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Comfort level of casual vs relationships? - - probably in the 2 to 4 range. we are swingers, not really polys.
motorcycle rides - - We have a sport touring bike (tracer 900) and love to go on long rides, we'd love to do a swingers motorcycle trip.
Can you be in love AND swing? If so, tell us how! - - I guess I will make a much stronger response. The lifecoach is full of shit! My wife and I are both on second marriage and the previous ones fell apart because of cheating. It wasn't the sex it was the lies, the betrayal of trust. My wife and I love each other like crazy. Swinging is a recreational activity we could do without if we no longer like it. Even during swinging I am only sharing my wife's body, her heart belongs only to me and vise versa.
We didn't get into swinging to FIX anything. We got into it because we wanted to add to what is already great for us. It was not a replacement for something missing. our premise is making friends and if we have sex fine and if not we have a friend to do things with.
Also if anything swinging made me love my wife even more. Her love and trust for me cannot be affected even by me having sex with others. We have a couple of times swung (if that is the word) separately and she came back to tell me about it and did so with my knowledge that is what she was doing. And of course vise versa. We still trust each other and love each other. Plus while swinging I can see other men, or women, pleasing her and get a view of what she looks like from a different point of view than I have when making love to her.
As others have said, as long as you communicate, don't take things too personal, and maintain trust swinging will be fun and not hurt your relationship.
When I say don't take it personal I mean like one poster said you should be able to say "she give good head" or she is talented. LOL we had been with a guy in a threesome and the guy did something that I have never done and made the wife Cum really fast and hard. When she had recovered she blurt out without thinking "You have GOT to learn how to do that!!!!!"
It kind caught us both off guard but we laugh about it now. She didn't say "I love him more" She said "DAMN he has a technigue that send me through the roof!"
I have learned from the guy how to do it and have used the technique several times. Even if I can't duplicate it so what? She still LOVES what I do to her too. More importantly we still LOVE each other totally.
OK OK I willget off the soapbox. It just ticks me off that people who are supposed to be great at teaching relationships most of the time have relationships that suck yet they can tell you how to do it. BULL. Save the money for the LifeCoach and take a trip with a plane full of swingers and go to HEdonism III. It would be money better spent.
LOL I will quit now.
Required info for swingers - - haven't seen that one yet, we will have to check it out.
Swingular Hacked! - profile and email revealed - [quote=DELICIOUSLYWET][quote=EVILDOERS]Hmmmm. I got a lot of soft core and hard core porn when I Googled DELICIOUSLYWET. Oh wait. There's a pic of some food. Lot's of stuff about wet panties too. I'm not gonna go to the next page. Afraid I might get a bunch of pics of people micturating...possibly on rugs. [em]Emo_8[/em] [/quote]
That is why, unlike Shatner, rather than go get a toupee I just started shaving my head when my hair got thin. Nothing worse than going to a swingers event and having ladies with a fetish micturating on your rug.[/quote]
OMG, had no idea TBL was a thinly veiled reference to water sports and in particular water sports and toupees. Gonna have to watch it again to see what else I missed.
Best swingers club for a 26m/36f couple - - [quote=Drawn2Adventure]Try them all, everyone has a different flavor they enjoy. Some of the “expectations” people have on here in general are insanely unrealistic and so narrow minded….they might as put we only fuck super stars, but they themselves aren’t even close.
Almost the clubs mentioned have something or someone for everyone.
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Thank You and Goodbye - - I JUST WANT TO SAY A FEW THINGS .
FIRST OF ALL I HAVE SPOKEN TO THIS GUY AND HE IS REALLY COOL AND SWEET AND IS ALSO LOOKING FOR FRIENDS AS WELL .AND I HAVE ALSO SPOKEN TO OTHER SINGLE MEN ON THIS SITE AND STUFF THAT I HAVE HEARD OTHERS SAYING TO THSE SINGLE GUYS IS VERY RUDE AND UNCALLED FOR . IT IS ONE THING TO SAY THAT U ARENT LOOKING TO PLAY WITH A SINGLE MAN AND LEAVE IT AT THAT . BUT SOME HAVE GOTTEN VERY RUDE AND IN DETAILS . AND TO ME IT IS JUST SOMEONE ACTING CHILDISH AND HURTING OTHERS FEELINGS . THERE IS A WAY TO SAY NO TAHNKS . AND THERE IS BEING RUDE AND PUSHY AND HATEFUL . AND THERE IS NO REASON FOR THAT IN THE LIFE STYLE .THE LIFE STYLE IS HERE FOR US ALLLLLLLLL TO SHARE . FIND THE ONES U CLICK WITH AND HAVE FUN . BUT THERE IS NO REASON TO BE RUDE TO EACH OTHER . EVERYBODY IS LOOKING FOR DIFFERENT THINGS .
AND IAM THE ONE THAT SAID I HAVE MORE PROBLEMS WITH MARRIED MEN THEN SINGLE MEN . I LIKE LADIES . I PLAY WITH LADIES . IF AND WHEN I FIND A GUY I WANT TO PLAY WITH THEN SO BE IT ILL DO IT . BUT FOR NOW I DONT NEED IT OR WANT IT . AND I TELL EVERYBODY THAT UP FRONT . THE SINGLE GUYS (MOST OF THEM ) ARE VERY RESPECT FUL TO MY LIKES AND DISLIKES . AND NEVER TRY TO TALK ME INTO IT OR ANYTHING . I CHAT WITH ALOT OF SINGLE GUYS AND WE HANG OUT WITH THEM AT CLUBS AND PARTIES . AND FOR THE MOST PART THEY ARE VERY WELL BEHAVED AND JUST WANT TO HANG OUT WITH (NICE PEOPLE ) THAT WILL TREAT THEM LIKE A PERSON .
AND AS FOR COUPLES . YES MOST ARE LOOKING FOR OTHER COUPLES OR FEMALES BUT NOT ALL ARE . AND IF U ARENT LOOKING FOR A SINGLE MAN THEN U CAN SAY IT NICELY .
BUT KEEP IN MIND THAT WE WERE ALLLLLLLLLLL SINGLE ONE DAY . AND WE CAN ALLLLLLLL BECOME SINGLES ANY DAY . AND TO JUDGE SOMEONE OR TREAT THEM BADLY CAUSE THEY FALL IN THE SINGLE GROUP IS JUDGEING A BOOK BY ITS COVER . AND SOMEONE THAT IS SINGLE AT TONIGHTS PARTY MIGHT FIND MRS RIGHT AND BE THE HOTTEST COUPLE AT THE NEXT PARTY . AND I HOPE THE FIRST THING THEY DO IS TELL ALLLLLLLLLLLL THE COUPLES THAT THEY ARENT LOOKING FOR COUPLES . THAT THEY WANT TO GIVE A SINGLE GUY A TRY .
WE HANG OUT WITH ANYONE THAT IS RESPECTFUL AND FUN . THE SINGLE MEN ARE FUN TO HANG OUT WITH . AND THE MARRIED MEN NEED TO REALIZE THAT IF IT WASNT FOR THEIR LADY AT THEIR SIDE THEY WOULD BE ON THAT SINGLE MAN BOAT AND WOULD BE SITTING IN THE CORNER WITH NO ONE TALKING TOTHEM . WE TRY TO MAKE EVERYBODY FEEL WELCOME TO THE LIFE STYLE . AND HELP EVERYBODY HAVE FUN . AND MEET NEW FRIENDS AND PLAYMATES . JUST CAUSE THE LIFES TYLE PEOPLE SHARE SEX AND IS LOOKING FOR DIFFERENT THINGS DOESNT MEAN IF THEY DONT FALL IN OUR WANT GROUP THAT WE HAVE TO BE RUDE TO THEM . AND IHOPE U ARE NEVER WALKING IN THEIR SHOES . CAUSE THE WALK IS ALONELY AND HARD WALK TO WALK ALONE .
I DONT PLAY WITH NO MEN . AND FOR SOME REASON THE SINGLE MEN UNDERSTAND WHAT THAT MEANS . BUT I JUST CANT GET THE MARRIED MEN TO UNDERSTAND THAT ..... AND IF AND WHEN IAM READY FOR A (MAN) ILL PROB PLAY WITH A SINGLE MAN BECAUSE HE WAS SHOWING ME RESPECT ALL ALONG AND NOT JUST KISSING MY ASS TO GET SOME WHEN I ADDED ON MY PROFILE . HEY I THINK I WANT TO BE WITH A MAN . A MAN SHOWS RESPECT . MARRIED OR SINGLE . A DOG MISBEHAVES ALLLLLLL THE TIME . STRAYS AND TAKEN ONES . BUT I WOULD UNDERSTAND MORE IF THE HORNY SINGLE GUY WAS THE ONE BEING A DOG .
IAM SORRY THAT THE PEOPLE ON THE SITE HAS MADE U FEEL LIKE U NEED TO LEAVE . BUT U DO WHAT U HAVE TO DO CAUSE ITS ALL ABOUT FUN . AND IAM SORRY FOR PEOPLE THAT WANT TO CALL THEMSELVES OPEN MINDED LIFE STYLE SWINGERS CANT ACT SO DAMN CLOSED MINDED MOST OF THE TIME . KEEP LOOKING CAUSE U WILL FIND THOSE THAT ARE LOOKING FOR U .... OOOPPPSSS SORRY. IAM SURE THEY ALL SAY THAT RIGHT .
WHEN WE WANT U WE WILL FIND U . WELL DAMN WHO IS TREATING WHO LIKE A SEX TOY AND BEING RUDE . I THINK IT IS THE OTHER WAY AROUND . COUPLES TREAT SINGLE MEN LIKE HOW THEY SAY SINGLE MEN ACT TOWRDS THEM . I JUST DONT GET IT .
I WORK FOR A SWINGERS SITE AND U ARE MORE THEN WELCOME TO JOIN THE SITE AND TRY TO MEET SOME NEW FRIENDS . THEIR IS A PHOTO CONTEST GOING ON NOW SO PLEASSE ADD SOME OF THOSE HOT PICS OF YOURS ... I PROB WONT BE ABLE TO GET ANY WORK DONE... BUT IKNOW THE MEMEBER S WILL LIKE TO SEE U TO . HA HA
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WE WELCOME ANYBODY AND EVERYBODY THAT IS FRIENDLY AND FUN .
NO RUDE OR PUSHY OR STUCK UP PEOPLE .
NAUGHTY DREAMS
FREAKY KITTY
I SENT IN A PIC OF WHAT I THINK ABOUTMEAN PEOPLE
Meeting new swingers? - Where to meet them? - I think this is a hard one. In a small town, there probably wouldn't be a local swingers club so you'd almost have to resort to hinting around at bars or social gatherings. Obviously, you don't want to just come out and say 'Hey, we're swingers, how 'bout you?' But maybe trying to converse with a couple you may be interested in and gradually throwing out a hint here or there may be a way of going about it. Feeling out the conversation without being too forward. Maybe try to create a normal friendship with the couple at first, then introduce conversation that hints to the wild side down the road.
PLEASURE PALACE PARTY 10-9 - HOLLYWOOD DRESS UP PARTY DO U LOOK LIKE SOMEONE FAMOUS? - HEY WHATS UP WITH EVERYBODY ? I JUST WANTED TO LET YALL KNOW THAT PLEASURE PALACE THEME FOR SAT NIGHTS PARTY IS A HOLLYWOOD DRESS UP PARTY . DO U LOOK LIKE SOMEONE THAT IS FAMOUS? THEN THIS IS A GREAT PARTY TO DRESS UP AND COME OUT AND SHOW OFF AND TRY TO WIN THE CONTEST .IF U DONT THEN NO WORRIES IAM SURE ALOT OF PEOPLE WILL JUST BE DRESS UP SEXY AND NAUGHTY LIKE ALWAYS .
THE SWINGERS GROUP WCCC WILL BE THERE ALSO SO I KNOW THE PARTY IS GOING TO BE A BLAST . CANT WAIT TO GO AND SEE EVERYBODY DRESSED UP .
SEE EVERYBODY THERE SAT NIGHT .....................
NAUGHTY DREAMS
FREAKY KITTY
Certified Single Males Program - A new program that benefits respectable single men - I could see a little "course" on swingers ettiquete (sp?) but I think ALL men should take it...My experience has been that men with a girlfriend or wife are far more likely to break "the rules" so to say...
BUT I also think in lieu of that, maybe a system where couples can "ceritfy" the single men as being genuine and real, PLUS the course, the course may be one seal, the certified as cool another....
Who knows...Something should be done to make it a little easier for them...
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