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Looking to establish a group of safe swingers - - We are would like to be a part of the group sounds like safe clean fun!
Orgasms . . . the expressions on their faces - I love to watch ladies when they cummmmm - OH MY . . . we thank all of you ladies who are so willing to share with the rest of us swingers your triumphs.
The Orgasms yes that sexual excitement, consisting of intense muscular tightening around the genital area. Experienced as pleasurable wave of tingling (sometimes quivering) sensations through parts of the body. You know that it was a good one when your toes start to tingle. That is the reason for most of us to have intercourse (fuck) the opposite sex. Not only for us to fulfill our needs but our partners needs to achieve . . . their private moment of . . . Joy . . . Pleasure . . . Fulfillment.
As someone before stated, it
Swingers clubs or parties - - well we can tell you of some in knoxville tenn if that helps you out
Playing with \"swingers\" vs \"nonswingers\" - - Okay this probably doesnt make alot of sense, but here goes.
We went to the bar the other night and met some new folks, regular guys that aren\'t in the lifestyle- that is they are just regular single young guys. I love to flirt so I had picked out a particular nice guy and we were playing pool etc. Well I happened to mention that hubby and I were swingers etc....
Now my question is, do you only play with someone else who\'s into the lifestyle? This guy really wanted to get in on some action with me and now thinking about it, I just feel nervous. It has brought back old anxieties about when I was single and all the single assholes out there that were looking to just get laid and kick you to the curb. At least in this lifestyle, you get to know people and there is a certain kind of understanding about sex and you usually know that the person you will be fucking cares about you in some respect.
I am trying to make a decision about whether to let this guy in or not for some play. I just can\'t decide how I feel about it.
Any input would be appreciated!!!
XOXOXO
Jen
Another Swingers Show on TV - - We will call
swingers helper... - I know some of us need this every now and again... - Sexercise for the women
This lifestyle - What are we really? - MORDON: Huh??
Wow...no easy task to consolidate concepts as broad and inclusive as swinging and/or polyamory into neat little boxes. I'm still trying to follow how you grouped the two into polar opposites.
I'm not sure that the way you're defining either of those would be true for the majority of those in the swinging communities, and especially not Sirensextress or myself.
If I have the ability to to love more than one person...then yes, I suppose I am polyamorous, but NOT in the same way that a couple who is truly polyamorous might view it (I do love not just one but all my children/siblings and whatnot).
You've painted a rather bleak and harsh picture of us non-polyamorists, by boldly stating that swingers are, "friends with benefits....True swinging is having sex just for the sake of having sex. No talking ...no getting to know each other...not caring one iota about the other person. Basically have sex and if the other person dies on the way home ...who give gives a shit!"
That statement is well, to put it bluntly, naive and uninformed.
We've never engaged in sex without talking, or getting to know one another. How else would we know if there's any chemistry?
We care greatly for most of the people we've encountered through swinging, and would most CERTAINLY care if they died on the way home!
In short...we "give a shit"!
I think in it's broadest sense, the term "swinging" is large enough to cater to the appetites of a wide spectrum of people, from those that are inclined to polyamory, to those that prefer to fuck 'em and leave 'em, to those that are the swinging wannabe's, to those that are exclusive.
We are by no means polyamorous, but yes, we've run into couples that are in the truest sense of the word, poly. In fact, we've met couples that have wanted us to participate in the poly lifestyle. However, they are looking for something quite different that what we are looking for.
Neither my wife nor myself are looking to be "married" to another couple, or to become a "secondary" husband/wife to them. Yet, being the "non-polyamorists" that we are, and according to your definition, we should be unable able to maintain very close friendships with any other swingers.
Actually...our experiences have been quite the opposite.
Most of our closest friends have come out of The Lifestyle.
Do we love them? Yep.
Have/are we sexually intimate with them? Yep.
Are we romanticaly involved, exclusive and IN love with them? No.
Do we love them like family? Yep.
Are we polyamorous? No.
Does this just boil down semantics? Yes..probably. However I felt compelled to speak on behalf of those of us that actually do care about the people that we meet through the lifestyle. Cuz we DO give a shit and we're NOT the cold-hearted people we've been made out to be!
:)
How to find other swingers - - Since colored wrist bands are already in use by kids letting each other know who far they have gone, sexually, it would or could make kids think that mom and dad are having sex or something.... We all know that parents do not have sex..... Right? I made an innocuous comment about sex one time and one of my daughters. She said that that was more than she ever wanted to know... I think it had to do with the fact that she came out as a lesbian and I said something, an old joke about we both had something in common.... now. That was more than she ever wanted to know.. I though it was rather funny at the time...
So think about the possibility that a guy might be telling the world that he gave a BJ just by the use of a colored wristband or that mom went down on a female....
How to find other swingers - - If we're in a crowd of people and we want to find others, we wear our shirts that say "We love the lifestyle". The words are not in big bold letters across the front and back of the shirt and on a mens shirt they appear on the left chest and on women's they appear across the middle of the shirt.
To most straight couples they wouldn't even know nor pay attention since the words are not just "out there" - they are tastefully done. BUT - others in the lifestyle will pick up on them immediately.
Swingers now officially a high risk group for STDs and STIs - Do your own research - Don't be ignorant enough to claim you are absolutely 100% STD/STI free. The test panel to clear you of absolutely everything would costs thousands of dollars and require many of the infections to be ACTIVE.
You can do the best you can, but it's unlikely you are as clear as you believe. 8 out of 10 adults in the U.S. has HSV1. How many swingers do you think have it? You will likely be asymptomatic forever, but it's VERY unlikely you don't have it. There are over 100 strains of HPV. A "pap" checks for a few. And men can have it too.
Life is a risk. Do your research and then do what you want. Be as careful as your own risk tolerance allows. But there's no need to blow smoke up the asses of the people that have done their research.
That said. There can't be enough awareness brought to this, so thank you for scaring people into doing some research. :)
Also,
[b]Come get tested at the Utah Aids Foundation.[/b] You don't need an appointment. They do testing Monday and Thursday from 5:00 to 7:00. Aids is FREE and Syphilis, Chlamydia, Gonorrhea and Hep C are cheap or free based on current grant money. There's no reason not to swing by.
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