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Where are all the gentlemen? - - Its single guys like that (a few married ones too) that give single guys bad reputations. I personally feel that regardless if it is a swing party, event, occassion, etc. whenever a couple or woman in general is willing to allow you to touch her in any situation it should be done with all respect. OK, there are def times when she may want to be called a dirty whore, filthy cum slut, just a 3-hole bitch,etc. but those are very obvious times and just because she is a swinger doesn't mean you have the right to put your hands or any other body parts on her without her permission. NOBODY should assume they have any rights to do anything with anyone's body that is not their own! Swingers, Sluts, Whores, Prostitutes, etc. does not mean free for all who care to use me, touch me,etc. People in general should be repected simply because it is their body, regardless of what they may let someone else do to it. There is just no home training anymore, sad, sad wolrd.
Whenever I am lucky enough to find a couple that is looking for a single male I make sure to verify what is and what is not allowed. As a single male I understand that I am being given a gift to share in the sexual encounters of this man's wife, lover, partner, girlfriend, baby momma,etc. 90% of the time it is mainly for her enjoyment and I have yet to meet anyone that likes strangers to paw them out of the blue or see a person they care about be pawed without consent. My purpose in that situation is to bring more pleasure to the couple by pleasing the women with/without in same/different room, adding that extra spark they haven't been able to obtain with just the two of them.
Ok, I'm getting off my soap box, but this really pisses me off to hear things like that are still happenening and some people can be so ignorant and rude.
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How did you get into Swinging - Was it his Idea or hers? - My wife and I were living in Salem, Oregon and were thinking about learning to swing dance. I was looking up swing dance lessons and Google showed me a site called "Salem Swingtime Dance". One click was all it took and we were attending a Halloween ball full of swingers. We were instantly hooked on the voyeur aspect and continued the "watching" for a few years. Then we moved to UTAH!!! Now we've graduated to a whole new level of naughtiness. It's also a huge plus that the majority of Utahans are sexually repressed most of their lives due to their religious upbringings. This makes them very naughty, very secretive (no kiss and tell), and very well mannered and respectful. That's been our experience anyway.
So, to answer the question, it's been a combination of both of us. We make our decisions together. Don't get me wrong, we've definetly hit bump along the way.
P.S. I'd like to interview for a position SOUTHERNFUN! lol
Flakes and Friend Requests - Why bother? - When we started swinging (sometime around the time George Washington was prez) it was considerably more difficult to enter the scene and meet people. Before swinging came to the internet you had to usually rent a P.O. box, figure out a way to take pictures (this was before digital cameras too) and buy a magazine with ads in it. Then you had to write a letter and mail copies of your pics along with it to an unknown person. Now with entry into the lifestyle just a mouse click away it's WAY too easy for people who either aren't really swingers or aren't really sure they want to actually do this to jump online and titillate themselves by writing to people, looking at naked pics of them (and likely jerking off) and even "agreeing" to meet. Unfortunately their resolve ends there and for whatever reason they don't follow thru. Back when there was a lot more time and energy expended people were more likely to actually show up and meet each other. But even then there were still flakes. Meh.
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UNIVERSAL "SWINGER" SIGN - UNIVERSAL "SWINGER" SIGN - Is there a Universal sign for Swingers? And if there is not, there should be! How many times have you been in a bar or out with your partner and spotted a nice looking couple and wondered???Are they??? What can you say without embarrassing yourself or them by saying, "hey are you in the lifestyle?"
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The Single Male Debate: An Anthopological Perspective - I would like to discuss the science behind the place of single males in the lifestyle - Great post! Think back to when you all first signed up for this or any website for Swingers. Everything was new, and you had to fill in all of the boxes, write a profile and get pics together etc... With most of the couples, I'll bet that it was the guy who was doing all of this in most cases. And he's thinking about how great its going to be with all of these single women coming over for some MFF action, right guys? I know that's what got me excited! Oh, the delusion of it all. Still waiting... all of you hot single women! Ok... maybe we need to adjust our thinking here. I suppose meeting a couple with a really hot bi-curious wife would be fun... but what to do with her guy? Maybe he'll fall asleep or something! So the evolution of expectations continued, as did the evolution of what we were comfortable with as a couple... but it all took time. This whole Lifestyle thing terrified me as much as it excited me... and once you open Pandora's Box... your fucked. You can't put it back, can you? It messes with your whole world... makes you question all that you were brought up to believe about love, marriage and monogamy. It's pretty funny really, looking back at myself anyway with all of my fears, double standards, delusions and desires. There were definitely not going to be any single guys in my fantasies, and I was sure my sweet innocent little wife wouldn't have any of those fantasies, right? I was shocked that some couples actually checked that "single male" box. I thought they were pretty brave, and evolved. I was still not ready. And besides, my wife insisted that she absolutely wasn't interested in this... what a lucky guy I was:) I dodged a bullet for sure on that one! And then it happened... quite unexpectedly. Before I could chicken out, or anything, we were in a MMF threesome. Wow... that wasn't SO bad... I mean it was actually WAY HOT! And so we evolve... in my case, very slowly! Thanks for your patience honey:)
Swinger Cycling - - We can't say for sure if they were swingers, but we rode past a group and many of them had this bike, so....
Sturgis 2015! - It's that time, again! -
Secret hand shake. We got some info on identifying swingers from Swing Lifestyle/SLS, they leaning towards a black ring band worn on the right hand on the same finger as the wedding finger on the the left hand. We got ours on Amazon.
Whats concidered BBW? - - As swingers maybe we would like to think that the only reason monogamy became so prevalent and popular in western society is because religions, governments and a male dominance ploy all worked together as a mean to achieve power and control etc., etc., and for that reason all other forms of sexuality have been subject to persecution. I think there is a valid argument and facts to support the theory that the enforcement of monogamy is somewhat conspiratorial and not all based on the idea that it is the ultimate good or best relationship. However, perhaps, it is, socially also somewhat advantageous, in that it is so much easier to be polite. We all work and socialize with people that we hold in high esteem that we do not find sexually attractive. In a monogamous world where sex is usually not on the table for consideration, in interpersonal relations, the offense of rejecting and the pain of rejection are avoided. I think that removing sex from consideration in so many social interactions has perhaps, provided for some level of peace and has, perhaps, promoted the general welfare. So to be a swinger, and happy, do we, perhaps, have to be a bit more enlightened than the average Joe or Jane?
Because sex drive originates from our primitive brain, which is not rational, we do not have absolute control over what we find sexy. So what we reject and what we accept are somewhat out of our control. Perhaps, all we should expect from our higher brain function is all the added color and dimensions to sex we can oh so enjoy. That is a lot and that is what makes the primitive urges so much more fun for us, I would speculate, than for any other species. So what 99.999999995 of humanity share is a primitive urge for sex. Preference is subject to and more fully experienced by our unique higher brain function and all the abstracts of preference. Never-the-less, we do not seem to be able to ever completely escape a certain level of primitive hard wiring and perhaps a certain level of social conditioning too. We all want to be accepted and fit. Devotees of the joys of BBW, given the chance will fulfill all their primitive needs in a sea of wonderful expansive abstractions that will color the experience and make it somewhat sacred. Same goes for most any other preference save those that ignore the needs, wants and safety of their partner. Hence those hard wired to be gay, can and should and I hope do swim in a sea of gay fulfillment. Those that are hard wired heterosexual can and I hope do, swim in a sea of heterosexual fulfillment and those bisexual will swim in their own sea and so it goes for those that yearn to swim in the sea of BBW or any other preference. To be an enlightened and a totally happy citizen of the swing community, perhaps, we should remember that albeit the water is just dandy in the sea in the which we choose to swim that the water is just as dandy in the pools we are not predisposed to enjoy.
If someone, decides, that they really want to swim in a different pool, well that is their preference and if being comfortable in the pool requires they make a few changes, then, perhaps, the best thing we can do is wish them well and support their decision. Choosing to change is after all a preference we all, should perhaps, respect and support.