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Do women throw themselves at married men? - - For those of you that would like a quick and concise answer the the OP's question I would offer the following:
NO!!
For the benefit of the one insomniac that wants to read a little more I will offer the following:
Having been married to only one woman for over thirty years and with the two of us having become swingers in the last 9 years I have pondered and discussed this very subject or something nigh unto it with Mrs. Delicious. In my experience few intelligent women, with some self esteem, throw themselves at men married or otherwise. Women and men do develop fondness and feelings for people they get to know and that can grow to esteem and maybe even desire. Happily married men that are friendly and not a rake hitting on every girl around seem safe because they are approachable without hearing the tired old come on lines. A man that can socially interact with attractive women without sexually harassing them enjoys a lot of advantages. Therefore women in the work place or other social venues tend to get to know just such men. There are all sorts of intimacies, kindnesses and appreciations that men and women need and desire from each other that are not sexual or at least overtly sexual. People that are good at sincerely giving these sorts of reassurances and moments of recognition and appreciation to others tend to make friends and friendships can sometimes become flirtatious and flirtatious friendships can become important and lead to fantasy and so on and so forth and can eventually escalate into sexual intimacy if both sides are headed down the same pathway. This is particularly true if someone discovers just such a friendship and their relationship with their significant other has digressed to a point that the relationship has become mostly significantly combative. In the case that the married man is actually happily married and not willing to cheat then it would just remain a fantasy. So no, I do not believe that women throw themselves at married men but yes I believe women do fall into fantasy and even into love with married men and the same can be said for men smitten with a married lady with which they have become friends. I have had female friends over the course of many years of being married and of being alive and out there in the world develop a crush on me and a few have expressed a desire to have an affair. Usually it has been a woman in a relationship that had become verbally combative. No I never have had any such affair. The only sex outside of marriage for me occurs as a swinger with my dear wife fully aware and usually present. We are frankly very much paired up as a couple but just not quite monogamous. I was never and I still am not the aggressive guy with the hard press come on lines. Being a gentleman that opens doors can open a few doors unintentionally over the course of a lifetime.
In the swing world all the rules change to some extent in that sex is usually not pursued out of a desire to physically express love and romance toward someone that is in your mind and in your heart throughout the day and follows you into your dreams. In pursuit of swing sex women will possibly or probably be more focused on the sexual desire rather than the emotional desire to express sexually toward someone special. Therefore come on lines may well be appreciated so long as the lady thinks the guy with the lines might be really good in bed.
There a few women single or married that are on the sexual prowl 24/7/365 kind of like some single guys in a swing site (That was a joke
Lifestyle Questions by newcomer couple - - We are a couple that are new to the scene and we have decided to make our fantasies come true. My fantasies are for me to watch my wife with another woman and then to join for a 3some. Her fantasies are the same as mine. We are not interested in couples or Males but it seems like that all we get contacted by and we're are not secure enough in the scene as you can probably tell to go to a swingers club. So our questions would be what's the best way to go about finding a bi-female to bring our fantasies to reality and how to stop getting approached by single males and couples.
Thanks for any help it is greatly appreciated.
Facebook group - - If anything, I can create one and post the link to it here. I admin several pages... none for swingers... yet...
STD Testing - How often are you tested? - Just the totally Mormon ones. Love to see the looks on their faces when we describe what we like to do with other swingers. [em]Emo_84[/em]
Alaska Swingers - - Does anyone know what website or local hang out there is for the lifestyle in Anchorage Ak? We're new here and would appreciate any help.. Thanks
KUTV2 NEWS 10:00 P.M. TUESDAY NIGHT - Couples Now At Risk - We get tested frequently and in doing so the people that do the testing are pretty open and communicative. Yes there has been a pretty consistent rise in positive test along the Wasatch Front. Yes some of the people testing positive self identified as swingers. Non monogamous sexual activity involving multiple partners increases risk. Closed circle play groups are an option so long as everyone in the group restricts their sexual activity within the group. If you are forming a group via a mass announcement you will get some serious candidates that apply and even more candidates applying that basically will join any and every group that might afford them the chance of having sex. Private play groups really do work if established through private invitation. We have enjoyed those types of arrangements in the past. Private groups seem to work out really well if everyone lives relatively close, are similar in what they desire, there is chemistry and the members are not in a mindset to fulfill a bucket list of sexual desires that are not possible within the group.
Game ON....which sign is Hornier...(is that a word?) - zodiac signs of swingers? - We are both Cancer :)
Swingers Club - Swingers Club - Sweet! Let us know when you'll be opening and how much the cover charge is. I'm pretty sure Clearfield will be stoked to have the first real swing club in Utah.[em]Emo_12[/em]
And since you've never been to one I'm sure yours will be free from all the cliches that most tawdry swing clubs exhibit. About the only thing you need to remember is to have a little crock pot full of dicey looking meatballs on the buffet table. [em]Emo_8[/em]
Do you Expect to get laid at Swinger Parties? - - We never expect to play...we just go to have a good time. If we meet a couple to swap with...thats jsut a bonus. We have a great club/group of swingers around here....only thing I can say is try places and if ones not right try another....and word of mouth is the best at finding the one that might be right for you....or group does a weekly online chat night and helps inform people that want to know about of group and what to expect there. Also they do a Meet and Greet at a local bar on certain weekends to let newbies get to know the regulars.
KUTV News Story on Swingers - News - [quote=BINKYSANCHEZ]My wife made comment to me this morning regarding the possibility of snoops creating fake profiles to pry and snoop. That comment alone was enough for me to remove some photos on our public profile until the hype phases out.
Let's see what happens. [/quote]
If you looked at the teaser to get people to set up the profile they show someone looking at a screen that you would only be able to see if you actually have signed into a profile. It is the screen you see when you are writing or changing the text portion of your profile. The text reads like a swinger's profile with something about "looking to spice it up" or something like that. So KUTV probably bought a membership and made a fake profile. Which means they are also probably lurking looking or should we say lurking at as much skin as they possibly can in the name of research. So any negative judgment just makes them look like hypocrites. Look at some of the recent friend request you may have received from new members and you may find them.
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