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Mormons - - Wow....this topic is a strange one to have on a swingers site, but I guess people are curious about Mormons in the lifestyle.
We are LDS, and active at that, although we have never been through the temples, and we do not wear garments because we are not ready to meet the requirements
(we could lie and get in, but that to us seems like a bigger sin)
Now...the question how to we reconcile what we do with what we believe?
Well the answer is simple.
We all know when we feel guilty about something, and usually if we feel guilty we need to reconcile ourselves or something in our life. Then perhaps there is something that we need to repent for.
We (my spouse and I) don
am back - spliting up sucks - We know just a few couples that were swingers that got divorced and we know of many others. We have only played with one married couple that since that time got divorced. We have not played with either one of them since their break up but frankly we did not even talk about it as to whether we would or wouldn't due to the change in their marital status. We have not had to address the issue. We are not sure either one of the two are still in the lifestyle.
We think that such decisions are more a case by case sort of thing than a black and white decision but in everything there is a direction you initially lean toward. We would think it might be difficult to continue playing with either half of their former couple equation. If there was even the slightest of slight chance that it would hurt the feelings of either half we would refrain. There are probably couples that may have decided to part ways that really do wish each other joy and happiness in everything including sex and swinging.
Females squirting - - "People like you do not belong here"???... Are you kidding me...the guy asked to see pics of a certain format...the last few request were granted..3-somes pics, kissing, couples etc etc..the only difference this time is that it was requested by a single male and THAT is why the guy doesnt belong here?...Like I said before, this is not a good site for singles at all..It seems the owners of this site wanted this to be a full swingers site with different categories but there are some members that are trying to change it to a COUPLES only site....I suggest the single male like myself find a couple on here that can post their request to avoid all the fighting and what not..there's enough fighting going on in Iraq as it is...do we really need it here????
Big J.
Alternative Websites - What other sites! - The most fun we had was a daybreak swingers Facebook group. Even that had its issues but, We're still bitter that it disappeared
Alaska Swingers - - We had no luck there visiting but the Alaska bush company was fun
courtesy - dates and communication - When we started swinging there was no internet....not like today where it takes a few seconds to find someone you want to fuck and shoot off an email or a friend request. We had to find a magazine with ads for swingers (at an adult book store), write a letter, probably include a Polaroid pic with the letter and mail it and wait for a reply...which didn't always come. So I guess we kind of were conditioned to not really worry about it too much especially once internet swinging happened and it didn't take so much work to reach out. Now it takes so little effort to contact potential playmates that many people often spam out large numbers of emails in a shotgun approach or do the same with friend requests. We've, sadly, gotten to the point in our swinging career where we DON'T respond to blind friend requests or emails that are obviously sent to multiple people (no mention specifically of us or our profile). We used to respond but found that at least half the time we then got no response in return so we assumed the senders got a BBD (bigger, better deal) and were no longer interested. We really don't get our panties in a wad over it. I kind of look at it like an unsolicited spam email from someone wanting to clean my carpets. I really don't feel a great need to respond even though it would be the POLITE thing to do. Although I am seriously considering writing back to that Nigerian prince who wants to give me a million bucks. [em]Emo_67[/em]
That said, blowing someone off after making plans to meet is a douchecopter move and (barring a REALLY good excuse proffered in a timely manner) will quckly get someone on our permanent no fly list. Yup, we're assholes that way. [em]Emo_84[/em]
This one time at Swingers Camp - Discussion about N by N camp out - First of all we'd like to thank all of you sexy peeps for coming out to Naughty By Nature. It takes a strong community to bring people together and make all of this work. So thank you for all your help with setting up, cooking, supplies, break down etc. Thanks to all the participates of the Sex Olympics. You guys ROCKED it!
We are creating a protected gallery for all the pics from the camp out, so if you have pictures you'd like to add please send them to us at [email protected] Here is a link to the gallery for Naughty By Nature [url=http://risquesoiree.com/gallery3/index.php/Naughty-By-Nature-8th-Annual-Camp-Out]http://risquesoiree.com/gallery3/index.php/Naughty-By-Nature-8th-Annual-Camp-Out[/url] it will stay unlocked for a few days until we get all the pics posted. Then you will need to contact us for the password. We will also have more shirts available soon if you want one, just contact us. Thanks again, we feel honored to be part of such a great community.
Charly & Lang
Combining Lifestyle & Non-Lifestyle Friends - - Ah, good topic AC! We're happy to have met many people here that we now consider good close friends that we don't have to hide from when we see them at the mall while we're out with our kids. LoL! It's nice to find those who can be vanilla because our whole life isn't about swinging. So, yes, we have had success in blending swingers into our vanilla lifestyle and we hope to find more:)
Joe & Debbi
Las Vegas - Swingers clubs ect. - [quote=PARTYINLV]Playhouselv allows single guys on Fridays only. Saturdays are couples and single females [/quote]Well if we are going to get technical they allow them on Thursday nights as well. But the statement was in general, single males can attend.
How long did it take to convince ? - - We talked about the fantasy of being in the lifestyle together before we started it. As said before, fantasy and reality are two different things. We weren't ready for a date with another couple yet because we were afraid of expectations or problems arising from things that we hadn't thought about. So, we thought going to a swingers club might be a good way to learn about it. There are no expectations and we could ask advice from others.
But, we were so paranoid about running into someone we knew at a club here in Vegas, where we live. So, we decided to check out the possibilities out of state. lol. We went to Sea Mountain Inn in Palm Springs. It was the first time we were both completely nude in front of others. That was a great beginning as we quickly realized that no one was staring at us. We actually became very comfortable quickly. We did notice a lot of sexual activity. But again, that activity seemed normal to everyone there. We met a lot of great people who were willing to give us friendly advice. We commented how everyone seemed so normal. Even though we went with no expectations, we were given an opportunity to be with another couple, who had a nice "no Pressure" style. Privately, my wife and I discussed our boundaries or any other concerns. After we worked it all out, we agreed to play with the couple and loved it! Ten years later, we are so glad we joined the lifestyle.
So maybe, you should try coming to Vegas and go to a swingers club. Check out the scene, talk to some people, and form your own opinions. The club will be as tame or as wild as you want it to be.
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