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Sex drive!! - My wife has a extremely high sex drive - [quote=TATTOOCOUPLE11]My wife has a very high sex drive we have only had 3 somes with women which she and I love but I was wondering if I should include more sex driven men in our sex life to totally fulfill her needs ?[/quote]
It works for us! It will certainly work for you two! Good hunting! Men, women, and couples, and all ethnic origins are all good for us. There are so many hot people and so little time to play with them. We go out of our way to reach out try it all with open arms so long as people are healthy and nice and there is some attraction. We are going to get the equal opportunity logo tattooed on our butts. Be careful, some old school right wing swingers might question your husbands
why are swingers so flaky? - - We have been in this lifestyle over 20 yrs and you will find out there is all types of people in this lifestyle including flakes. We have had our share of them. I think its just personalities of certain people that are wanting to take the plunge into the dark side but to afraid. Everyone is differant and you will find out the more you stay in this lifestyle the more you will find some very good people and some more flakes. Good Luck and enjoy.
Dick Size - - I saw a % study a number of years ago (wish I had saved it.. as this comes up occationally). Naturally my bigest interest is where I fit in the figures (in the 90% range for me)Big, big smile. I knew a couple who ran a swingers mag. years ago and saw the defination of Hung (2 hands full with a piece left over). The ladys say it's not the size as long as it's enough (now what is "enough"?), it's how it's used. I've been too large for one lady and not large enough for one. I think we all seek the perfuct fit and variety is one of the spices of life. Aint research is a wonderful thing!
tired of the B>S> - - The only chance we have of meeting fakes is if the couple at the club or party turns out to be transsexual dwarfs and were fooled by their elevator shoes making them look taller. We have been around this stuff a good while. Actually we have never tried to meet a couple on this website, we gave that approach to meeting long before this website came to be. (I know my ass doesn't look that old but it is trust me)
Fakes have always plagued these boards, it was FAR WORSE when you didn't have the verification systems in place and while these are good they are still not a guantaree you are dealing with the real deal. The now infamous "Christylynn" was certified as a "real couple" and technically they were a "real couple" just not what you had planned on. You can e-mail someone back & forth till your fingers bleed but your will not truly know what's behind door number two until they walk through the door.
The best way to try and eliminate fakes and flakes is obviously to meet them in person. The only way to hope to be successful is NOT to plan an evening out with ONE COUPLE. We are fortunate enough to have a variety of swingers clubs and organized lifestyle parties in our area to use as a place to meet where we can not only see the couple we can SEE the couples interaction. (This is the part that helps you avoid the flakes) This works great for people like the original poster who lives in West Palm Beach Florida and this is what I recommend.
For those who live in Alta, Utah (Pop.304) this approach is not so good. You fine folks in Alta will probably have to do a little more on-line work to round up some party people. (Just start with real seal at MINIMUM and work it from there...good luck.
Neighbors with benefits already cancled - - I guess I was just theorizing that the same people who got A&E to reinstate Phil Robertson after his hateful comparison of homosexuality and bestiality (let alone atheism, rape and murder) maybe didn't take too kindly to A&E also having a show about swingers. But I could be wrong. If nothing else it should maybe be a wake up call to any swingers who mistakenly think all or most vanillas are only a Long Island Iced Tea away becoming full on swingers. [em]Emo_84[/em]
Lifestyle friendly couples therapist/counselor - Recommendations please - I have a number of clients who are professional therapists. Not sure how lifestyle friendly they would be. None are LDS so that's a plus as I imagine almost to a person most LDS therapists would across the board condemn the lifestyle in any way shape or form. One of the one's I know is gay so he might perhaps have a slightly more liberal view of alternative lifestyles but we've met people even in the gay community who were quite derogatory towards swinging. I think the best method of finding a lifestyle friendly therapist (besides, of course, asking here) would be to call a number of them anonymously and tell them flat out that you're swingers and that you intend to keep swinging and see what their reaction is. I think many will likely self select out of counseling you but I could be wrong. Good luck.
POT... Should it be illegal? - - Or Hippocrates...can never remember which.
And I have news for you. It AIN'T just the "holy mormon empire". There are more than enough hypocrites in this world to go around (most of us swingers included). [em]Emo_84[/em]
Where are all the gentlemen? - - Its single guys like that (a few married ones too) that give single guys bad reputations. I personally feel that regardless if it is a swing party, event, occassion, etc. whenever a couple or woman in general is willing to allow you to touch her in any situation it should be done with all respect. OK, there are def times when she may want to be called a dirty whore, filthy cum slut, just a 3-hole bitch,etc. but those are very obvious times and just because she is a swinger doesn't mean you have the right to put your hands or any other body parts on her without her permission. NOBODY should assume they have any rights to do anything with anyone's body that is not their own! Swingers, Sluts, Whores, Prostitutes, etc. does not mean free for all who care to use me, touch me,etc. People in general should be repected simply because it is their body, regardless of what they may let someone else do to it. There is just no home training anymore, sad, sad wolrd.
Whenever I am lucky enough to find a couple that is looking for a single male I make sure to verify what is and what is not allowed. As a single male I understand that I am being given a gift to share in the sexual encounters of this man's wife, lover, partner, girlfriend, baby momma,etc. 90% of the time it is mainly for her enjoyment and I have yet to meet anyone that likes strangers to paw them out of the blue or see a person they care about be pawed without consent. My purpose in that situation is to bring more pleasure to the couple by pleasing the women with/without in same/different room, adding that extra spark they haven't been able to obtain with just the two of them.
Ok, I'm getting off my soap box, but this really pisses me off to hear things like that are still happenening and some people can be so ignorant and rude.
This lifestyle - What are we really? - I guess we are Poly-Swingers. Basically we are and have been swingers for some time now, I however, am quite poly and have several lady friends who I love deeply. Finding 2 couples is not as difficult as some might think. One of my lady friends is married and our families are quite close. Fact is they are not swingers at all but she is poly and he is poly friendly. The other is separated and both my wife and I love this lady to the ends of the earth. So we are poly.
Now, we are also swingers . We do have sex with people that we are not in love with. We do, however, care about people and we prefer to get to know people first before sex. We have been known to get it on on the first meeting if the chemestry is right.... I don't see any division in swinging because someone may be poly but enjoys sex with people that just hit it off.
Swingers are such a diverse group of people and there is room for whatever ones heart desires...from love to just sex. Find what's right for you and enjoy...
Has swinging changed? - - We know there are always a lot of noobs so this might not be the best question for them but for those of you who've been doing this a while, has the lifestyle changed? If so, in what way and has it changed for the better? We started swinging MANY years ago. In fact we were still in college! Now we've never been really hard core swingers and have taken many breaks over the years...sometimes for years; when we've had other stuff going on in our lives and/or we needed time for ourselves. But we've seen some fairly drastic shifts in the whole vibe in the lifestyle especially the past 5 years or so and wondered if anyone else has noticed this?