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Discreet phone number - Discreet phone number - [quote=Ucouple]I have always felt there is a huge difference between discretion and secrecy. Most in the lifestyle want discretion, and I think if care is taken to vet personalities most problems can be avoided. I’ve found that those desiring secrecy often have ill intent of some form or another. Over the last couple years, within a matter of a few texts, I can sniff out someone who is being dishonest in their actions/relationship or has an unstable personality. It ends there. Those that seem normal and well balanced I have no problems giving my personal number to. I see no need for a “burner” phone or number. If it doesn’t work out people just walk away, no malice necessary. I feel honesty and discretion can still go hand in hand. Discretion is too often used as a reason to lurk in the shadows, however. Come into the light friends. If you want to fuck other people without letting your boss know, okay. Just make sure your wife does. And, I promise your bishop is not trolling swingular to bust you![/quote] ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ This! We have had similar experiences. We have found that quite a few guys playing behind their wives back, early on, want you to contact them, via this kind of number or post this kind of number as part of a booty call. We ignore any booty call, or email, with this kind of number posted. Anytime we get approached this way we just flat out ask the dude if he is married. Usually they say yes but their wife isn't interested, but he has her permission. Never has any such dude said yes you can talk to her. If people checkout as real, and we have agreed to meet with them, we have no problem giving them our phone numbers. We have never run into a problem. Anyway, don't most swingers have a KiK account? How many ways do we need to contact someone?

From UT? - So many from Utah - Utah is full of "closet swingers"

Single Males - Why are single males excluded from events? - We've been in the scene for a LONG time and have pretty much seen and heard it all when it comes to the arguments for or against single males. The bottom line (whether you like it or not) is swinging is a couples driven activity. YES many couples are looking for the elusive single female. YES many ladies and couples enjoy playing with single males as well. But if it weren't for couples willing to SHARE their beautiful ladies with others there would be no such animal as swinging. If there were no couples this would simply be a dating/fuck site. So looking at this equation from strictly a couples standpoint you have to ask yourself (and yes I know this is a tired argument as well) "What do single guys bring to the table?" Of course many couples like adding another cock to the mix sometimes. And many women like playing alone with single guys but where does that leave the husband? Contrary to the beliefs of some single dudes, most male swingers who share their wifes are not cucks. So, I guess what I'm saying is for single guys to enjoy what you get, be grateful that you're being included to the point that you are welcomed into the sex lives of some couples and quit'cher bitchin'. ;-) Oh....and yes the majority of asshole single dudes DO ruin it for the small minority who are nice, respectful, non-pushy and "get it". And to answer the OP's original question. No it's not to keep single females single it's simply like HOTT said...if unrestricted, EVERY event would become a total sausage fest. Don't believe me? Host a party and openly advertise that all single guys are not only welcome but get in for free or the same fee as single females. LOL

Where are the Midwest Swingers? - - I agree. It is almost impossible to find anyone from Illinois or Missouri in the chat rooms, let alone anyone that wants to chat with a single male. Everyday I go into the chat hoping that there is someone local to chat with, and come up empty. I do value the chats that I have with other members from the western and southern states, but it is so hard to find a topic to talk about in detail besides sports, the weather, or the economy. Most people dont come in here to chat about how cold it is outside.

Curious about no pubic photos? - - Actually, the act of removing a females pubic hair dates well into the 3-4th century bc in certain cultures and is looked on as another facet of hygiene in others. In art, it is difficult to find male subjects with pubic hair, and female subjects with pubic hair are mainly seen within the last 3-400 years. There is no reason to or not to remove pubic hair, tho some will claim it's protective against irritation or bacteria, others admit to having the same view as you; lack of pubic hair indicates lack of maturity. However, these are merely preferences, theories and social norms. There is no evidence to support the theory that preferring a bald crotch is in any way some sort of indicator of sexual deviancy. And let's be honest, simply the fact that were swingers could be and often is seen as such. Personally, I never thought much about removing my pubic hair until I had sex without pubic hair. I was hooked. I opted for laser hair removal, since stubble was an annoyance. Hubby trims, as I find some body/pubic hair attractive on a man. I do not feel that pubic hair is very attractive on a vagina, but again--that is my sexual preference and my husbands.

Guy and Gals - What do you think? - i like to get to know know people . so i always ask alot of questions about alot of stuff . and for the people that i would like to be playmates with . i like to watch them first do thier thing so i can see what all they are into and how they like it . everybody has a different style . and i love watching them and learning and also seeing if it turns me on . if it doesnt turn me on watching them then i wont play with them . and it gives u a chance to check them out . i know people laugh at me when i say this but i like to watch them play cause u can learn alot about them , as people aslo . some times u have never seen a person naked before . from our pics u can tell we both shave . i chatted with a couple for a while and then they wanted to meet us at the club so they sent some more pics to us . ... and i dont think the lady has ever shaved her private area . at all . i dont want to offend anyone by that comment . cause i dont care if u do or u dont as a person . but for my playmates . thats not something i want . and i think something like that they should be the ones to say something about it . but she didnt and i was honest with her . and told her that i would never want to play with her cause of that reason . but i would still love to be there friend if she wanted to . i guess she took what i said the wrong way . but that is totally different then us . and that matters to us . we shave all the time . so why would i want to play with someone that has never shaved . she had lots of black hair all in the front up and down and sideways . it look like bathing suit shorts . i think that she should have said something about that . to us . long before . idont like suprises . so i like to see people naked and watch them play first before i even think about really playing with them . i dont want to be caught in a room with someone and then change my mind for some reason and make them feel bad . cause something i might not like others would love . so i dont want to hurt anyones feelings . but something s bother me ...and iam not going to take one for the team or anything like that . so i think u should always be honest about yourself and what u need and want . and u should ask as many questions as u want or need to . one person said something like they talk to each other or watch the other couple to see what their mates want . thinking they are going to do everything the same . everybody is different . i love to be bitten but it is very hard to find someone to bit e me the way i like it . so if one person sees me getting bittten and then tries it i will tell him how i like it . and if that person can do it in a way that turns me on then ill ask for more . but if it isnt turning me on ill ask for them to do somethng else . when we get with out play mates it should be fun for all . and it s great to see when u really turn someone on .and everybody is getting into it really good . and we have been playing with a couple lately . where the lady makes us really weird faces . i have stop doing what i was doing to ask her if she was ok with what was going on . cause the looks are really weird . to my husband if that look was on my face it would mean get me the hell out of here . but she explain all is good and keep going . and i dont care how many times i have heard her saying iam ok .... the look always makes me aask . cause there might be one time that it isnt ok and i dont want to keep going . cause i always want to be invted back . i think it helps with stuff like this to get to know the people a bit before trying to play . i dont understand why swingers treat the life style sex different then dating . people are in a rush by what they see on the outside of the person before they know anything about them . and sometimes people have different ways that dont click with each other . and then they have regrets or hurt feelings or just a bad night with someone . i am sorry . i dont want to regret anything . and i try my damnest to find people that will make my night a blast and people that i can do that for them . i will always ask for what i need and how i need it . and ill always ask the other person what they are wanting and needing . but also go with the flow at the moment and kinda of use my own judgement on if i should ask for something s of just keep doing what iam doing .. its the quiet ones that worry me .... i have been told to shut up by others around . and i have also been told that i made and make the person feel special cause i let them know they can talk open with me and iam here to make them just as happy as they are trying to make me . have u ever tried to tell someone to stop doing something or change something and them not understand .one of my biggest problem is with the nipples . yes i like them to be bitten during sex when we are in the moment . but alot of guys bite them hard from the get go and then u can t start up the way u want . or when u are playing with someone and then they try for your ass without asking or u showing any signs that u want that . if i am light touching with a soft swap with someone i dont think they should go right for my ass .i tell people all the time get your finger out of my ass . maybe they were lost . maybe they were trying to move things along faster then what i wanted . hell i dont know what they were thinking but ill tell u this i put a stop to it from the get go . some took it in a bad way cause others have been in the room . and others have understood and made no big deal about it . but i think that is a thing that should be talked about first and not just thrown on someone like that in a group of people . but thats just me . and we all think and see things different .thats why people try to talk their way through things naughty dreams freaky kitty

Why make it so HARD? - pic posting - Pics are a huge part of successfully meeting someone on ANY dating site. It has been proven that your chances are 80% greater. Everyone understands the need to be discrete for some people but there are things you can do to get around that. First, of all, you are on a swingers dating site and anyone else who is on here, is here for the same reason. The chance of someone stumbling onto this site and finding you is very, very slim. There are thousands of adult sites out there. Honestly, they would have to have some presumption of you being on here in the first place to even get close. With that said though, that chance can still worry some people but that is why we have private and custom photo albums. It allows you to pick and choose who you wish to view your photos. So unless you use your real names or a familiar username on your profile, there is no way anyone can relate your profile to your real person. As a second measure of protection, cut off the picture at your heads or blur out your faces. Then as you move along in your contact, send an attachment with just your faces. There are plenty of ways you can protect yourself yet still allow someone to see your photos. But if you still believe that someone is going to catch you with those slim chances, then maybe your best bet is to not even create profiles on a dating site. Because without pics, you probably won't meet many people.

Hot school mom's - - It's fun to fantasize. Unfortunately the reality is that the VAST majority, especially here in Utah and ESPECIALLY in a conservative enclave like Bountiful would never in a million years even begin to seriously THINK about extra-marital sex of any kind. One of the traps that swingers fall into (and yes, all of us are guilty of it) is getting sort of desensitized to what we do in our little hobby and starting to think that others would probably be open to it given the right circumstances. We get used to checking out attractive people or couples and start thinking that they could possibly be swingers as well. That's how all the threads about black rings and such get started. Or we get into the whole "vanilla hunting" mindset and falsely think that there's a fairly good chance that any given person would be interested in swinging when in reality most people are more than repelled by the idea. Keep on wondering and fantasizing but we'd leave it in the realm of fantasy. Sorry brah.

Swinger behavior at vanilla parties... - Where do you draw the line of appropriate? - [quote=WENDYBLWMEHARDR] Wow, where do you begin with this? 1. Your at a vanillia party = no flirting or flashing! 2. Children are present! = no flirting or flashing! 3. Most importantly how Dare someone say anything hurtful to a child or anyone else for that matter = no class !! 4. These folks should be Outted I would hate for someone elses child to be the next victim because some folks dont have the testicular fortitude to speak out against such attrocities !! 5. This makes you as bad as them . Look in the mirror and ask yourself why you even posted this drama . Did you do it just to stirr the pot because you like the drama ? Or did you really want some good to come from this? Do the right thing and Out them and then ban them from all events. Bad things happen when good people do nothing to prevent it! Take a stand and choose your side there is no grey area here .[/quote] As I said earlier, I am biting my tongue not screaming out who this person is...but as pointed out above, I would then be the one in trouble...so you ask why did I post this? No it was not to stir the pot or to cause drama (if I had outed them that would be causing drama)...of course I want good to come of this, I want people to realize that we as swingers have a bad rep as it is and we need to be aware that our behavior is seen by others and can affect everyone around us! I have chosen a side...it's the side of being an adult and abiding by the guidelines that I agreed to when I signed up...I CAN NOT name the person...she knows who she is and she reads these forums and she will see that her behavior has disgusted many and hopefully she will act accordingly next time...the fact that you see me as bad as her...well that is your own opinion, but I know that I did the right thing here.... Kisses...Naugh-Ty

Swinging and politics. - - Which political candidate do you think would be most swinger friendly? 1) Duh, Trump. Fucker's been married...a LOT, to like supermodels...and likely is banging a few on the side. He'd totally be down with swinging. 2) Bernie Sanders. I mean think about it...socialism? Sharing EVERYTHING in society...including each others spouses? Socialism is ALL about swinging! 3) Hilary. She was totally cool with Bill gettin' a little head in the Oval Office so she'd be fine with leaving all us nasty swingers to our own devices. 4) Mike Huckabee. Cuz...well, cuz...I dunno, maybe somethin' to do with the Bible and concubines or something. Or maybe something to do with Duggars? Fine, that one's a stretch. 5) Cruz or Rubio. Hot Latin lovers, need I say more? 6) This is by FAR the stupidest poll yet, Evil. Politics is serious business and I for one can't wait to exercise my right as a citizen to vote...and maybe have a post-election orgy at my house. 7) Rand Paul. Hey, he says he's a Libertarian or a librarian (librarians are HOT!) or something so he'd be down with a little wife swapping. 8) Carly Fiorina. Yeah she's one hot babe and I can tell she wants it BAD! 9) Lindsey Graham. Cuz, well cuz he's prolly at LEAST bi. 10) I dunno. Probably one of those total kooks running on like the Constitution or Green party tickets. Some of those guys look like they live in a cave or a box under the viaduct.

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