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Does any one know of any adult theatres you can play in in the S - ADULT THEATRES - I knew a couple back in the mid 1970s that knew the people that owned an adult theater in Scottsdale Arizona that made a film of the two of them getting it on and the theater owners agreed to show the movie in between the two featured presentations for one night only and the couple went and sat in the theatre with the rest of the people there to enjoy adult movies. The husband told me how hot it was for them being on the big screen and sitting in a dark room full of mostly strangers all getting turned on watching them having sex. They were also the first swingers I ever met that called themselves swingers. I was a trumpet player back then earning money with the trade and traveling a bit and this couple were also musicians. They hint, hinted and then just said I was welcome to join them for some play but at that time in my life I was in fairly serious relationship and the lassie I was seeing would not have like that so it never happened. It was one of those moments that puts a thought and then a fantasy inside you about what could happen in a secure relationship. I had a gig so I missed the one time showing of their movie as well.
Of course years later after finding the love of my life I told Mrs. Delicious about it and we used to fantasize about doing the same thing. That might actually be a really hot theme night for a party. Secure a private venue in a large screen theater and then do a little independent film night. I would guess the owners of the theater would say no sex inside, seeing as to how they probably use the theater for a more general audience and need to keep it sanitary but once motivated I think people could find another venue to pursue the next step.
Mixed Lifestyle Parties - - [quote=Cpl4Fwb][quote=WEWNT2PLAY]Although for those that would be concerned about being outed in the LS, what is the overall concern? I mean if I'm considering this type of party it's not like the bishop or pastor is going to be there, and the likelihood of being seen elsewhere would be slim to none.
None the less they are valid concerns and now I have to decide what to do.[/quote]
We are only speaking for ourselves here ...
Discretion - we would prefer to choose to whom we reveal our lifestyle actives with. Even on lifestyle sites and other social media sites, we enjoy a level of anonymity. We control what and to whom we reveal more identifying information (face pictures, names, contact info, etc).
Yes, there is a risk in going to lifestyle events and parties. However, most people in the lifestyle believe in mutual assured destruction. If someone tells their vanilla friends, "Hey, I saw Dave & Danna at a swinger party.", their vanilla friends would probably ask, "What were you doing at a swinger party?"
In our time in the lifestyle, we have run into three co-workers, two high school classmates, the mother of a child on our child's athletic team, and a woman who we shared a daily commute with on public transportation. So yes, there is a good chance people may run into others from their vanilla lives in the lifefstyle at some time or another.[/quote]
We agree with most of these comments.
Vanilla people have absolutely no reason to keep LS peoples secrets, and I think they’re more likely to gossip about something relatively foreign to them (like a LS party they attended). I’ve had two vanilla coworkers in my office talk about going to The NYer to people watch swingers, and that just made me cringe. I would not trust a vanilla person to keep our secret, and even less if we saw them at a “mixed” type of party where any conclusions could be made.
We would rather keep our vanilla friends and our LS friends completely separate for privacy’s sake. No matter how hard vanillas try, most of them cannot wrap their heads around our LS, and just avoiding vanillas while pursuing our LS hobbies is our safest bet.
Being fully open to the world about being a swinger is absolutely not something we want in a couples friendship either. We would avoid that as much as we would avoid any chance of vanillas finding out about us. Guilt by association could be just as harmful to our personal and professional lives.
As was said above though… your party, your friends. Just make sure all your LS friends are aware of what you’re doing. Some may not care, some could absolutely care if vanillas were there.
Swinging and LDS... - Are the two compatible? I know this is a huge can of worms... - We were talking to someone we thought was a "vanilla" friend last night. She has told us in the past how she is a total LDS member and "very religious", yet we just found out that she is and has been in the lifestyle for quite a while. We are a bit perplexed. While we are not LDS, we assume the church would frown on the lifestyle. Is this not the case? Or are LDS'rs living a "double life"? We all do to a certain extent, we don't advertise that we are swingers. But, to you who are active LDS members, how hard is to maintain while attending church? To those who are not and have dated LDS members, is it difficult to have poly relationships with members? What are some of the obstacles? We do like her very much.
Vegas Trip! Suggestions Please - Suggestions - go to couples oasis thats a good swingers club
Preconceived Ideas - - we had the same kind of realization.... once we figured out that 'swingers' were mostly just regular people with a spicy side hobby, we felt much more comfortable.
We still are hoping to stumble into the 'non-stop orgies'
Only 12 couples within 100 miles on our search - Just using the search criterion of :non smoking, slim or athletic, 35-55, couples, soft swap yes, st - [quote=BADBOY8P]Maybemor this is one of the most rude post I have read in 3 years of being on swingular !!!! I want to know what makes you think just because people smoke that they are not fit ...... So because your a soft swap couple does this mean your not a swinger ???? Its judgemental people like you that make this lifestyle full of drama !!!! Oh just sayin
Badboy8p[/quote]
I dont think I ever made any comparison to fit physical looking form and smoking.
And no we are not swingers. Just life explorers.
green door/red rooster - - We live in Las Vegas and have yet to go to any of them :( The main reason being that we use public transportation and only the Green Door is accessible by bus. The nice thing about the Green Door though is that they do free tours. The URL for them is [url=http://s94865.gridserver.com/]http://s94865.gridserver.com/[/url] There are also 4 or 5 other swingers clubs in the same block of the Green Door.
Here are the other URLs:
Red Rooster - [url=http://www.vegasredrooster.com/]http://www.vegasredrooster.com/[/url]
Couples Oasis - [url=http://www.couplesoasis.com/]http://www.couplesoasis.com/[/url]
If you want feel free to e-mail us for more info.
S&J
Looking for advice - Single male looking for advice about the community - If I were you I would leave this site. Go out & find a gal & then come back when you have something to equally trade. Or perhaps find a SINGLE swingers site.
We have been to parties & the single guys flying around looking to jump on anything that will let them is just weird.
Single males in this environment are like Misquotes.
Hosting a swingers Party - - Blk & White ~ There are many ways to go about this, but one of the better ways is to first arrange a "cocktail hour" in the Hotel lounge. Have the couples meet there. Before you give out the suite number, collect what their share of the cost is. If anyone refuses to kick in, don't be embarassed to ask them to please leave, and be sure never to invite them again.
At what point do you out yourselves to family and friends?? - - I really don't think it makes that big a difference. What ever you are comfortable with is what you should do. Me personally, I let the people I work with that we are swingers, after they had guessed. Didn't see any reason to lie to them. Hell I was hoping to get in the pants of a couple of them. I don't think there is a right or wrong answer.
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