My gf and I are a pre-softswap couple that are just learning about the lifestyle now.
My penis is 5' when erect and 2.5 inches flaccid. I was wondering if this would hinder my swinging ability!
Can I still swing just as hard as everyone else with my small penis?
My penis is 5' when erect and 2.5 inches flaccid. I was wondering if this would hinder my swinging ability!
Can I still swing just as hard as everyone else with my small penis?
Not at all. Most of the women I have talked to loves the variety.
That makes sense.
I am pretty secure with my body. I understand that with a smaller sized penis I won't be the first to be invited to a gang-bang.
I don't think having a small penis will inhibit me doing other activities though.
Any thoughts?
I am pretty secure with my body. I understand that with a smaller sized penis I won't be the first to be invited to a gang-bang.
I don't think having a small penis will inhibit me doing other activities though.
Any thoughts?
The smaller penises may get attention/invites to go where the monsters cannot. 
You look pretty young, perhaps you haven't finished growing yet? :z
Yea I've read about those averages. The average penis in the lifestyle though would definitely be larger than the world average considering larger ones would be attracted to the lifestyle.
I have never had trouble finding sexual partners or even one night stands back in college, so I am pretty confident in my sexual ability. My girlfriend is perfectly happy with my size too and has never even brought it up. BUT- I don't think it would hurt to look into some penis enlargement exercises just to do for my own self image. Maybe I'll look into some enlargement strategies (I will definitely avoid all of the ones that look like scams).
I have never had trouble finding sexual partners or even one night stands back in college, so I am pretty confident in my sexual ability. My girlfriend is perfectly happy with my size too and has never even brought it up. BUT- I don't think it would hurt to look into some penis enlargement exercises just to do for my own self image. Maybe I'll look into some enlargement strategies (I will definitely avoid all of the ones that look like scams).
If you are 5 inches then you are not as small as you think, since most information I can find on penis size says that the average erect penis size is 5 to 7 inches, so you are in average range. Also, your lady looks to be extremeely hot, so if she's satisfied, then I'm sure there are plenty of other hotties out there who will be satisfied too.
Happy Swinging!
Happy Swinging!
thats probably true.
the people who are likely to post pics of their packages are going to be well endowed. that and porn stars are huge.
if you browse the net you are going to get the impression the average is 8 inches haha. compared to most internet postings and porn, im small, but in reality im probably not THAT small.
but still, i probably wont be first pick for couples or women looking to swing
the people who are likely to post pics of their packages are going to be well endowed. that and porn stars are huge.
if you browse the net you are going to get the impression the average is 8 inches haha. compared to most internet postings and porn, im small, but in reality im probably not THAT small.
but still, i probably wont be first pick for couples or women looking to swing
ok i have to jump on this.. mine is i guess average (never measured) but I joke all the time and tell people that its like candy on Halloween... ya know "fun Size" it get a chuckle out of the women and then when i slide it in they are pleasantly surprised.
Being a guy who is 'blessed,' I can tell you a few things:
1.) I am NOT user friendly...A little bit hard to handle for some.
2.) THere are some playgrounds I am not invited to, anal is NEVER offered nor OK'd.
3.) Once people know about my size, I become a walking penis.
4.) Do NOT believe what people say about size, the ruler used by swingers is missing, on average, about 3-4 inches on them, so a 12 incher is really 8 or 9...
1.) I am NOT user friendly...A little bit hard to handle for some.
2.) THere are some playgrounds I am not invited to, anal is NEVER offered nor OK'd.
3.) Once people know about my size, I become a walking penis.
4.) Do NOT believe what people say about size, the ruler used by swingers is missing, on average, about 3-4 inches on them, so a 12 incher is really 8 or 9...
Jstjim,
I must agree that for many the ruler is missing something! By your standards I am a good 9 to 10 inches! Wow now I can feel great about myself! LOL I also agree that size for the "blessed" is to much for some women to handle. My ex tried a 10 incher once and said never again and no way would she let him near her ass. For most women small is not an issue as large maybe. Yes, some women want men that are "hung" and there are those that want them under 7 also. For most women dick size is not the issue they base who they play with. I keep hearing that 5 to 7 is average (from base of body to the end of the head) and I am right in the middle of that. I have not had a women tell me that they wished I was bigger. Enjoy all!
I must agree that for many the ruler is missing something! By your standards I am a good 9 to 10 inches! Wow now I can feel great about myself! LOL I also agree that size for the "blessed" is to much for some women to handle. My ex tried a 10 incher once and said never again and no way would she let him near her ass. For most women small is not an issue as large maybe. Yes, some women want men that are "hung" and there are those that want them under 7 also. For most women dick size is not the issue they base who they play with. I keep hearing that 5 to 7 is average (from base of body to the end of the head) and I am right in the middle of that. I have not had a women tell me that they wished I was bigger. Enjoy all!
I wonder if that's the same ruler many males use to measure their stature?
There is some people out there that rather have small ones .... the big ones can hurt 
plus its not all about the size of the boat as much as it is about how well you work the waves ... if that makes any sense ! good luck buddy
plus its not all about the size of the boat as much as it is about how well you work the waves ... if that makes any sense ! good luck buddy JSTLKN09 wrote:
I wouldn't worry about it at all. A man's outward appearance and personality are more likely to be deciding factors when women are selecting a playing partner. Her G-spot is not that far in the vagina, so you really don't need to have a huge unit. Not to mention, having a big 9 inch dick probably isn't going to get you any ass play.
I, for one, am not one who wants to be split in half. I would take a 5 incher over a 9 incher any day. A vagina is only so deep. After that the dick is just knocking on the cervix door, which really doesn't feel all that great.
Haha...JSTLKN09...haha...unless you have no cervix...then there is no "door"...just a "brick wall"...lol...Some really good points have been made here but nobody has said anything about girth...5 inches is ok..unless it's as big around as a pencil...lol...sorry...Definately more about quality over quanity....
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Like...a tuna-can dick?
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Like...a tuna-can dick?
OHHH NNOOOO!! No tuna can.....lol....that might be "stretching" it just a little..lol..no pun intended...lol...ok it was intended! And JSTLKN07....I don't know about your length/girth (yet...hehe) but a hurricane tongue is an awesome quality to possess....mmmm...morgans isn't bad either...hehe....
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Well, Wifey always told me she never cared about my needle dick as long as I never lost my sewing machine ass! Seriously though, I can understand the concerns, but by the same token if you are with people that want to be playmates, they accept you for who you are as a whole person and not just from certain features of anatomy. Everyone that we have encountered has been so great about seeing the whole person that everyone benefits in the end.