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Gangbang group in Tampa? - - Somehow, over the last few years, I have developed a reputation for organizing gang bangs in my community. I attempted to set up a "Mid-South Gang Bang Club" on another swingers site, with the intent of having the regular attendees post their profiles so that a lady or couple who is interested could review them. To my surprise, it has been difficult to get men to commit publicly to a Gang Bang Club maintained by me, even though they have participated with me at group swings or gang bangs. So, when friends request that I organize a gang bang, I still need to go through the process of contacting these men individually, determine if the host likes them, get commitments, follow up, etc.
I think the reason these men will not commit publicly to a Gang Bang Club organized by me is because I am a man. All straight (but not homophobic) men still have a certain aversion to situations in which there is any hint of bisexuality. Even though there is nothing about my group or reputation that suggests it, a gang bang group organized by a man may be so perceived.
As a couple, you may have better luck establishing a public gang bang club. Of course, include only men that you know are capable because you have played with them or they have strong references from others.
"Hall Passes" and couples playing separately. - - opinions are like butholes...everyone has one, they all stink. We have been in the LS for 7 years or so and the thing I find funny is just how judgemental "open minded" people can be. You ask a Mormon about a swinger they will tell you they are going to hell and it is adultery blah blah blah....ask a swinger and they will say oh no, it is honesty respect and we do it together for us and blah blah blah...then you have those same swingers who flip and sound like a damn relief society president when it comes to hall passes, bi men, bareback sex, or single men bitching about how it is gross or just not right or want to make a moral judgement (it is just like cheating etc).
If you asking can it work..yes it can. If you are asking if it is right for you...I have no friggin clue, only you two can answer that. Does it work for us (hall pass that is) yes, we enjoy it, we don't do it much but sometimes you meet someone that is hot and single and is a ton of fun and why the hell not get after it? That is our buthole er uh I mean opinion.
How has swinging made your marriage better? - - Communication (REAL communication) is the key but still it's not enough if someone really wants to stray or outright leave. There's been an interesting discussion on another swing site we're on about some of this topic and an old timer on there (who's now divorced) brought up something that we found interesting and that seems to be fairly ubiquitous in the lifestyle. It turns out that most women who have been in the lifestyle for a decent length of time have at one time or another (multiple times for Ms. Evil and some of the ladies we've known for some time) been told by a play partner (more often by a single male or even more often a vanilla guy...lot's of swingers seem to get a thrill out of vanilla hunting I guess) that if they were THEIR partner they would NEVER share them with another man. Think about that for a minute. With the way most women are raised and the messages society pounds into their heads about love, romance, fidelity, etc., how powerful are those words are. In fact let's take a little poll. Are there any women who've been in the lifestyle for, say, at least 5 years and play fairly frequently who have never had a guy tell them or insinuate that? Just curious.
Swingers - a couples only lifestyle? - Are singles considered to be swingers? - T4 is absolutely right. Swinging is an activity in it's self. Whether Hugh coined the term or not, and whether it did mean couples activity early on, that definition has changed through out the years. Especially with the new generations as it's become more acceptable to be in threesome and foursome situations. Look at MTV, etc... Swinging is a lifestyle and it doesn't make you any less of a swinger if you are single or if you choose to surround yourself in it but are selective in your choices.
facebook swingers group utah. - - [quote=TOLEDO4668]Given we have this place... Why do we need a Facebook page? What's broken? What are you trying to fix?[/quote]
Great question. Look at the new version of Facebook coming out and ask yourself if you really want businesses selling you stuff around the lifestyle, for mom to see. There is nothing private about Facebook. We'd love to know what's going on and realize the ease, but we'd prefer our Grandma, cousins, employer etc... doesn't know.
Fantasy Fest 2009 in Key West - Looking for others planning to go - we can post other thread later like where will you be at FF and when. The Garden of eden above the bull and whistle is clothing optional bar day & night. It is another good meet up spot for swingers.
Gun haters...gun lovers....How do you interpret......? - - First off I DONOT see the word sanctity in the amendment. You can't just add words to try and justify your side. Secondly our cicil rights are spell out in the amendments hence being call bill of rights. So I ask again which amendment gives people the right to wed.
As an aside though Don let's look at gay marriage another way. Let's say that by chance you decide to join a swingers website and state you do not want single men writing you. Now let's say that the two gay guys that got married are really only bi and they are on the same site.
Is it ok for them to contact you? You don't need to answer as it is just a rhetorical question.
Quit misrepresenting / What we are looking for - We are sick of sick twisted people. - Just when you think swingers are all like minded we find that there are all different reasons that they are in the lifestyle...some like to be friends first and build a trust and connection, but not too close of friends...others want to find a few couples that they can build a great friendship with and have close sexual relationship with...some just like the thrill of someone finding them attractive and give them a shot of self confidence along with the feeling that they still got it. We have met some that just want to have sex, with very little connection or thought of knowing the other couples. To some degree many if not all want a lot of one and a little of the others of all scenarios described above. Still others get wrapped up in a double life with lies and deceit that can be mutually destructive to those that cross their path....and of course we can go on and on.
Our quest is simple...1) first and foremost do no harm. 2) be impeccable with your word not only to your spouse/significant other, but to those you meet. 3) Care about those that you choose to build relationships with...must have some kind of a connection. 4) Have their back and be their friend...good times or bad times. 5) For us personally separate rooms are ok, but at least for now...no separate dates. 6) Like and trust both of the spouses. 6) The other couple must love each other.
We try not to worry about people that don't match up with what we want...wish them the best in their plight. This formula for us has allowed both of us to enjoy our time with others, without regret. What I find funny is a few of the couples that want something different than what we are interested in, getting down right upset, as if there is only one way to be in the lifestyle(sex and more sex and we want it right now)...guess that's what makes the world go round.
How do you tell who is in Swingular??? - Free Swingular Indentification Key Chains!! - well I will give them out all week... to who ever wants one.. sorry about the drama uthot is right we are here to try and find other swingers and have fun uthot hope no hard feelings I just wanted to have some fun... hope you give away a lot of condoms use them with whom you give them to and have fun walt
Swinging and Polyamory - How big a role does polyamory play in swinging? - As with swingers who some like to do just watching, full-swamp, partial swap etc. In poly there are many different types of flavors and way's in which to have full filling relationships. We are complex beings and therefore it makes sense that one form of something won't work for someone else. We have been in the swinging community for over five years and in different states. We typically stop swinging when something is up in our marriage because even though we have an open marriage we are smart enough to realize when there is something going on to close our relationship back up for a time. to work on US. We have had many good friends we cared about. We hard about Poly and thought we found a couple we could open ourselves to not just sexually but emotionally. It was a wonderful experience. We lived in the same house for a year. Her and I got along well and my hubby and he got along great too. We cared for and loved them. It didn't take away from our love nor did it dimish it. We all slept in a big puppy pile on the bed and learned to live together.
The thing that stopped the relationship was they where both younger then us and where not 100% they wanted to even be open forever. We also realize we didn't want what is called a V relationship or W in our case. Where the married couple are together and the both have a BF and GF. But no connection between the men or the women sexually or emotionally. We realized we need a true triad to be happy.
We now have that with two males and one female. We all love one another, care for one another, and are sexual with one another. We are family. It takes LOTS of communication. It also takes being considerate of everyone in the household. We open our triad to play experiences. Because we love to still explore our sexuality with others. However; our hearts for a lack of a better word are with one another. Love comes in all flavors and we enjoy them all. Is it easy? no. I don't know how long it will last but we know we won't regret loving someone as deeply as we do and getting to experience things with them.
If anyone has questions about swinging or poly please email me. We float threw both worlds and I am just happy we can all have this conversation on alternative lifestyles.