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Age - New to the swingers community - is age a factor in how a couple is viewed? - Being that we are in the older bracket, I would say that yes age can be a factor. It depends on the individuals involved, but many times people put upper limits on play partners and anyone over that age is a null factor. There are several women on this site over the age of 50 who may make some couples rethink their age limit or make an exception for them. Weare very active in the club scene here in NC and people know us and age doesn't seem to be much of a factor. I don't think that staying in ones own age bracket is the thing so much as the perception that older people are over the hill both in looks and performance. Just remember if you get too old to cut the mustard, you're never too old to lick the jar it came in.
How old is your profile picture? - Seeing that lately we’ve had issues uploading pics we wonder how often do you change your profile picture - There’s no judgment in forgetting the profile pic for a couple of months or a year.
Life is more than worrying about that old pic in the “swingers website” 😅
We personally get really bored if we see our same pictures all the time, honestly it’s so easy to neglect it, if is not one or the other, we move things around for the sake of our own entertainment lol
In the case of those who forget it and when the time to talk to someone or a couple come, then it’s a good time to refer to the new pic and some good digitals and selfies to make sure everyone is on the same page.
A paradigm shift - polyamory - Your thoughts? Here are mine... - Hitting the topic of Poly.... I am poly my wife is not. We swing. I have a lady friend, spice if you will who is also married and her husband is not poly and they do not swing. We, all 4 of us are fast friends and both my wife and her husband have no problem with her's and my arrangement. THey also know that We swing. Now how did that person come into our life.. we met and became friends almost immediatly. I fell in love with her but am sill "IN love with my wife as well. I< we, like to become friends with people before we jump into the sack with them... BTW they both know that we swing. Could I fall in love with another woman, definitely.. Could I fall for a woman who we might swing with....I could and have. No biggy...If she is not into that I understand... Not everyone can handle the situation
Some one mentioned that jealousy are natural.... Only in the sense that by example we are programmed to them, just as we are not "taught " not to eat other people but we kind of get that impression...Canibalism(sp) is not acceptable any more than is marrying ones own sister or brother. Possessiveness is about owning somthing that is not yours to own. No one owns anyone else and especially not their spouse. Is it natural to own a person? I say no. Somehow when people get into a relationship the idea creeps in that says that the other person is your exclusive property. One need to put that aside if one is a swinger. As for jealousy.... Jealousy is a combination of both possessiveness and ones own insadequacies. Maybe one could describe that as fear.. Fear that she or he will meet someone better. Fear that we are not good enough, etc etc etc. So Jealousy is a reaction to these fears and the possessiveness not a true emotion at all. Everyone thinks of Jealousy as an emotion, which it is not.
So polyamory is very possibly with swinging but may purists of poly will say that poly and swinging are difinitely two different things... Maybe but they can exist simultaneously.
Just a note; More than 60% and I've seen figures up to 77% of all married couples, and I'm sure that it extends to LTR's as well...maybe even swingers, are at some time in their life engaged in serial monogamy..; i.e., either cheating or getting ready for the split-up. Isn't this a simpler form of or something like poly? ... THink about that....
BORED *anything happenin tonight* - - Well ok then fuck it what bar is gonna have the most swingers per capita tonight so we arent alone and guessing lol
Swingers cars??? - What ya driving?? - our 1988 325i M only one in america... only one of 5 in the world... my baby..this was its 2001 magazine photo in englands 'total bmw' magazine
ha just horny...How bout you? - yep horny still haha - [quote=UtSkier]i think we are all always horny maybe that is why we are swingers. plus i love loads on my boobs[/quote]
Wouldn’t mind to contribute my load on your girls 🙂🙂🙂
SWING CLUBS - - This seems like a pretty standard thing for a swingers site and would be a welcome addition, especially if there's a chance to rate and/or offer comments on clubs. This would probably also be a big help in getting more couples validated, if there's a common place to meet someone. Actually, anything in the "info" section would be nice. Administrators, any idea when some of the proposed additions will be made? :)
Girls that are into DP - How common is this activity among the swingers? - [quote=JESSEJAMES][quote=EDANY0178][quote=JESSEJAMES][quote=EDANY0178]DVP? [/quote] double vaginal[/quote]Yes me please LOL[/quote] deal![/quote]SWEET!!!
Sexy swingers closer to our age - 20-30 year old sexy swingers - How r u two doing
Enchanted Garden Prom - Swingers prom - Foxxy Kay LS Events would like to invite you to come enjoy a magical night of dancing, mingling, & playing at our Enchanted Garden Prom.
Chef prepared hordeurves will be served. Couples $45 Singles $30. Professional prom photos will be available for purchase.
We welcome friends, swingers, couples and single ladies. If your a single male please contact a admin before purchasing your ticket (limited to select single males). Just want to be clear upfront... It will be held at a LS positive venue the CH. The exact location will be posted to you a few days before the event. It is in Salt Lake in the Rose Park area. The doors open at 7pm and no admittance past 10pm. There will be announcements at 9pm please join us.
This is not a get drunk party ( it is BYOB ) this is a mingle/dance/get to know others party. We will have a bar with basic mixers and water.
No drugs
Please follow the LS rules ( no shaming of any kind, always get consent, respect everyone, no pictures)
There will be a dance area, mingle and talk area, outside patio area, a bar area, photo shoot area and semi private rooms to play.
Crystal
Gunther Fox
Kay Fox
Mary Jennings
*Please use the venmo link provided in comments to purchase tickets. Tickets are non refundable and non transferable.
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