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Vegas: Swingers circle or couples oasis? - Which do I prefer - hotfire...which club?
What really defines a TRUE swinger? - - Hahaha !!!! Funny shit ...... We dont think singles are swingers either just what couples bring in for extra fun !!!! Dogs in heat might be a little harsh Im sure if some hot single female wanted to join you and your wife she wouldnt be called a dog in heat ..... LOL What fun would swinging be if you didnt add a single in the mix once in a while ..... Just sayin
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A&E New show about swingers... - neighbors with benefits.... - Perhaps you could argue that we were born this way. Read up on pair bonding species and tournament mating species. Homo sapiens seem to land somewhere in the middle. Just like most other species that have a tendency to pair bond, many if not most of humans that naturally lean toward pair bonding are not by nature truly sexually monogamous. Swinging allows couples that by nature are given to commitments or pair bonding in regards to raising their offspring and in many others ways to sexually enjoy the company of others. Happily bonded couples that enjoy the level of commitment they share together, but that also, by nature were born to want to experience intimacy with others including sexual intimacy may choose to swing. In the end what we do is always a choice. The choices we make are often driven by our basic nature and environmental and social influences but in the end given the opportunity won't most of us seek to enjoy who we really are?
Keystone-Denver, CO - looking to visit a club in Denver area - We are skiing in Keystone and might visit Denver this Saturday feb. 21th.
Can anybody recommend an upscale swingers club in the area?
We are looking for an attractive crowd. Will appreciate any info.
thank you so much.
Original humans as swingers? - Provocative theories based on Bonobo sexual behavior - I think animals weren't/aren't monogamous with a few exceptions such as wolves, peregrine falcons, penguins, and dolphins if i'm remembering correctly. i don't think i'd call it the same concept as swinging, but the idea was for the dominant male to spread his genes around as much as possible. whereas the females would attempt to mate with multiple males as to get more assistance with upbringing as well as pass on her own genes. that's my theory anywho. may or may not be even close to the truth, but it makes sense to me.
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Too Many Fake People Here - Nobody really wants to fuck! - [quote=HAOPENGYOU]Before we moved to the coast 3 years ago, we were pretty active in the Utah lifestyle, and it definitely seemed more active and vibrant than it does now, at least insofar as we can judge from activity on this website. Back then we would regularly do things with the same three couples, all of whom we met on Swingular, and we notice now that two of their profiles are no longer here on this site. So you might be right, although we hope not, because we had a blast with this in Utah.
When we did make the move out of Utah, we switched to another website, as Swingular is strongly Utah-centric. In fact, we've never had a single communication on Swingular from anywhere at all outside of Utah.
Hey, if things get too sparse, come meet us in Portland, which apparently is the [url=https://www.prunderground.com/swingery-publishes-top-10-cities-with-the-most-swingers-in-the-us/00102465/]#1 swinger city in the country[/url]. We had no idea about that when we moved to Oregon, but we're not complaining. Go to Privata downtown if you ever have the chance.
And if you ever tell anyone that you're not interested in a physical relationship with them, and they lose it (happened to us one time), then they're no one you wanted to hang with anyway. You'll do well to be rid of them.
If any of you ever make it to the coast, you're invited to sip wine with us and watch whales from our deck.
Best of luck to you. And Happy New Year.[/quote]
Our point originally was that perhaps these people aren't really as fake, as they are private. I think the scene here is actually still doing quite well! It's just changing. In our case, we're just not as "out there" anymore as we used to be....And kind of feel like maybe that's true for a lot of folks. And maybe it's our age...we are 10 years older now...and not exactly in high demand. That said...we just may have to do a bit of whale watching in Portland, someday.....
Just between Us - Is there anything that you don't do with a swinging partner that you keep just between you and your partner? - The obvious ones Love and unprotected sex! Then we will do Anal and that is something left just for us! Really dirty dirty talk tends to stay between us too.
:z Other then that we are pretty open to almost everything else with other swingers! We feel that every couple if they think about it has things that they only do with their partner its just some of it you never really notice it until you sit and think really hard about it.
is it true about swingular??????????????????? - - Oh hell, just give it time and let it grow. utah, Florida, Alaska who cares. It is a great site and it will grow. Swingers need a contect net and Swingular can and will fit the bill. nothing grows over night... utah has jumped on the site (go figure whith how restricted we are,
Give it time, it can work! And atleast they aren't nuts about send me money, sign up. Their subscription is pretty reasonable.
It will survive in Utah and Florida and given a chance, elswere......
I Have A Question - Poly vs. Open - [quote=PAIRPLAYERS][quote=EVILDOERS]Thanks for the responses so far. I thought of a couple of additional questions. Are you seeking, finding and connecting with other open/poly people here on Swingular or are you finding people thru other means? Also, do you find that most of the people you connect with are single or are they in their own primary relationships? Does it matter much to you if they are single or coupled?[/quote]
Great question. Almost exclusively non swinger community singles surprisingly. Have tried amongst the swingers but they seem to have a very quid pro quo mentality. [/quote]
Yes, they do! We noticed that dynamic almost immediately when we first entered the lifestyle and were actually talking about it just today in the context of no quid pro quo being a distinct positive in the column of open or poly lifestyles vs. swinging. SO many times when I was even just TALKING to a woman her partner or husband would basically go grab Ms. Evil, no matter what she was doing or who she was talking to, and assume it was perfectly okay to just do more or less whatever he wanted. After all, I was doing something/anything with HIS partner!
Wow! Great responses everyone. SO informative! Thank-you.
Friendship vs. spontaneity? - Are you here to make friends or just to fuck? - The perception of this lifestyle is that there is a whole lot of sex going on between everyone. Maybe if you are young slim and trim and willing to go to bed with everyone at the drop of a hat that is true. But that pretty much describes the young anyway. If that is your perception of all swingers, and you are here in Utah, then you are bound to be disappointed.
I think that this question comes up a lot because it is not a simple question for many of us and it seems to be posted by those seeking friends first. The end goal may be sex. But if that is your only goal then why do you say you are seeking friends. Friendships are not made in 30 seconds or a drink over at the pub. If that is what makes friendships in your mind then you are really just here for sex.
For us it is finding friends. Some folks that we meet we will play with and some we will be just friends with. It really boils down to a 4 way vote when it comes to the bedroom and maybe even being friends in the first place. And that is what makes finding friends and bedroom partners difficult. There is always the added fear of rejection that gets in the way when you want to anything anyone.
I look at all the complaints of one-nighters and couples that never speak again after sex. I can only surmise that for those folks sex is the only yard stick of friendship. You do not have to be sexually compatible to be friends.
We have found that if what you are looking for is friends, then it is easy to be part of the lifestyle. If what you are looking for is based on having sex then it is easy to be disappointed and difficult to be part of the lifestyle.
Furthermore we look at those that just want to screw and think how lonely their existence must be.
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