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Can someone enlighten me? - - I'm just curious... like I mentioned in another thread, now that my thong pic isn't our primary profile pic we're suddenly getting a LOT of blind friend requests (well, I assume they're blind because they didn't wanna be BFF's when it was MY ass they were lookin' at.
[em]Emo_59[/em] But I digress. So am I the only one who kinda has a problem accepting a friendship request from people with absolutely no pictures whatsoever in their profiles, little or no info of any kind in the written portion that would lead me to believe we might have anything in common or give me any reason whatsoever to let them look at our private pics in all their glory? I think this would make a good poll. What do you think the number one reason someone would have no pics at all in their profile?
1) They're shy....no, I mean REALLY fucking shy!
2) They don't own a camera, a phone with a camera, know someone who owns a camera or have a pencil to at least draw a stick figure of themselves.
3) They're in the Federal Witness Protection Program.
4) They're internationally famous movie stars and charge for autographed photos.
5) They can't quite figure out all this computer/internet/Instagram shit.
6) They really don't give a fuck but would REALLY appreciate it if we'd open our pics because their fap folder is gettin' low.
7) They're ghosts/vampires/aliens who are physically unable to be photographed.
8) They're not really swingers. They work for the NSA (or the LDS church)
9) None of your damned business. Just open your fucking face pics to them!
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How's everyone spending the long weekend? - Who's up for some spontaneous get togethering? - We're celebrating our 15th wedding anniversary all weekend, we started Wednesday night with our private dinner and a Vegas show, Of course Thursday is T-day so family time, Friday is party time with friends, a dinner with everyone and a party at the swingers club later that night. Sat and Sun is as much sex as we can fit in.
If anyone is in Vegas they can join us, we wish we lived in Utah though, so many people there
Lifestyle RV Parks & Campgrounds - Does anyone know of RV parks and campgrounds for those in the lifestyle? - Check out www.Floridaswingparty.com
They host parties at a nudist resort every once in a while. We know the owners of the resort and it is not a swingers resort, but there are an aweful lot of swingers that go there.
One for the Boys! - I need some ideas for a possible party - ohhh, I totally spaced that...
I remember a weekend rental cottonwood canyon. Apx. 6 bedrooms, playroom and all the wonderful accoutrements swingers love!
'Nuther surfing exploration for me!
Swinging and Children Don't Mix With Me, What about You? - Unforgettable experience - I have to say, having children and trying to meet with couples can be very hard on your lifestlye. Family always comes first in my book, but it doesn't seem like every parent thinks that, which is why I'm letting you know why they should start thinking about it.
We thought that maybe if we could meet with a couple that also have a child or has children, that we could have a better, lasting relationship and have other things to enjoy with these couples, besides just swinging. Well, one couple didn't work out with us and I don't know how to go about letting them know they were wrong in what happened.
I'm the only one that even seemed to get upset about the situation and I wanted to get others opionion to make sure I don't owe an opology to them. Here's what happened.....
Me and my husband met with a couple at a swingers club, which was off-premise, and we talked some and explained we had children and that we wanted to meet with couples, but it was hard with younsters and it was also hard to find a reliable and trusting babysitter to be able to enjoy the night out. They the told us they had a child and that if we wanted to talk more and get to know each other better, that we could come to their home for a dinner, with our kids. Now...we explained up front that we don't play seperate and we definitely did not play if we had our children with us. They said that it wouldn't be a problem, no hank-panky with kids around, because they too had a small one. This sounded really great to us, because we thought we found a good couple to be friends with and have some extra benefits too, if we wanted.
Well, things started out okay. We were greeted at the door by the family, and our kids was introduced to their child, and was showed some computer games and such to play. That gave us time to talk a little to the couple and was shown the outside of their home and such before dinner. After dinner is when everything went WRONG. First, I had to go to the bathroom. Well, while I was gone to the bathroom, the Mrs. decide to give my hubby a tour of the rest of the house, mainly the extra bedroom....and when I asked the hubby where my hubby was, he said.."Don't worry about them, they'll be okay for awhile"...well, that really ticked me off, especially knowing our children were now mixed up in this...and our oldest asking where his daddy went with that lady.....that was about the last straw for me....but I was in these peoples home, not mine, and I respect others homes, but in this situation, I was ready to leave, and without my other half....because he too knew our rules of playing.
Well, when the Mrs. and mine came back up, my other half knew I was mad, but for some strange reason, he felt like he had to still play around with her, and in the same room all the children were in!!!! Not to mention, she couldn't keep her hands off him, which was not making my situation of trying to calm down any easier.
When I finally got my hubby alone, I "very persistantly" told him me and the kids were leaving...NOW..and if he was smart he had better be out the front door before me or I would leave him there, and I truely meant it. I was so angry and hurt by all of the happenings around me, I thought that if this is what it's like to try and swing...FORGET IT...my nerves or marriage weren't going to stay together if this is what I had to look forward to everytime.
My hubby didn't get out the door before me..he was too busy kissing the Mrs good-bye....and I mean french-kissing..... but, thank Goodness I got the kids out the door before me....and that didn't help out any on his part, believe me. We stopped swinging for many years after that because of trust with one another and with other couples saying one thing and then doing another.
This particular couple apparently feels that nothing was wrong with what happened, and actually contacted us again after many, many, many years after this incident happened.
I'm not one either to "shun" anyone, but this expereince really bothered me then, and still does, and after them contacting us again, through an e-mail, not by phone, it makes me wonder about my feelings on the matter.
Am I wrong to feel this way, even after all these years? I do trust my husband NOW, after the bad expereinces, because there was one more after that, but it took alot of talking, yelling, and regaining a trust that is hard to achieve after something that drastic that involved your kids in the process.
I e-mailed them back, but I know it was short and blunt, nothing mean, I don't do things like that, but what if they try again to contact us...what do I say?
Any help/advice/opinions is appreciated.
Hope no one ever has to expereince something like this...most marriages would never have lasted unless you really had a great understanding with your mate, and we put ours to the test and passed.......barely.
Tooele People :) - Tooele Daytime Players Club - [quote=ILLUSTRATOR]Maybe the Tooele swingers have day jobs so they can't answer your call to arms. [/quote]
If they have day jobs how can they have fuck parties during the day? Lunch hour? Coffee break? Flex time? Orgy under their desk?
Are we doing something wrong? - - Southernfox,
Did you expect to put up a profile and then have couples knocking down your door?
Swingers are people, just like everyone else, we have personal tastes, likes, dislikes, preferences, or desires. You are not going to be a perfect match to everybody,
Do you remember what it was like to be a single guy looking? thats alot like swinging. You go out, meet people, put up the best fight you can, put your hook in the water and hope. Then go home alone 98% of the time. Lick your wounds, learn from your mistakes and get over it
Your profile says you want to get out of the house, why not meet and greets? We have driven 4 hours from where we live to meet some cool new people at some of the secret desire parties. You are less than and hour away...if it doesn't work out, or it isn't fun..split, go get a movie and muchies and chalk it up. What do you have to lose?
As for the women wanting your wife and not you...come on man, 98% of the women on this site are Bi or Bi-curious, if your looking for a girl for yourself look for the 2% of us that are straight. Or get a hooker, no strings there!
Basically my advice to you is to put up or shut up, you will only get something out of this if you put effort into it. Nobody is going to chase you.
To the ones who have said swingular doesnt work for them....we have tried other sites that didn't do it for us, for the same reason I imagine you don't have luck on this one.
Most of the people on this site are from Ut, others are Nevada based, or New York, or wherever. Stick to one closer to home or do a google search and find one closer to home. Its not the site, its the people on it.
Ocho Rios Jamaica - Trip Jan 15-22 - [quote=PANACA7453]We have been there a couple of times, (before we were "swingers"). We loved the canopy tour and Dunns river falls. Let us know if you find any fun swinger clubs. [/quote]We will thanks for the tip.
Pictures - real or not - A nude photo doesn't make you a swinger! If that's even you in the pic! - SWMTCPL wrote:
It's interesting what folks post as a picture. I'm sorry - but having photos of your wedding posted on a swing site seems like you couldn't find anything else better or more interesting to post? Or a photo of a very sexy woman - in fact so sexy she looks right out of a magazine yet the picture of the husband shows him taking a picture of himself in a mirror?
Someone mentioned this in a prior post - but if you're going to post a picture - you should have at least one or two pictures showing you with someone else. At least then there is some credibility to you are who you say you are.
I wonder how many photos of wives, girlfriends, neighbors or complete strangers are posted here on Swingular and they don't have a clue they are. I would bet MANY. More and more single men are being discovered in here posing as a couple every day and you wonder whose photo they used for their wife.
We would encourage the Swingular webmaster to verify every photo - either by voice contact - or by video/webcam. It may be very time consuming - but it's the only way we know of to weed out the fakes. If anyone has any better ideas - let's hear from you.
It is logistically impossible for them to do that right now. The staff consists of only the site owner. It's easy to verify these people. CAM UP with them. If the refuse to cam with an excuse like, "we can't afford to buy one" or "we haven't purchased one yet", then you simply reply, "Contact us when you can/do".
You'll never "weed out" all the scam artists. The trick is stick to the verified couples. There is less of a chance of fraudulent profiles. Notice that I said less. There is always going to be a way of circumventing security. It is up to you, the swinger, to guard yourself against possible bogus couples by not just relying on their pics alone. Pictures are not the only means of verification. The webcam is actually better.
As far as your comment about which picture you post, that should be entirely up to you. I think you should post honest pictures that give you the best result. My public pics highlight my wife more because she's hot and draws more attention. My private pictures show us playing and in intimate poses.
Honesty is the key. If your wedding pic shows you both, then it's fine. If the couple refuses more than a wedding pic and text, then don't go there. It's still in your power to refuse a meeting or the time of day.
Getting a "REAL" or "VIP" verification stamp on your profile with help prove your validity. If you are still leary or paranoid because of the .001% of the people on here that have slipped past the security measures, then maybe you should not use this method of meeting other swingers. That would be more logistical feasible than checking every photo posted by the hundreds of thousands of members. How would you do that anyway? Sorry if that sounds harsh.
Just a thought....
Guess I shoulda read your post VALENCEPARADIGM. I was repeating you lol. Well said brutha.