEX - - This was exactly my next post so i will go with it and say: "we are looking for friends"? "want people that are not into jumping in the sack"? CUM ON people swingers have sex and make friends. if you are into making friends, networking, or looking for romance there are plenty of sites for that stuff don

Girls that are into DP - How common is this activity among the swingers? - [quote=XTRAINERBLK]DP & Airtight...yes. DVP..hell no. Just dont want to touch another guy's dick.[/quote] I'm 100% straight but.... http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Pi7gwX7rjOw