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KUTV News Story on Swingers - News - [quote=EVILDOERS]Just watched the story on the news and was EXTREMELY relieved it wasn't aired on a Get Gephardt segment. LOL Yeah, so the lady in question said she decided to swing with her husband to save her marriage after she gained a lot of weight (guess swinging is easier than a diet or taking up jogging) and that they went to "orgies" all over Utah...naming several cities and "even Bountiful" (the story showed the Bountiful temple a few times during the piece- she said being a Mormon she felt very uncomfortable swinging in a home within view of the temple). She also claimed that she was a a house party and the hosts young kids walked in. She says she started drinking because going to parties she felt like she was in the 5th grade where you wouldn't be chosen for a team...her husband was chosen to play but she wasn't. She has to go to rehab for her drinking. Eventually she wanted to quit but her husband supposedly refused and started going out solo and gave her gonorrhea. They are now divorced. Heidi Hatch was the reporter and apparently she started a profile and was communicating with couples here on Singular (yes, they identified Swingular by name and showed numerous screen shots and even some profile names) who wanted to make sure swinging wasn't portrayed in a purely negative manner. They alos had a marriage and family therapist who talked frequently throughout the story. Here is the link to the story on the KUTV website. Oh, and they mention Habits and Club 90.
[url=http://kutv.com/news/local/dangerous-liaisons-the-popular-state-of-swinging-in-utah]Swinging Story[/url][/quote]
Admit it, you'd love to see a Get Gephardt story on Swingular.
{Serious consumer protection music fades in and then out again.}
Man in silhouette - "I was promised loads of free and easy nookie, a lifetime of it! And at a low, low price. All I got was pictures of dicks even uglier and wrinklier than my own. And this Heidi lady who never even showed up!"
{Gephardt nods w/ an empathetic brow furrow.} "We reached out to the owners of the website for their side of the story; we'll update you when they reply."
{Gephardt grows old over the following decades and eventually dies of old age before owners reply.}
Single Females/couples. What makes another couple stand out? - - [quote=Marman]What makes a couple stand out to you? We are new and VERY inexperienced. We aren't sure how to be noticed. How to connect with like minded individuals. What draws you to someone's profile? What makes you message them? What keeps you interested?[/quote]
The situation in Utah is different than many other localities because there is not much of a club scene. By that I mean swingers clubs, most large cities have at least one or more. These are places where you can meet friends to have sex or fool around or even make new friends. They are very popular in Houston, we have 5 clubs. While its not what we like many younger people do like them. You probably will not meet a single girl but you could meet a couple or single guy. Some couples prefer swinger resorts or cruises for sexual activity with others.
We prefer dating other couples and getting to know one another over drinks and if everyone agrees then getting naked and exploring our boundaries. Of course attraction is the first thing we notice but how a couple expresses themselves in their profile really makes a difference for us. Parties are also a great way to meet people and meet and greets are also. We have no problem emailing couples we are interested in or think we might be attracted to and we probably get a response 10% of the time and maybe end up meeting less than half the time. Usually if we meet something happens sexually if everyone agrees and is having fun.
Your profile reads well and you are young and attractive. You need more pictures of the both of you even if they are just fully are partially clothed. One pic is unlikely to get the attention you seek. If you want to start with a single lady your chances go down significantly because there are few of them out there and they get to be particular on who they choose to meet. With single men its just the opposite, there are many and they will mostly meet anyone. Look at some of the other profiles and see what you like and try to incorporate that into your profile. If you decide to be really particular on who you meet then you will probably meet fewer people. Patience and a sense of humor about the whole thing will go a long way in helping you have fun times in the lifestyle.
To Bi or not to Bi. - - Society has imposed a morality code on most of us at one time or another be it through religion or laws. Lets admit it we are animals and although we may not act that way often, sex is one of the most basic animal instincts. Acting on those urges if you are a swinger means you can have sex with others and not fall into the societal guilt and jealousy others may feel. When we meet new swingers this seems to be one of the most difficult things to overcome.
We do not judge those who are bi no matter whether they are male or female. We are just not into it. She will kiss and fondle breast but its for show not enjoyment. He does mind if men touch because of proximity but he has no desire to be with another man sexually. We do not judge others who do and we have play friends where both male and female are bi and it does not scare us.
One last comment about labels. If someone is bi it does not mean they are gay or homosexual or lesbian unless they choose to be. Everyone should be able to choose their own label for their sexuality and who fucking cares what someone else says.
Young Swingers Week - Hedonism II - Anyone Going - We're heading to the October 2017 Young Swingers week in Jamaica next week. Anyone else going to be there? It would be fun to get a feel for people before we get there.
Have you ever... - - Saw this on myspace and thought it was interesting enough to post here and see what everyone's answers might be. Enjoy!
Fess up about your sexual history. Are you a flirt? A prude? A slut? A nympho? Please be as descriptive as you like.
(For the purposes of the quiz, 'sex' counts as genital contact with insertion.
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Had sex outside? Y or N
Had sex in public? (movie theater, concert, theme park) Y or N
Had sex in an unusual location? Y or N
Had a threesome? Y or N
A foursome? Y or N
More than a foursome? Y or N
Had a happy ending? Y or N
Been tied up? Y or N
Tied someone up Y or N
Been to a sex club / swingers club? Y or N
Watched a porno? Y or N
Been in a porno? Y or N
Wore a costume / role played during sex? Y or N
Recieved a spanking? Y or N
Given a spanking? Y or N
Paid for sex? Y or N
Had sex with someone you weren't attracted to / didn't like? Y or N
Had sex with someone you didn't know / just met? Y or N
Traveled more than 50 miles to have sex? Y or N
How many States / Countries have you had sex in?
Favorite position?
Had a 'nooner'? (skipped out of work / school to go have sex and then returned) Y or N
Had sex at work? Y or N
With a co-worker? Y or N
Slept your way to the top? Y or N
Preferred location of "money shot"?
Women - sexiest outfit / lingerie you own? describe in detail
Men - best pickup line?
Preferred hairstyle? (on you and on others) Shaved bare? Landing strip? 70's fro? Other style?
Underwear choice? Ganny panties / tightie whiteys? Thong? G-string? Commando?
Easiest way to get you turned on?
Worst mood killer?
Preferred style? Soft and romantic? Wham Bam Thank You Ma'am? Hard and fast? Hair pulling, ass spanking deep and rough?
Piercings?
Tattoos?
Shoes / socks on or off?
Do you fantasize about other people when having sex with your spouce / usual partner? Y or N
Who is your fantasy partner?
Describe the perfect sexual encounter...
Willing to give me your answers in person? Naked?
Swingers Dares - Text for cards in the game - Mike16 a bit off topic but... loved the very nice landing strip mrcheez favorite....
Missy, nice twist on the game
Tooele swingers party 2 - Doing our second party - Are you in PA
fantasy football league free trying to get only swingers in leag - free autodraft fantasy football league - We are in as coupleplay78
Picky Picky - No not your nose - I'm picky, like probably a little bit unrealistically so. I figure I have the man of my dreams who is hung, smart, fun, charismatic and attractive. I shouldn't settle for less then total attraction. This should be true for all.
I realize I'm a old hand at this, been in and out (ha) of the lifestyle since 2011, and I've basically done all the things, but if you're with your perfect partner then my understanding is swinging is an enhancement to your sex life. Never settle for less (old swinger advice for the newer swingers) just to have a new partner/experience/taking one for the team.
What are your thoughts?
Is this one of your rules? What is it? is it fear? or something - Does everyone feel this way? - To everyone, and no one in particular,
The reason I have asked this question was not to insult any one's rules, or chastise as some seem to have taken it, AGAIN.
I have asked this because our rules have changed and even lightened. As we get deeper into the lifestyle we have given up alot of our original rules and now they are more like guidelines. (I don't know if any of you remember the beating I took in the forum for having a no kissing rule, but after abandoning it I still have yet to find another man I can kiss passionately, just doesn't do it for me I guess.) I am still wondering why this is such a popular rule.
It seems there are many who have the "No friends, No play rule." I am only curious as to why.
I do not think anyone owes anyone sex, I don't think that everyone should fuck on the first date, I am simply curious.
We are very secluded in the south, and are limited as to options of swingers to befriend. A great deal of you Northern Utah swingers have this "No friends, No play rule," out of respect for your rules I can't hardly send you an email asking if you want to hookup this weekend as we are only going to be in town Friday, and have a life to get back to on Saturday. This would break your rule and I cannot feasibly ask it of you.
Our guideline for this situation is "Management reserves the right to refuse service to anyone." or in other words, we will see how it goes.
Anyway, I hope I didn't offend anyone, I have my own weird guidelines as well and have often wondered if there are just a bunch of weirdos out there I don't know about, or if I am the weirdo.
~CLASSY~
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