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KUTV News Story on Swingers - News - Is it sweeps already??!
Single Males - - In our experience some of the select, honorable and honest single men that have profiles on this site also enjoy actively dating women not associated with, or self identifying with the "swinging lifestyle". No they don't up and blurt out on a first date that they sometimes fuck other men's wives (not that couples own each other) and or participate in group sex with "swingers". Yes they disclose their sexual nature and life choices when dating leans toward sex with a woman. Yes we know of guys that give up swinging if they are seriously dating a woman and she is uneasy or apposed to his having those sorts of sexual relationships or often just because he is just really into her and she is the focus of all his energies. As was mentioned earlier in this thread, couples that have a rock solid romantic and sexual relationship are those that often are the most comfortable and successful with their pursuits within the swing community. Couples who by nature value each other and their relationship first and foremost are much less likely to struggle with too much eternal angst over swinging or even the lack there of. So with that said, some single fellows who really enjoy adventurous sex also enjoy deeper romantic relationships. Most men like to have sex, with sex for sex sake included in that mix. Some guys only want to have sex and those guys are more than likely, going to purchase memberships on the site too. Wouldn't it make sense that the deeper more multidimensional sorts of fellows, would make better playmates, while at the same time being just a bit less available at the drop of a hat, or less likely to send out countless emails or express immediate anger and frustration at any sign of rejection?
Foot note of sorts, non monogamy is quite a bit less of a radical idea outside of the religious communities these days. All the swingers events and maybe group sex and such, may in part be becoming what sets "swingers" apart much more than merely living a somewhat open and comfortable non-monogamous life.
Here or AFF - - [quote=IFTownFuck]Saw a few posts that seemed to cut out the words/sites. Which ones are they[/quote]
sls is swingers lifestyle. aff is adult friend finder, i am thinking this is what u are looking for
Where are the Midwest Swingers? - - [quote=HEBER4FUN]
When you live in Utah, the kink just comes out I guess!
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Hey! I resemble that remark. LOL.
Im trying to change the reputation of Utah one kinky adventure at a time.
Looking to establish a group of safe swingers - - It's hard to find a group of couples like this but love the idea!
Swingers - a couples only lifestyle? - Are singles considered to be swingers? - We don't care either way...but, Yolo cruises and Swingular, amongst others, have partnered together to sponsor a "Lifestyle" cruise for couples & single females only, thus excluding single men. Go figure. Oh, Hugh Hefner is still legally married! Go HEF! What about the term poly-amorous for singles? eh, who knows. Commence the a** ripping.
adult theaters - - [quote=BITESIZE]It seems hard to believe because of how available it is on the internet, but it is illegal to make or distribute actual porn in Utah.[/quote]
So could we open a virtual theater with 3 dimensional anime porn?
Seriously there used to be a couple of theaters in downtown Salt Lake City. If I remember it correctly the way the law was written it was the projectionist was who got arrested if the porn crossed the established lines of decency written in the law. Misdemeanor charges. The projectionist would occasionally be arrested bailed out and a fine would be paid. They had a few projectionist that had records that were willing to do the job because they were paid wages that were like 5 times what a projectionist normally gets paid. In the end the investigators were able to discover that the owners of the theaters were using the income from the theaters to subsidize totally legitimate businesses they also owned which resulted in racketeering charges which are a felony and directed at the owners. That was the end of pornographic theaters in Salt Lake City. The internet probably would have put them all out of business anyway.
It seems that I remember that there was also was a well known and very successful modeling and acting booking agency that also sometimes pimped out really stunningly attractive women and some men too to wealthy business people visiting Salt Lake City. This agency had a big legitimate book of business and just sort of disappeared over night due to racketeering charges involving money for sex being deposited into bank accounts of the agency.
So maybe any money earned by anyone, event and party organizers included that can be tied to the lifestyle should be kept separate from any other business they might own just in case the ultra conservative side of our city ever decides to find some leverage to try and shut down swingers events.
Anyone that has been an adult for over three decades living here can see that the culture that apposes the near theocracy that existed here for so long is much larger and has more influence and control than was the case not so long ago. Salt Lake is home to some of the most conservative minded and liberal minded people in the west when in comes to the subject of sex.
Staying a couple in the lifestyle - - [quote=Sofutosuwappu]Our experience so far:
Religious > naturist > meet naturists/nudists who are swingers > soft swap > non-religious > full swap with couples same room > full swap separate room
Thoughts?[/quote]
Wow - what a great thread Sofutosuwappu! I just read some of these responses today. We're actually shocked! Evil - 60 couples . . . WOW! This has not been our experience at all.
While we are relatively new in the LS (since 2015) and we definitely have less LS play experience than most who have commented - our experience has been very different from that described . . . both in terms of our own evolution, but also in terms of what we have personally witnessed with friends.
ALL of the couples we have met in the LS are still together and in loving long-term relationships (as far as we know). Part of that may be dumb luck . . . part of it may be in the 'rules' we set for ourselves. We don't play separately . . . part of the fun is seeing your partner receive joy, pleasure, and excitement! We also specifically seek out people in Long Term relationships . . . and we have stayed away from profiles that intimated a DTF (down to fuck) kind of mind set. Not that there is anything wrong with that - we don't judge . . . just not something we have been interested in. We are attracted to beautiful relationships.
As for our own evolution . . we are STILL very religious, we jumped into the LS first . . . and THEN became nudists 🤣 We have made only a slight adjustment to our play style from our first adventure, and we have no interest in becoming 'non-religious' - we have found the LS to be a continuation or advancement of our understanding of the Judeo-Christian commandment to 'Love One Another'. Maybe we just haven't been in long enough . . . maybe we are self-deluded and are secretly living a life of cognitive dissonance . . . but so far so good.
One HUGE change is that when we first started in the LS . . . we thought we would want to be completely anonymous . . . going so far as to create 'fake names' etc. (I know . . . but we were still virgins . . . we feel SOME guilt about that . . . but we have subsequently repented!😉) We thought that the less people knew about us . . . the better. That changed 180 degrees within the first 6 months of our stumbling into this LS. Now . . . we only seek friends . . . who can be genuine friends . . . and if that progresses to any type of sexual exploration . . . all the better . . . but the friendship rules.
I'm sure we still have a lot to figure out in this regard - but we cherish our new and longer-term friendships . . . and honestly can't wait to spend time with these people. We are missing the summer live concert venues . . . and we can't wait till the next time we meet with friends. If that makes us 'poly-amorous' . . . then consider us 'guilty as charged' - We have somehow managed to maintain significant and deep friendships with just about everyone we've played with. We don't see that changing.
Hope that helps - thought it might as far as providing an alternate perspective. We love the authenticity and honesty shown to us by friends in the LS - we honestly have a hard time now maintaining vanilla relationships . . . whats the point??🤷♂️
Thank you all for the riveting discussion!
movie short - some couples just aren't cut out to be swingers lol - http://www.atomfilms.com/landing/landingIndex.jsp?id=free_speech
Any Swingers out there? Golf swingers that is... - - We are always up for a round of golf!!! We try to get as much in as we can in the short season we get here!!!!! Hit us up anytime for a round!
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