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merry christmas - - we want to wish all of our swingers friends a merry christmas and a happy new year------i told my husband if he is good that santa clause is going bring him a merry ho.ho. and a happy new rear for his present ha ha ha lol
What are swingers really looking for ?Are they looking for frien - Has the happen to you. - i think as long as u are honest on your profile about everything that u want and dont want then they cant blame u if they dont want to take the time to read it all before they try to email u . just be honest with yourself and others . and tell everybody up front . it would also be more helpful if u wrote the people that u wanted to meet that way u have some control over who the people are . adn the ones that write u that are looking for something else . dont worry about it . it happnes to all of us . dont let others get u down . find people that are looking for what your want and have fun . we tell everybody that we are just looking for friends and we hang out with alot of different people . and we have been with different people looking for different things . sometimes people just clikc and can have fun . and some dont click even wanting the same things .jsut be honest and look and try to find people like u and make friends on the way . if u want to try someting new then do it . if not stick to what u like .
i like females . but we have a hard time finding a single female . so sometimes we find where the wife and i can play . and sometimes the husband wants nothing more then to watch . and we all have a great time . dont give up on your search .
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freaky kitty
age versus pics - - We have always had pics with our profiles, and we don't mind letting people see who we are. We've never had any problems yet. We figure if someone sees us on a swingers website, they must be there for the same reasons we are, or they wouldn't be looking in the first place.
We have pictures from last week, and we have some from several years ago. I doubt if anyone could really tell the difference. We're one of those lucky couples who have looked the same for a long time. We feel that if our pics are an accurate view of what we really look like, it really doesn't matter how old they are. We'd never try to fool anyone about what we look like. That would be dishonest, and that's just not us.
Gary & Paula
Looking to establish a group of safe swingers - - [quote=Whiskey_Girl]I think there are enough interested couples we should count off to form teams. If not the group will be so big there won’t be any control over safe sex[/quote]
That’s why want to chose the ones we think would be the best fit. So it is controlled. 😁
Age - New to the swingers community - is age a factor in how a couple is viewed? - We are thirties...BUT prefer the older couples...and men...BUT He likes the younger women......(embarrassed giggle)....
Swingers in the Mountains - - Is there really a swinger's convention in Alta right now???
Are there any real players on this site? - - [quote=Mayaswellplay]We have met some really fun people on this site but we are I Utah and it seems to be more active here. I think half the profiles think they want to be swingers, make a profile then get scared and never come back. Lol.[/quote]
We have a similar opinion.
Having lived all over the country, while participating in the lifestyle, we have observed that Utah has an entirely different, and quite immature vibe when it comes to swinging. We believe being on the site is what gets them off. They're being SUPER naughty, crafting fantasies together, but doing nothing more than taking up space.
The forums are a great example of that. All these threads about posting pics are lame AF. "Whose got the best ass!", "Show us your big dick", "TITTY TUESDAY!!". WTF ever... that's Jr. High stuff. You really don't see it on other sites the way you do on this one. In other parts of the country, they don't want you to post a pic of you pussy. They want you to get in the car and bring it over to the house to get fucked. After all, that IS the point. From the outside looking in, having experienced both sides, Utah is comical AF!
What is up with Utah?! - Swingers in Utah and nowhere else? - I stumbled on this place somewhat by accident, but it has turned out to be a pretty cool place. Now if only we could find some folks in Phoenix...
Bills Birthday Bash at Destiny's basement tonight 22nd - Swingers On-premise basement party - To anyone interested in attending a basement party tonight in Maryville, we're having a birthday bash for one of the members on here...two_out_for_fun...and we hope to see some familiar faces and even some new ones, to enjoy the night and meet some great people that are also members on here.
Where: 1028 Williamson Chapel Road
Maryville, Tenn., 37801 (you can google the address from yours for directions or call me)
When: Saturday night 22nd
8pm until 1:30/2am
Party Information: BYOB, On-premise, with no pressures or obligations
http://www.webspawner.com/users/destinyssocials/index.html
We have heard about it many times........... - Couples that are swingers - Queen, unfortunately your experience isn't so unique.
There are a fair number of people who are curious about the lifestyle and in their haste for some experience, neglect to mention whatever hangups they might have. People fear that if they don't throw in the obligatory "we're fun, open minded, and drama free" statement in their profile they'll appeal to a more narrow range of couples and it will take longer to have a first experience.
These people aren't always prepared for what's going to happen and I guess they just *hope* everything will work out okay - a very vulnerable state of mind.
This is why there are a few questions I try to harp on numerous times before meeting a couple regardless of what their profile states: Are you D&D free, herps free, what are your boundaries, is kissing okay, etc, because most peoples' knee jerk response is going to be the answer that they know is "correct" but not necessarily true. The key is to ask multiple times, because some people aren't likely to be honest until they understand that you're working in their best interest. Still, there are some people who will deliberately lie no matter what; there's not much that can be done for them. :!
Hopefully your first bad experience will be your last. Good luck!
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