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What swingers are from SC - - Just wonder what swingers from SC come here to the forums
Swinging and Children Don't Mix With Me, What about You? - Unforgettable experience - I have to say, having children and trying to meet with couples can be very hard on your lifestlye. Family always comes first in my book, but it doesn't seem like every parent thinks that, which is why I'm letting you know why they should start thinking about it.
We thought that maybe if we could meet with a couple that also have a child or has children, that we could have a better, lasting relationship and have other things to enjoy with these couples, besides just swinging. Well, one couple didn't work out with us and I don't know how to go about letting them know they were wrong in what happened.
I'm the only one that even seemed to get upset about the situation and I wanted to get others opionion to make sure I don't owe an opology to them. Here's what happened.....
Me and my husband met with a couple at a swingers club, which was off-premise, and we talked some and explained we had children and that we wanted to meet with couples, but it was hard with younsters and it was also hard to find a reliable and trusting babysitter to be able to enjoy the night out. They the told us they had a child and that if we wanted to talk more and get to know each other better, that we could come to their home for a dinner, with our kids. Now...we explained up front that we don't play seperate and we definitely did not play if we had our children with us. They said that it wouldn't be a problem, no hank-panky with kids around, because they too had a small one. This sounded really great to us, because we thought we found a good couple to be friends with and have some extra benefits too, if we wanted.
Well, things started out okay. We were greeted at the door by the family, and our kids was introduced to their child, and was showed some computer games and such to play. That gave us time to talk a little to the couple and was shown the outside of their home and such before dinner. After dinner is when everything went WRONG. First, I had to go to the bathroom. Well, while I was gone to the bathroom, the Mrs. decide to give my hubby a tour of the rest of the house, mainly the extra bedroom....and when I asked the hubby where my hubby was, he said.."Don't worry about them, they'll be okay for awhile"...well, that really ticked me off, especially knowing our children were now mixed up in this...and our oldest asking where his daddy went with that lady.....that was about the last straw for me....but I was in these peoples home, not mine, and I respect others homes, but in this situation, I was ready to leave, and without my other half....because he too knew our rules of playing.
Well, when the Mrs. and mine came back up, my other half knew I was mad, but for some strange reason, he felt like he had to still play around with her, and in the same room all the children were in!!!! Not to mention, she couldn't keep her hands off him, which was not making my situation of trying to calm down any easier.
When I finally got my hubby alone, I "very persistantly" told him me and the kids were leaving...NOW..and if he was smart he had better be out the front door before me or I would leave him there, and I truely meant it. I was so angry and hurt by all of the happenings around me, I thought that if this is what it's like to try and swing...FORGET IT...my nerves or marriage weren't going to stay together if this is what I had to look forward to everytime.
My hubby didn't get out the door before me..he was too busy kissing the Mrs good-bye....and I mean french-kissing..... but, thank Goodness I got the kids out the door before me....and that didn't help out any on his part, believe me. We stopped swinging for many years after that because of trust with one another and with other couples saying one thing and then doing another.
This particular couple apparently feels that nothing was wrong with what happened, and actually contacted us again after many, many, many years after this incident happened.
I'm not one either to "shun" anyone, but this expereince really bothered me then, and still does, and after them contacting us again, through an e-mail, not by phone, it makes me wonder about my feelings on the matter.
Am I wrong to feel this way, even after all these years? I do trust my husband NOW, after the bad expereinces, because there was one more after that, but it took alot of talking, yelling, and regaining a trust that is hard to achieve after something that drastic that involved your kids in the process.
I e-mailed them back, but I know it was short and blunt, nothing mean, I don't do things like that, but what if they try again to contact us...what do I say?
Any help/advice/opinions is appreciated.
Hope no one ever has to expereince something like this...most marriages would never have lasted unless you really had a great understanding with your mate, and we put ours to the test and passed.......barely.
Soft Swap? What's your definition? - - Here is a QUESTION for everyone....
Isnt going to a SWINGERS club like soft swapping?
I mean for the most part the MEN can NOT approach the other couple (unless they already know them), and many times its the MEN sitting at the tables, while the women mingle and dance together.
In some cases, the women on the dance floor or pole dancing find themselves being penetrated by other females, almost like a group female orgy.
As for the club intention, its a nice place to meet other like minded couples, and to see if there is someone there to explore playtime with.
Yes, I know there are On Premise clubs, but arent those clubs more for full swap couples?
Just a thought...
Funny Idaho News - - [quote=EVILDOERS]Yer right as usual. Toilets are what NASA needs. Some of them million dollar toilets. We can be the official supplier of commodes for the International Space Station. Wait, toilets are ceramic, right?[/quote]
It is more about gas permeable ceramics that allow the escape of non life sustaining gases (I think that must mean farts and exhaled carbon dioxide) and at the same time hold in oxygen and such. The stuff could be used to line the exterior walls of bathrooms in swingers facilities so that the next occupant is not suffocated by the last occupants expulsions. Think there was a thread about that sometime back.
swingers helper... - I know some of us need this every now and again... - this is 4 u
Disabled Swingers - - My best friend was disabled, and while up until the last month of her life she was not confined to needing mobility assistance, she was active in the lifestyle and very upfront with people about her disability. She was always a BBW, struggling with issues from severe depression and diabetes, her weight fluctuated up and down as a side effect of various medications and changes in medications to manage her primary illness, that being bipolar disorder. Sometimes she had zero sex drive as a side effect of some of the medications for her depression, and sometimes she wanted sex 24/7 (Manic side of the bipolar disorder). She always told anyone that contacted her about her illness from the first contact/reply and would leave it up to them if there was ever to be an in person meeting knowing that she may or may not be able to play. We were friends for over 8 years, and while we were active in the lifestyle as a couple for 2 years we always let others know there was a possibility of the other one of us being around (especially when she was having bad times from her mental illness). She always had a good time when she was able to play, and we met a lot of really good people.
So just hang in there, be honest and confident. You will meet people that are willing to play with you once they understand your situation and limitations, and you will have some wonderful times.
FACE PICS - Face pics should be in private album - [quote=BMSHELL]Those who say they "need to be private" and that's why they won't post face pictures are missing some important things.
Nobody is going to want to meet you until they see what you look like. So at some point, you're going to have to share what you look like with someone from this site. (Otherwise, what's the point of being here?)
[i]"Yeah, but I don't want to share them with everyone on this site!"
That's why you put them in your private photos, and not in your public photos. That way, only people you approve can see them.
[i]"But what if I approve someone to see them who shouldn't?"
If you stick with only approving people as your friend who are paid members, who are Verified In Person, then you're pretty much guaranteed that the only people who will EVER see your face pictures are also swingers. (Basically, the same risk as you showing up to a swinger meet & greet).
[i]"But what if someone in my neighborhood sees them? Or what if my boss sees them?"
If you followed the rule above, then the person in your neighborhood, and your boss, are also swingers. So.. now you're in on each other's secret.. so what?
[i]"But I don't EVER want nude photos of me to be leaked to the web!!"
Who says the pictures of your face have to be nude? A tasteful photo of you (like what you would post on Facebook) is perfectly okay. Then if someone you 'approved' to see your photos DOES leak the photo, so what?
[b]Anyone not willing to post a picture of their faces in their private photos is either A) not being very careful about who they approve in their friend requests... or B) hiding something.[/b]. Sorry, but I don't buy the whole "privacy" thing if you incorporate a little common sense.[/quote] sorry we don't agree, trust me we aren't hiding anything from anyone, and those who know us will agree, we don't judge people for not caring who knows about their private life, we however do care about privacy and hope people get to know us before they start judging us, like I said we will share just not here, if that's too much of a hassle for some people than we are obviously not a good match, besides that's why they make chocolate and vanilla :)
911 THE REAL TRUTH - - Please take this idiotic banter to a diferent venue... This is a swingers site and both of you are simply fucking with words that, if we were lucky and Japaneese or some other nationality we would disregard as simply noises made with letters. I think that if you wish to keep this crap up simply go out and do the impossible... and get off this flaming party. You are both like a Japaneese Zero trying to make the enemys carrier deck so as to kill any pilot still in the air because he cannot now land. Problem with this is that neither of you will ever hit the other's landing deck.. and maybe all you two are doing is taking your penis' out and flailing at each other with limp members. Aren't at least one of you big enough to put your dick back in your pants and get on with the business at hand.......Fun Fantasy and sex, real sex, not this impotent flailing of limp rhetoric.. Get off my channel and the channel of every other serious swinger in here. Take it out back somewhere.. Go meet in Vagas or NYC or how about New Orleans. Theres plenty of shit down there to throw since the waste treatment plants overflowed.. Isn't enough, enough. Grow UP
NUFF SAID!!!!! BY me and definitely by both of you...Piss off
Nasty In The Nati Party 9/25/10 - - On September 25th Nasty In The 'Nati Interracial Parties is hosting G's Birthday Bash/Leather & Lace Party at a hotel in the Cincinnati/Northern Kentucky area. If you are interested in attending you can send us a message and we will send you an invite ASAP. You can see some of the event details below. Thanks - C & G
G's Birthday Bash/Leather & Lace
Come join Nasty In The 'Nati Interracial Parties AT OUR NEW & IMPROVED LOCATION & see why our parties have become one of the best interracial swingers parties around, with guests from all over the country.
This is a one day event, with afternoon events starting at 2:00PM on Saturday & the Saturday night party starting at 7:00PM.
The party room Saturday all afternoon for people to meet & greet in & we will have a cornhole tournament for the ladies, play poker, dominoes, etc....
The party Saturday night will take place in the hotel ball room starting at 7:00PM, WE HAVE A NEW DJ!!! DJ Adam is awesome, he will be playing up to date music and taking your song requests, so get ready to dance!! There will also be connecting group hospitality rooms open both nights for party guests.
Light snacks, pop, & water will be provided & Gary, The Nasty In The 'Nati Chef, will be serving food starting around 8:00.
When checking in you must give your screen name and you will be given an armband that YOU MUST HAVE ON AT ALL TIMES in the main party room & the hospitality rooms. If you see anyone without an armband please let our event security or someone working the check in table know so they can be asked to leave.
If you have any questions or need more information feel free to send us a message or give us a call at 513-442-9761 or 513-442-9201.
Thanks C & G
Sturgis - - Hi to all the biker swingers out there. We are heading to Sturgis and was wondering who is all going. We are staying at the Chip and it would be cool if we all met up for a ride or some partying. There is a group set up here Sturgis Bound and has 3 members in it. There has to be a few more. Come on lets ride and have some fun