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2007 Tribute to the Troops - Post your media here :-) - TR was just trying to make a tribute to our troops, something posistive. Whether ppl agree or disagree with them being there, I am with Don.....THEY ARE THERE either way!!! I do believe that this site isn't the place to be debating that point. In either case, there are fellow swingers on this site that are military couples/ppl so what is so wrong with showing some tribute and thanks to them. Why turn it into a negative battle........Thanks TR for starting a thread and showing some thanks and appreciation for those serving our country. Ignore those that turn it into negativity. I am sure those in the military do appreciate your intent. I did enjoy the links....
What makes a Man a swinger? - Do they all start out that way? - When I, Mr. Horny, was single and met my ex I never knew of anything like swinging. One of my neighbors was a swinger and I didn't know it. Wish I would have, she was a hottie! I was raised thinking that it was only a one woman world unless you cheated. With the ex, she actually brought the thoughts out of bi women and what can be done for satisfying my fantasies of seeing girl-girl action, besides in pornos. After our split, I was just a whore sleeping with as many women as I could without being tied down. That was all fine until I met Mrs. Horny. She rocked my world and it was back to a one woman world. Once we got our relationship going and started to talk about fantasies I suggested to her to get into swinging, not for me being able to play with other women, but to help her live out her fantasies. She was skeptical about it wondering about how I would feel about seeing her with others, but I was content with it all since I had swung before.
So in my opinion, most men aren't normally swingers, it comes from seeing and learning. With the digital age and almost everyone has access to find anything on the internet, men are now becoming more and more into swinging. Also you gotta think too, if it's against their religion some won't go against that even if they have the urges.
Swinger wife anklets? - Time again for one of those questions. - Thank you. That is how she approaches her anklets at present. We have heard conflicting reports about anklets. Most of the people we know, that bring up such things, seem to think that an anklet worn on the right ankle means a married woman is allowed to have sex with other men and or women depending on her preferences. Others seem to think it should be the left ankle. We know vanilla people, that are interested or intrigued by non monogamy, that all seem to think an anklet means something, especially in a bar or a dance club. They also seem to believe that Habits and Club 90 are places swingers go. If they see a woman dancing with someone other than her husband, and she has a anklet on, they feel or maybe hope, she may well be a swinger. Only a few have ever mentioned black rings. Interestingly enough, we believe, they bring the subject up, because they suspect we swing. Some of our friends know we swing and are really polite and non judgmental when they ask questions. We have had people tell us they have gone to Habits or Club 90 but have never run into us there. We think that we should revisit that some Friday nights. We don't want to disappoint. Saturday nights are usually already accounted for. If choosing a particular ankle, when in public, sends a sexy message that sparks a bit of playful, erotic fantasy between a curious and stable couple, then we are all up for sending that sort of message. It is how it starts for some of the hottest people.
younger age party only. - wondering how many people in utah would be interested in a younger group only party. - Wait, I forgot about people who like lima beans. FUCK THAT SHIT! If you like lima beans you can't come to our party either.
And on the off chance that anyone thinks I was even semi-serious or making some kind of ironic characterization of people who discriminate against others in swinging, well...you don't know me very well then. We absolutely think EVERYONE should discriminate in the lifestyle. Fuck who you want to fuck (well, if they want to fuck you as well that is...rape is not cool) and don't fuck who you don't want to fuck. Nothing worse than people who think just because you both happen to be swingers that you should fuck them regardless of attraction or whatever. But I WAS semi-serious about the way to approach it in an open forum where you're bound to get push back as well as hurt some feelings vs. doing it a little more discreetly. Some (certainly not me!) might accuse you of doing it openly to expressly stir things up and/or to make some kind of point. Hopefully that wasn't the OP's purpose and it was just a slight lapse of judgment or a noob faux pas.
What is better? - hard body or curves - that is the question - [quote=IndecentDuo][quote=TJ69NAZ]Curves are awesome! As long as the curves don't turn into rolls I think that is the sexiest body type. Hubby asked me to "relax" my workouts years back when I was getting a little too toned in his opinion. He said he missed the softness I had before when we cuddled. Now that I'm 48 it's not an issue anymore.[/quote]
Really? Rolls are a cardinal sin nowadays huh? Just FYI, everyone has rolls. Thin people, fit people, fat and in between people. It's skin. Just bc we've all been brainwashed by the western media to believe that thin is the ONLY form a beautiful body should take, doesn't mean that is truth. I am a bbw and a lot of swingers look down their noses at me in theory...yet I have met, played with and been pursued by thin, attractive people at various points in our swinging experience. It's not JUST about fitness. I find beauty in most forms of the human body, as many of us do. So for the OP, you are beautiful whichever way you feel most confident, regardless of your breast or butt size.
Tho I will agree, squats are where it's at! ;) [/quote]
Really? Opinions are a cardinal sin nowadays huh? Just FYI, everyone has opinions. I answered the OP's question in MY OPINION so unwad your panties.
What would you do? - what does a person do when their spouse no longer wishes to paticipate - Well.
How amazing that the "couple in question" just happens to be in my home town. And my wife and I are at a serious impasse about the same subject, but in the "traditional direction" i.e. I still want it. She still doesn't.
I'm... very surprised that a bunch of Swingers are so unanimous that "No trumps yes": that swinging is just something you do - but are ashamed of enough that any "no" in the group instantly defines the partner's life as well. Why isn't "yes" just as valid?
In our case, we've been married for over 25 years. We've had a very-good run. Our children are grown and gone. We're financially comfortable. And we're still physically capable - as we watch our parents be physically unable to walk, hear, see, pee, or do much of anything to enjoy *anything* - the point there being that I hear the clock ticking and to me, this is THE time of life to reap one's reward for the life one has lead - before it's too late to do anything but try to keep breathing.
And for me, being honest, the ONE thing that is my reward - is erotic fun. Let me be clear that what I crave is *erotic fun* - not just madly try to find someone new to fuck and never see again - but partners who want to wallow in the erotic experience of "Truth or Dare" and Lifestyle conventions and teasing and games. That's IT for me. That's why "doing it" is called "doing IT". And I've been a great husband/father/responsible citizen for over 50 years. And I feel that there isn't anything else in my life that really gives me a "reason for living".
And my wife, bless her, just has never had any passion. She enjoys it when I have sex with her. When I give her a nice massage followed by 3 or 4 orgasms. But she's happy with twice a month or less. And she had no need at all for my "erotic experiences". So here we are. And over the last 10 years we've tried pretty-much every possibility: traditional fidelity, me cheating, us swinging, me swinging alone with her permission... and it always ultimately winds up that the only way she is not *miserable* is if I'm following "traditional fidelity". And the only way I'm not miserable - is if I have the freedom to pursue erotic associations.
Now. If my passion were bowling, there wouldn't be a problem. If her passion were gardening or shoe shopping, there wouldn't be a problem. Everybody would just tell us to do our thing without the other - and enjoy what we *do* enjoy together. But somehow sex is THE one that we have to do *together* or not at all.
So we're very very seriously trying to figure out if we'd both be happier by tearing up a marriage and going our separate ways.
We can all *say* that whoever does NOT want to swing - rules the day, but imagine whatever your very-favorite thing is to do. Then imagine your spouse telling you: "I don't like to do that, so WE won't ever do that and You won't do it without me - and you won't do it alone, either - ever again". Now what?
What are our professions - - My husband and I were curious as to the professions of most swingers. We have found that alot of the couples we have met with or conversed with are either school teachers or police officers. Do you think because of the high stress positions, they look for the lifestyle as a release? What do you think?
Night Club / Bar sex - Had any? If so, where? - Hubby and I had sex all over a bar called Tracks in Tooele. We were horney little devils and may be ten times hornier now then when we first met. lol We also would get all of the club so horny that we often had parties that lasted a few days after.
One time I put out an invite to have swingers come to that bar and it was so full of swingers it felt like a swingers party but very quietly everyone watched one another. They kept coming for a while and then we moved to North Salt Lake. That was some hot action we started in that bar. we also got a whole bi sexual scene happen at that bar and that was hot with women all over each other. Love getting them going!!!
I can never tell you what our next journey is but I am sure there will be even more bars to be played in too!!! Im hoping to try some of them out in vegas the sexiest city on earth. lol
habits tonight????? - Come on people let's go - Habits is a nightclub on 39 S. Salt Lake favorite hang out for swingers but it's hot in on Saturday night
Rules to hooking up - - Maybe we all ended up swingers because we don't play games. Sounds like everyone was as surprised by these revelations as we were. We are all here for the same thing, no need to dance around it.