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That little nudge many of us need - - [quote=PARTYINLV][quote=EVILDOERS]There are plenty of people on Swingular, ourselves included, who strongly prefer to meet and get to know people a bit (sometimes over weeks or even months) before any kind of 'sexy time' happens. In fact, for us at least, we're happy just to hang out and be friends even if sex NEVER happens. There are also avowed demi-sexuals here who absolutely need some kind of emotional connection (and no, it doesn't necessarily have to be romantic or love or anything beyond friendship) before they can feel sexual attraction to other people. Perhaps your wife is more oriented in that direction. Beyond that, maybe it would be more above-board to just hang out with vanillas and see if you can slowly evolve your friendship towards something more sexual. Just a thought.[/quote]
We have friendships with vanilla couples who we think are smoking hot and wish they were in the lifestyle. lol. Perhaps this is a question for another forum thread. But, how does one broach the subject with a vanilla couple who are friends? Does anyone have any success stories of how you converted a vanilla couple friendship to the lifestyle? We would be afraid about outing ourselves or maybe even losing a friendship. [/quote]
Personally, we think the best way to broach that subject with vanillas is to just, at some point in the friendship, put it out there that you're swingers and then let the other couple process, digest, and come to terms with that information and do with it what they will. We feel like there are FAR too many swingers who enjoy 'vanilla hunting' and use unfair tactics (alcohol, late nights, etc.), if not outright subterfuge, to try to 'convert' them as, I guess, some kind of power trip. If you let people have the space to come to a rational, informed decision on their own there is, IMO, FAR less chance for drama (or WORSE!) as a sequela.
Why so much hate in the swingers world... - - Agreed Two.
Let's get together and play with toys!
-K_T
What swingers are from SC - - Just wonder what swingers from SC come here to the forums
How do you spot a Swinger..?! - tell tell signs of the lifestyle - The wristband would be very cool for big parties and swing clubs. Diane has a necklace with an apple that has a bite out of it from [url=http://www.nasca.com/]NASCA[/url] (was "North American Swing Clubs Association" but now just "NASCA" because they're international ). For those that know it the symbol says it all and for those that don't know it could be just some Mac fan or teacher thing. She did get called out on it once in a very strange way. She was at at GYN appointment with a specialist and he asked what the "Apple" was. She said it was her NASCA Apple and he came back with he had heard about it and "always wanted to try swing dancing . . . but somehow didn't think it was about that type of dance" with a smile on his face. She said if it was not for the position she was in she might have had a good come back but it was all to strange at the time. Both him and the nurse seemed very comfortable with the topic . . . we had heard there was a GYN doctor in the area that was active in the lifestyle so it could have been him.
The real trick of having something that both shows your lifestyle and at the same time being innocent is being ready to go one way or the other when asked. Our family sees our boat's name (Swingtide) as just a nautical thing about the change in tides and how it matched a change in our life too. Those that know us online and we cross paths on the water spot us without a problem for something more than the change in sea level.
It is too bad that we, as the gay community put it, can't come out of the closet. We have no international "rainbow flag" that we can fly and no "Swinger's Day" at Disney World. Lots of places and people come out with something to sell to identify but hide our lifestyle. The problem with that is it's always changing so there is no way to know. In most towns asking about a Swing Club would be hard because there are not that many and lots swingers don't go the club route. We remain a hidden community connected in groups here and there be it online places like this or clubs or just local groups of friends - we miss out on a lot of new friends because we have no clue who is who most of the time.
They need to add a wrist band for couples willing to play with single guys (or not willing). I guess it could get a bit complex - Bi female of full swap/same room/couple sometimes willing to play with single female or a single guy . . . how many wrist bands would that be? New sales pitch at a swingers club "Programs! Programs! Get your programs here! You can't tell the swingers without the program!"
Swingers cars??? - What ya driving?? - I used to drive this but the cops kept pulling me over. I don't know why. [em]Emo_9[/em]
How can a single male stand out? - We single males have a (understandable) bad rep. - It seems like there are just better sites for singles aff tinder and many more swingers are picky and we get so many single guys it’s like going to buy a car too many choices and is overwhelming with the pick up line HEY or dtf no we aren’t and keep you dick pic to yourself unless asked for it it’s tiring of the single males wining about what they want why can’t they be different idk I hope the admins will help move theses post to hook up and not forum discussions I know not everyone agrees just my two cents good luck
Swingers in a vanilla bar... - - In my experience, try to ask an innocent question, as in, 'Have you ben to *insert name of local swing club*?'
SLC, UT // Monster Cock; 'Missed' Connection - A few years ago you fucked me at my daddy's behest; I have a new Daddy but still crave your cock - [quote=cocksleve][quote=Utahldscouple]Hmmmmm...new account and a post like this. Seems legit.[/quote]
I’m authentic, and established in SLC as an individual. I don’t run in swingers circles, I’m just here looking for one person in particular.
So cry catfish all you like, it makes no difference to me.[/quote]Interesting choice of words...we never said anything about catfishing :D!
KUTV News Story on Swingers - News - [quote=TAP4U2]Would that be desirable? There is no up-shot to more exposure good or bad. The more attention you draw the more likely those that have polar opposite views will notice and turn their time and attention to you.
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This story is no different than car accidents during a NASCAR race or sex scenes on the Game of Thrones. The public gets a little look at something titillating and taboo wrapped up in a way to make it consumable without feeling guilt. It was not about the woman who called the station, she was just the excuse to work sex into a news story.
The news-people know this and peddle it appropriately: Start the newscast by mentioning it and saying it was "coming up" then mention it again just before and/or after each commercial break.. then run the segment near dead last before ending the show. Most likely they ran little commercials for it all week long as well. Sex sells :)[/quote]
It's kind of two sided. Short term we think would be mostly bad. Long term continual exposure would eventually breed a level of tolerance from some of the vanilla community. Unless you wanted to be maryter no it's not a good idea. We wouldn't do an interview. Frankly for most of us swinging is not at all what defines us nor occupies very much of our time.
Why swingers are happier. - - Where is the swinging article
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