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Android swingers apps? - - I'm surprised Swingular hasn't invested in a decent app - their online experience is the worst.

Celebrity Fantasies... - - Well, isn't this site a swingers site? Well, then we should pick a foursome. The obvious for us is Brad and Angelina, but, we wouldn't kick Seal and Heidi Klum out of the bed for eating crackers. I could climb Heidi and Seal could certainly set the mood music. B and J.

Male on male - Not sure if this is where this goes, but male on male tonight only. - i'm obviously supportive. i'm amazed that so many supposedly free thinking male swingers on Swingular project such a homophobic attitude. and i'm sure every bi guy on here has been contacted by the male half of a supposedly str8 couple looking to get some MM action on the side. one of the best things about being bi is to learn how much fun it is to GIVE a blow job. i used to think that women were doing me a favor by going down on me. know i know why so many women love it. i've also met women who just wanted me to invite a second guy so they could watch two guys go at it. and women who thought they were dating a str8 guy until he undressed and saw that he was wearing women's underwear. i guess what i've learned is there is a lot more variation in human sexual behavior than i thought when i was younger. obviously the majority of people are more comfortable with the opposite sex...but that doesn't make MM or FF play wrong or ever the slightest bit unusual. imho.

What do you like most about lifestyles? - - In theory, the lifestyle is perfect for us. We have never regretted starting this adventure and still believe that it is right for us. We have met some wonderful friends and have had many very erotic and fun experiences. Can you feel the "but" coming here. LOL. We are beginning to see the very things we came to the lifestyle to avoid popping up everywhere. Closed-mindness, judgment, and dishonesty are invading the ranks. It is our belief that the lifestyle is supposed to be about open-mindness, acceptance, freedom, and fun. Other words also come to mind like variety, new experiences, non-judgment, truth, love, and joy. BUT (there it is), not only are we judged by the "vanilla" world (and that is okay; we expected that), we are judged by our own. You are too fat, you are too old, you have tatoos, etc., etc. A couple actually told us that we were incompatible because I had tatoos. One on each arm- OMG! LOL. We realize that people have preferences, but come on, two tatoos? It is not like I am the illustrated man. My point is this: let's not judge each other when we don't even know each other, let's not create social classes within our lifestyle, and , for God's sake people. let's be honest with each other. If you are on a swingers site to get your rocks off by cyber-chatting, then disclose to others what you are doing and wanting. Don't tell people you are going to meet them when you have no intention of doing so. Don't act like you are a couple when you are a single male or a cheating husband. Most of us are doing this to meet good people and have good sex. Let us do that without having to wade through dishonesty and hypocrisy. Let's do what we came here for--HAVE FUN! We love the lifestyle and, for the most part, love the wonderful people we have met. Let's keep it going and not ruin it.

Info for Noobs - - [quote=ERASEDPANTS]If singleness can turn single women in "Unicorns", then sweat can turn Norwegians into "Furries". Actually "Nick Fury" from The Avengers', was originally "Nick Furry". Due to a typo, Nick is now a gruff, angry leader with an eye patch instead of the loveable leader who dressed as a "shewolf" to fight the forces of evil, as he was suppose to be. [/quote] Hmmmm sounds like a bit of a stretch to me. So what do you get if you mix oatmeal with a Herzegovinian? Prince Albert in a can? You swingers, aside from being filthy disgusting perverts, are weird. I'm hoping President Trump makes you all register with the Department of Agriculture and makes you all wear easily identifiable black rings and ankle bracelets and takes away all your piercings and spandex hoochie coochie wear.

Lingo - - AC/DC Person who enjoys both same sex and opposite sex sexual activity; Bi; Bisexual. ADULT Euphemism for pornographic. ALL CULTURES Person or couple who enjoys all fetishes and sexual activities (see CULTURE) AMERICAN CULTURE Man on top, the missionary position. ANAL SEX Anal intercourse; see Greek, Greek Culture. ANALINGUS Oral contact or stimulation of the anus of one partner by kissing, licking, or sucking of the other. ANIMAL TRAINING Sexual activity with animals, usually dogs and women; Bestiality ARTS Euphemism for fetishes; Cultures B&D or B/D Bondage and discipline; use of various methods to restrain someone while administering discipline, usually done by a "master" to his/her "slave". (see BONDAGE, DISCIPLINE) BBW Big Beautiful Woman; Referring to women that may not be their ideal weight, but are still very attractive. BHM Big Handsome Man; Referring to men that may not be their ideal weight, but are still very handsome. BESTIALITY (see ANIMAL TRAINING) BI Bisexual: Versatile(see AC/DC) BI-CURIOUS A Male or Female who is interested in trying same-sex activities. BIZARRE Unusual sexual desires BONDAGE A sexual fetish in which restraints such as ropes, chains, cloth or leather straps are used to bind, tie or hold a participating sexual partner. The person doing the binding is considered "dominant" while the person being bound is considered "submissive." CAN ENTERTAIN Advertiser willing to invite others to their home for swinging. CAN TRAVEL Advertiser willing to travel to your home to swing. CANING A spanking fetish employing a light cane usually bamboo or other light wood. CHEATING Sexual activity with others without spouse's knowledge and/or consent. CLEAN Hygienic; Free of sexually transmitted diseases. CLOSED DOOR (see CLOSED SWINGING) CLOSED SWINGING Sexual interaction among couples using separate rooms, usually in the same house. Provides a maximum of privacy. CLOSET SWINGER A person who hides the fact that he/she is a swinger. (see DISCREET) COUPLE In swinging, a man and a woman. May be married, living together (cohabitating), committed (on going relationship) or a single couple dating for swinging purposes. CPL (see COUPLE) CUCKOLD While the originally meaning is the husband of a wife who cheats, it has come to mean (more often than not) a husband who's wife plays without him and comes home to tell him about it. It can also mean a husband who watches his wife play with others, or is forced to watch. This can also be reversed on the wife. Since different people use the word to mean different things, it is best to ask the people using the word in order to clarify the definition. CULTURE Euphemism for Fetish or Arts. CUNNILINGUS Stimulation of the vagina and clitoris by the mouth especially the tongue and lips, and sometimes the teeth (see FRENCH CULTURE) DILDO An artificial penis, usually made of rubber or plastic, for sexual stimulation of the vagina and sometimes the anus. DIRECTOR The term used to describe the principal person who runs or otherwise operates a swing club, generally the owner. A person who works for the director and is responsible for party or club operation whether or not for pay, is generally called a Manager. DISCIPLINE A sexual fetish in which one partner dominates the other, a willing participant. Often includes physical punishment of the submissive partner, ranges from physical restraint to mild spankings to painful beatings. DISCREET OR DISCRETION Asking those who write or call to exercise caution so that children or others who may open mail or answer phone will not be offended and/or made aware of the swinging activity. DOCILE Willing to receive bondage and/or discipline (see SUBMISSIVE). DOMESTIC TRAINING Submissive obedience to household chores of an intimate and humiliating nature. DOMINANT A sexual partner in control of a willing submissive partner. ENGLISH CULTURE: Sexual stimulation from spanking or caning ENTERTAIN (see CAN ENTERTAIN) EXHIBITIONIST Behaviour in which an individual experiences sexual arousal or pleasure from displaying his/her body. Enjoys being watched. F Female FELLATIO Sexual stimulation of the penis by the mouth, especially by the tongue and lips and sometimes teeth. FETISH Sexual arousal and pleasure through use of non-sexual objects, actions or non-genital anatomy. FLAGELLATION Sexual stimulation derived from pain, usually whipping or spanking. FRENCH CULTURE: Oral-genital sexual activity; see Fellatio, Cuntilingus FUN AND GAMES Euphemism for sexual activity. GAY A homosexual person, male or female. A gay female may also be called a Lesbian. GBM Gay Black Male GENEROUS Refers to money for sex. GREEK CULTURE: Anal-penile intercourse GROUP ROOM Room set aside for group sex, generally furnished with wall-to-wall mattresses or pads. Term is prevalent in western US (see MATROOM). GROUP SEX Swinging; Sexual activity between three or more people. GWM Gay White Male HARD CORE A swing party or swing engagement where sexual interaction is assumed and expected. HARD SWINGING (see HARD CORE) HEAD Oral-genital sexual activity; "Giving head" (see French) HEDONIST Someone who lives for pleasure. HETEROSEXUAL Sexual attraction to members of the opposite sex. HOMOSEXUAL Sexual attraction to members of the same sex. (See GAY) HORNY Sexually tense; In need of sexual pleasure. HUNG Refers to a man with a large penis. HWP Height-Weight Proportionate; Someone who is at their ideal body weight. INDOOR Swinging activities in general INDOOR SPORTS (See INDOOR) INTERESTED IN FRIENDSHIP Seeks a swinging relationship that includes emotional and recreational values. IRL In Real Life; Used in ads or online chat ISO In Search Of; Used in ads; MWC ISO Single Female LEATHER A fetish; Sexual stimulation through the wearing or touching of leather or leather garments. LESBIAN A woman sexually and emotionally attracted to other women. (see GAY) LTR Long Term Relationship MARITAL AIDS Dildos, vibrators, and other devices used for sexual pleasure of self and others. MASOCHISM Sexual gratification through receiving pain and humiliation from others. MASTER/SLAVE Participants in a bondage and discipline sexual relationship. (see B&D, BONDAGE, DISCIPLINE) MATROOM Room set aside for group sex. Principally an eastern US term (see GROUP ROOM). MEET FOR PLEASURE Will meet for swinging sex; no pretense for social or emotional interaction not directly related to sexual activity. MENAGE A' TROIS Three people, two of one sex, one of the opposite sex in a swinging interaction. (see THREESOME, TRIAD) MORESOMES More than three people in a swinging interaction. (see GROUP SEX) MBC Married Black Couple MBiC Married Bisexual Couple MWC Married White Couple NASCA The North American Swing Club Association. An association of swing clubs and magazines to promote swinging as the viable and beneficial lifestyle it has become. Levels of members: Affiliate Club, General, Associate and Institutional for swing clubs and magazines, general swinging community, media and institutions of learning and research. NEWCOMERS New people in swinging; First-timers. NONSMOKER Does not smoke. If used in personal ad means only those who do not smoke are sought for swinging purposes. OFF-PREMISE No swinging takes place at the club or party; you meet and make your own arrangements. Great for newcomers. OPEN DOOR (see OPEN SWINGING) OPEN SWINGING A couple swinging with another couple in the same room; Several or all participating couples together in the same room. A minimum of privacy. ORAL-GENITAL (see FRENCH, CUNNILINGUS, FELLATIO, HEAD) ORGY Sexual interaction among several men and women in the same room; Complete abscence of inhibition in everyone taking part; group sex. PARTY Gathering of three or more people of both sexes for swinging. PARTY CLOTHES Clothing particularly adapted for swing party wear, Includes wear to the party and wear to change into during the party. The latter includes robes, lingerie, terry cloth wrap-arounds and other simple wear that is easily removed, shows the wearer to best advantage and often makes selected parts of the body easily available for erotic courting and play. PARTY HOUSE (Western US) A non-membership swing club offering a regular schedule of on-premise swing parties. PASSIVE Quiet, submissive non-contributor, willing to receive corrective training. Docile and submissive in swinging. (see DISCIPLINE) PHOTO Interested in exchange of nude or sexually explicit photos of self with similar photos of others. PHOTOGRAPHY Interested in exchange and/or making of nude or sexually explicit photographs, color slides or movies with similar photographs, slides or movies of others; interested in meeting with others for the making of these photographs. P/P Photo and phone number (used in personal ads). PRO Professional; i.e. prostitutes or paid escorts. RECREATIONAL SWINGER A person who practices swinging primary as a recreational diversion; not interested in forming any long term friendship or emotional attachment. RESTRAINT Mild bondage used in sexual fantasy enactments. ROMAN Group sex, orgies, the party scene, etc (see ROMAN CULTURE) ROMAN CULTURE: Sexual orgies RUBBER Condom means of contraception; sexual stimulation through the look, feel and smell of rubber, usually associated with B&D. SAFE Used to describe a person who cannot conceive or impregnate; a man who has had a vasectomy; Naturally or surgically sterile. S.A.S.E. Self-addressed stamped envelope. SBF Single Black Female SBiF Single Bisexual Female SBM Single Black Male SGL (see SINGLE) S&M or S/M Sadism and Masochism (see SADISM, MASOCHISM). SINGLE A swinger without a partner, does not refer to marital status. SOCIAL A party, dance or other gathering usually sponsored by a swing club or magazine, for swingers to meet and socialize. There is no swinging at a social, but privately arranged swinging may follow a social. SOCIAL SWING CLUB A swing club, generally private membership that offers social and swinging activities including a regular schedule of on-premise swing parties. They may also offer educational and travel activities. Usually there is a membership fee and either party fees, party donations or a regular maintenance fee or dues. Party attendance may be restricted to couples though the marital status of the couple is rarely important. SODOMY Non-coital, especially anal or oral, copulation with either an opposite sex or same sex partner. SOFT SWINGERS Couples who only have intercourse with their own partner. No swapping for intercourse. SOFT SWINGING The term used to describe same-room sex, watching/being watched, or any sexual encounter up to, but not including intercourse, with someone other than your spouse. The first experience for many couples some type of soft-swinging. (see HARD SWINGING, HARD CORE). SRS Same Room Sex (see SOFT SWINGING). STD Sexually Transmitted Disease. A term developed in the late 1970's to replace VD as the latter carried social and moral implications in the minds of many. These social and moral implications interfered with the legitimate treatment of sexually transmitted diseases as a medical problem. STR or STR8 (see STRAIGHT) STRAIGHT Any person who is not interested in engaging in homosexual activity or A person who does not use drugs; also used by swingers to denote non-swinging people. SUBMISSIVE Passive, wishes to be dominated (see Passive) SWAPPING Two couples exchanging partners for sexual activity. SWEDISH CULTURE: Use of the hands especially in massage to sexually stimulate another SWF Single White Female SWING MAGAZINE A periodical catering to the swinging community. Usually carries personal ads of people wishing to meet others for swinging purposes. May also publish articles of general interest to the swinging community. SWINGING An alternative lifestyle for consenting adults who enjoy social, recreational sexual activities with others, most often on a couple-to-couple basis, with full knowledge and mutual consent of both partners; single men and women are sometimes involved. SWINGING LIFESTYLE Style of living with swinging a major component in recreation, choice of friends, business and social life, and intimate relationships. SWINGING MARRIAGE Marriage incorporating swinging and often, humanistic ideals. SWM Single White Male TAN Tested Antibody Negative for HIV virus(AIDS) THREESOME Three people, two of one sex and one of the other in a swinging encounter. (see Menage a Trois) TICKET A person, usually a woman, brought to a swing party solely to enable the male to gain entrance. The ticket generally has no intention to swing or is not free to swing. TOYS Sexual aids (see MARITAL AIDS) TRANSEXUAL Individual who has undergone conversion from one gender to another through surgery and hormone treatments; or one who is in the process of gender conversion TRANSVESTITE A person who receives sexual gratification by wearing clothes identified with the opposite sex; not necessarily homosexual. TRAVEL (see CAN TRAVEL) TRIAD Three people, two of one sex and one of the other in a continuing relationship of emotional and sexual involvement. Not the same as a threesome. TRIOLISM Used in personal ads to indicate desire for "threesomes". This is a common but confusing usage (see TRIAD) TUBAL LIGATION Surgical procedure of cutting and tying the fallopian tubes to make a woman infertile. Also called a Band Aid Operation in reference to the small incision made just below the navel to enable the cutting and ligation. UTOPIAN SWINGER A person who practices swinging as a total lifestyle with humanistic ideals. VASECTOMY Surgical procedure of cutting and tying the vas deferens to artificially sterilize a male. VERSATILE Bisexual. (see AC/DC) VIBRATOR Electrically run vibrating device for stimulation of the vagina by insertion or holding to outer lips, clitoris, breasts and the male penis. Some vibrators are penile shaped and are run by batteries while more expensive ones are for surface use and are run by an AC motor from a typical wall outlet. Vibrators are used by both men and women for self-stimulation and to sexually please another. VOLUPTUOUS Fullness of beauty and form; usually used to refer to a woman with large well-formed breasts; may also refer to full but well formed hips. VOYEUR A person who enjoys watching others in sexual acts. VOYEURISM Sexual gratification by watching or peeping at others engaged in sexual activity. WAY-OUTS/ WEIRDOS Those people interested in activities usually considered by the majority to be bizarre, kinky, unusual, or unconventional. Hope this helps :)_

What do you say? - I gasped in horror! - You know what, I posted this thread thinking we could all talk about how good we have it because we are in healthy sexual relationships, not why its selfish to want oral (come on give me a break, like being swingers isn't already selfish.). You people (and you know who you are) are whacked! its just a discussion on how bad it would suck to be this girl, not how holier than thou the fucking majority of the people in this site are, but once again you all proved that it doesn't matter what anyone says, you are all anti-fun. Thanks for ruining another fun thread. PLEASE do us all a favor, and pull the sticks from your asses. Enjoy your miserable fucking lives, cause I'm happy giving and receiving oral sex. Now I'm off to enjoy head, jealous much?

since when did swingular become a dating site?? - - Well if they both want to b swingers....that is a perfect match haha... But it dies seem odd if ur just looking for love to b on swingular..

Swing clubs in Vegas - - UtahUptownGirl, If you are going to Sacramento, we would suggest Faces if you want to meet a lot of Swingers. Not sure if you will be there until the 21st, but if you are here is a cut-and-paste of their venue notice: ******************** Cum join your old friends and make some new ones, at Faces the third Friday of each month, for yet another exciting night of sexy mingling, drinking and dancing. MeAT us upstairs by the big windows. You can't be a club-goer in Sacramento without making the occasional trip to Faces. And, it seems, you can't be anyone at all without having checked out the enduringly popular club's new look. Brighter and flashier than ever, with a whopping six new bars and two new rooms in which to see and be seen, the new face of Faces made its big debut a couple of weeks ago, complete with thumping bass, a who's-who crowd and a line around the block. A sunken silver dance floor ringed with speakers looks so much like an ice rink that you feel the need to step with care. The glass brick and chrome fixtures serve as prisms for the always-flashing lights, and the jade-colored bar and adjacent waterfall are a peaceful counterpart to all the glitz. The upstairs is designed for lounging, with leaning posts and soon-to-be-VIP areas featuring lovely blue booths. Faces Nightclub 2000 K Street Sacramento, CA 95814 (916) 448-7798 When: Third Friday of each month Time: 9pm till close Attire: This is a public venue, so dress appropriately. Sexy club, dress to impress. Cost: No cover before 8PM. $5 w/Valid I.D. 8-10PM. $10 w/Valid I.D. 10PM-close ******************** How about the Bottoms Up Club? ******************** Have you been naughty or nice this year? Come see what Santa has to say and join the Bottom's Up Club Dec 15th for our XXX-Mas House Party. Come and enjoy the 1/2 acre of lush tropical forest. Play in a real bamboo hut, listen to the water trickle in the nearby fountains, relax on a large hammock or dance to the latest and greatest hits. Sit and socialize on 600+ sq ft redwood deck or skinny dip in our 8 person mirrored hot tub. Play in our 3 level old growth redwood cabin that over looks the delta or have friends come to your own semi private cabana. The party is set to start anytime after 7 pm and we ask that everyone plan on heading out by 3. If you need a place to stay - talk to us, we have very limited accommodations so they are on a first come first serve basis. ***PLEASE PARK ON TUXEDO, NO PARKING IN FRONT OF THE HOUSE*** New!!!!! You can now RSVP on our web site!!! (www.TheBottomsUpClub.net) Click on the calendar, then the event, and then RSVP and you're done. COST: $40 at the door and $30 prepaid. Single men pay full price and single women are $10. Please bring your own drinks and mixers. Also bring you personal playing items you may need. Bring a towel and cover up if you plan on using the spa. Regarding the number of single guys that can attend, we will be limiting the number of single men to 1 per 10 couples. If you have any questions e-mail or call us! E-mail: [email protected] Phone: 209-992-0469 ******************** If you are interested in some parties in the San Francisco Bay Area, let us know. - The (not so) Newbies

Elitism in the lifestyle - - Bottom line, there are fucktards everywhere you go in life. Even in the lifestyle. Some of the nicest people we've ever met have been in the lifestyle and also some of the biggest douche canoes. Don't worry about it. If someone acts like a complete twatwaffle just ignore them and find someone who is nice. As long as you (or anyone else) doesn't feel like someone should fuck you just because you both happen to be swingers then everything should be fine. There is absolutely no reason for anyone not to be nice, pleasant and accepting of anyone else in the lifestyle as long as doing so doesn't give the false impression that you are automatically going to fuck them. And the analogy to a few bad apples applies to everyone. Why do you think single males get such a bad rap in swinging? We've found that for the most part you create your own experience in the lifestyle. Developing a thick skin is a really good way to survive and thrive in this little hobby of ours.

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