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Planet fitness Bountiful - Anybody go? - We're there at least 4 or 5 times a week. There are actually quite a few swingers who work out there but you'll have to figure out which ones are and which one's aren't for yourself. We've found that walking up to random people and making obscene gestures or pantomiming sexual intercourse or masturbation is the easiest way to weed out the ones who aren't really serious swingers. [em]Emo_12[/em]

Newbie Party Advice? - - Ease into the lifestyle. Articulate your needs and desires as well as your limits and maybe even your trepidations (without drama) to the people you hook up with. Going to a party doesn't necessarily mean you're going to get naked and get sexy with anyone. We've been to swingers parties where nobody even got naked, kinda depressing actually. Just kidding; we had a great time. "Just say no" probably gets said enough in these forums. I was told by an old sage that in order to grow you need to push your boundaries out, maybe even get a little uncomfortable once in a while. Some of these postings also advocate never taking one for the team. I'm not suggesting you do something you're totally uncomfortable with, but I do think being relaxed enough to push the edge of your envelope a little in order to allow your partner to experience their desires and fantasies isn't necessarily a bad thing. If I hadn't done that we wouldn't be in the lifestyle. If my far better half hadn't done that we probably wouldn't be in the lifestyle. Don't go crazy and do something you're going to really regret, but do be relaxed enough to experience something new. Mr. Sexperimentors

WIFE AND I WILL BE AT CLUB HABITS SATURDAY 23 - - I went to a meet/greet a while ago at Club Habits and instantly became a member due to the environment and dress code. Our friends love it there and often after our "naturalist swim" Saturday nights we go to Habits and finish the night off. The Naturalist group are not swingers however if any swingers/members find themselves there Saturday night I would love to have you join my wife and i for a drink and say hello. We always sit in the same place, the small room near the front west corner from 9-10pm until close. This is in no way a special event or to take away from the regular group that meet at this club. Just my way of inviting other club members to look us up.:D Phinyx and DeeDee

How did you start the lifestyle? - - I was invited to be in a couple of amateur porn movies back in the 80's. It was after the first gang-bang scene that the cameraman gave me an issue of a swingers magazine. Did the whole thing with the PO box and snailmail. Which wasnt easy, even if you live and worked close to home. I was driving over the road, so meeting other swingers was almost impossible. Eventually the internet came along and sites like SDC, Fantasyswingers and Swingular made contacting people so much easier.

Denial - What is the proper way to turn someone down. - Your worrying about it too much. Hope this doesn't offend, but really you are over thinking it. I'd just do what you want to do and not worry about what everyone feels or thinks. The only thing you SHOULD do if you don't want to get a lot of emails telling you how stuck up you are, is just be NICE. Being NICE is actually pretty hard for some people and I still don't understand why. As for answering the mountains of board mails you will get on this site, Don't stress it. We used to think we should respond to every email and I'll tell you right now, it's impossible. We made a rule really early and that was that your friend request would only be approved if we did in fact know you personally, or if the one asking had made some effort to get to know us in a Chat room, or by email. One thing though that I would advise you as newbies on this site. If you allow your "sexual preferences" to dictate who and if you will meet someone in the lifestyle, then you are going to miss out on it's rich experience. Not everyone you meet that you may develop of friendship with is going to want to fuck you. So I'd not worry about meeting new people, even if they are asking to be your friend online. The key is always controlling how you'll meet people (which is easy) and then letting things take their course. As for the "old" factor. You both are going to be really disappointed then with the "No one over 35" rule. The average age for Swingers in the United States is 35-45. Your wife is fairly young, she feels funny about guys my age being her Dad's age, well the feeling is mutual. Contrary to what some women might think, it's not all about the tight ass and perky boobs. But as for a friendship (non-sexual) why the hell not? If your patient, friendly, and get out there and meet other swingers (like the parties), I think you'll find what you are looking for in sexual partners. I also think in some cases newbies are pretty "fixed" on what they think they want sexually. But after 4 years you may notice that what you "thought was ideal" is no longer the case. Keeping an open mind is pretty important in anything in life and it's not a bad idea in regards to swinging as well. Good luck to you guys Mr ABC

WHere the fuck did manners go? - - My wife and I are on different ends of the pole with this one sometimes. She does not always respond when she is not interested. One reason for that is the fact that she gets bombarded on other sites with mail from single males, even though her profile clearly says she is looking for a bi female. Even when she says "no thanks" some people still persist. So I think, and this is just my opinion, that some people mistake the term "bi-female" for "easy POA". That makes a lot of people a little irritated after a time, and they simply don't bother responding. If I greet someone, it is normally not because I am trolling, it is normally because they have interests that I or my wife share in common with them. If I don't think someone is a good fit for us, I don't see any problem shooting the breeze a bit. It just never progesses to a conversation about sex. It seems that some people, I repeat, some people, have associated swinging with strictly sex, and it seems like people don't want to just meet people any more. I know a lot of us live very busy lives, and we get together with fellow swingers when we can to "let our hair down", but let us not lose sight of the fact that we all come together on forums like this to make friends and talk with people that understand what we do. As friends, it would be nice if we were politely sent away, but sometimes people just don't do that. They may feel bad about it, and just not say anything, or they may be fed up, and just not bother. We shouldn't take offense either way. Some people just don't feel like dancing. So, with that, if I email you, and you tell me to scram, my pride may sting for a bit, but I will move on, and you will not have to present a dissertation on why we are not appealing to you. You shouldn't HAVE to do that. :!

2 year swingular experience - - Ok, so I read the OP and the rest of the thread well I "skimmed it" (sorry, couldn't resist...great line from Scott Pilgrim vs. The World). I guess the feedback I would offer is that Swingular (and other sites) as well as swinging in general is kind of what you make it. Yes there are plenty of flakes, just as there are in real life. After two years on the site I would think you would start to see some patterns and start to recognize those types before things get too far along so you don't waste your time. One thing that strikes me about many swingers (I'm not talking about you at all because I don't know you) is that often it seems like they look for reasons NOT to hook up or play rather than looking for reasons TO play. We have actually found ourselves in this pattern (for lack of a better term) where we would discount this particular couple for this reason or that couple for that reason. We were really shooting ourselves in the foot. Now, however, when we truly want to meet someone new and play we try to look for things we have in common or like about a given couple rather than things we don't. Works much better. We've met some great people and hey, even if it wasn't spectacular it was usually still pretty good. What's the old saying about pizza and sex? ;-)

Bare Necessities Cruise out of Ft. Lauderdale - Anyone going - Well, it is a nudist cruise out of Ft. Lauderdale that goes to the Bahamas, Half Moon Cay, Key West (two days during Fantasy Fest), and then to Cozumel. While it isn't a swingers cruise, there are a pretty good number of swingers going and should be fun. Here is a link for it: http://www.bare-necessities.com/fantasea.html

finding a couple with a bi female - - Heck, if single girls are unicorns, couples with bi females are, if not blades of grass, at least rose bushes, or something else that isn't exactly everywhere but that there are sure a whole lot of. Why? Who knows? I'd guess, first that there are just more bi females that there are males in the world. Then a bi female is obviously going to have to go outside the marriage to play with girls, so what better place than the swingers world? Whatever the reason, there are a lot of them. For that matter, we're one of them, although I have no idea whether Dana would fit whatever it is you're looking for. As Delisciouslywet already said, check the profiles. Pretty much every couple on here that has any pics has a pic of the girl. Do a search. Use the advanced search to specify bi or maybe even bi comfortable. If you have an age limit, specify that. But don't set it too low, you'd be surprised how many really hot women there out there who are older than many people think is the point at which good looks stop. Guys too, but for some reason to a lesser extent. Maybe we don't take as good care of ourselves as the girls do or something. In any case, you'll get to see what people look like before you contact them. Do not specify that the girl has to have a yes for "plays alone". Some couples put maybe, or even no, for that because she won't play alone with guys, and they don't want to deal with all the emails from single guys, but she will play alone with girls. Go through the results, send an email to those that seem attractive to you. And ask if the female would be interested in playing alone with you. I'd be surprised if it took you very long to find the right person. And, hey, those Risque Soiree guys are having a Halloween thing, "7th Annual Exotic Erotic Halloween Ball" in SLC next Saturday. I'd imagine there'll be a lot of folks there, it might be worthwhile to go to it and see if you meet anyone who can solve the problem.

Swinger behavior at vanilla parties... - Where do you draw the line of appropriate? - [quote=WENDYBLWMEHARDR] Wow, where do you begin with this? 1. Your at a vanillia party = no flirting or flashing! 2. Children are present! = no flirting or flashing! 3. Most importantly how Dare someone say anything hurtful to a child or anyone else for that matter = no class !! 4. These folks should be Outted I would hate for someone elses child to be the next victim because some folks dont have the testicular fortitude to speak out against such attrocities !! 5. This makes you as bad as them . Look in the mirror and ask yourself why you even posted this drama . Did you do it just to stirr the pot because you like the drama ? Or did you really want some good to come from this? Do the right thing and Out them and then ban them from all events. Bad things happen when good people do nothing to prevent it! Take a stand and choose your side there is no grey area here .[/quote] As I said earlier, I am biting my tongue not screaming out who this person is...but as pointed out above, I would then be the one in trouble...so you ask why did I post this? No it was not to stir the pot or to cause drama (if I had outed them that would be causing drama)...of course I want good to come of this, I want people to realize that we as swingers have a bad rep as it is and we need to be aware that our behavior is seen by others and can affect everyone around us! I have chosen a side...it's the side of being an adult and abiding by the guidelines that I agreed to when I signed up...I CAN NOT name the person...she knows who she is and she reads these forums and she will see that her behavior has disgusted many and hopefully she will act accordingly next time...the fact that you see me as bad as her...well that is your own opinion, but I know that I did the right thing here.... Kisses...Naugh-Ty

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