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Swinging ,Or cheating? - - Swinging is having sex with people who are not your legal spouses. By definition, having sex with someone who is not your legal spouse is cheating. Therefore all swingers are cheaters, whether or not the spouse knows it. Now, throw that out the window, and label everyone who swings, as cheaters, but ONLY if their spouse does not participate. Don\'t bother to find out if he or she knows, approves, or even suggested it themselves. Having said that, I am still totally amazed that there are so many narrow-minded folks in this lifestyle. Yes, I completely agree that EVERYONE should know what is going on. I completely DISAGREE that those who play without their spouse\'s participation are automatically defiend as cheaters. I cannot speak for anyone else, but the fact remains, I don\'t do a thing without my spouse knowing about it. That includes participation in video chat (which she comes to very frequently, just ask anyone who is a regular), e-mailing or chatting with others, meeting, hanging out, or even adult play. If people bothered to get to know me, they would know that. But they knee-jerk and completely eliminate great people like me from their lives, just because they didn\'t bother to look before their leap to label. If they want to shut me out because I am married and my wife doesn\'t participate, they should go ahead and exercise their right to do so. It doesn\'t bother me a bit. They are perfectly entitled to do so, and I applaud them for that choice. But they are not allowed to jump to the conclusion that I am \"cheating\" because she doesn\'t play. That\'s grade-school-playground namecalling, slanderous, and beyond immature. If you don\'t know the circumstances, then you don\'t have the right to go around labeling everyone else. Whoever you are.

Who is into Kinky BDSM? - - [b]Swingers are sick people. This is the vanilla worlds version of Ultra kinky sex, to us 90% is normal and not kinky.[/b] 101 Ultra Kinky Ideas 1. Tie your partner up and break out the vibrator. 2. Cover each other with oil before slipping and sliding on silk sheets. 3. Get it on in the backyard pool in the middle of the day. 4. Watch kinky porn and imitate the actors. 5. Surprise your partner with a set of anal beads. 6. Go to a sex shop together and choose a new vibrator. 7. Let your best friend watch you fuck your partner. 8. Have a sexual encounter with a member of the same sex. 9. Let your best friend fuck your partner and YOU watch. 10. Pick up a stranger and make out with them. 11. Introduce your man to anal sex

The lifestyle: A single mans perspective - - Well said, brother...This lifestyle is what you make of it, and some make more than others. While we are all grownups on this site (obviously, you have to be 18 or over to sign on), you'd think there would be less of a high-school mentatlity than in, say....high school? yet, we get some of the DORKIEST , misspelled emails I've ever seen. Couple that with the responses we've gotten to some posts (like the one critisizing us for getting our vip status), and we wonder how some have remembered to breathe long enough to pass high school. So, here are some very basic tips on enjoying this lifestyle: (not that I'm an expert, but obviously some need etiquette lessons) 1) The first email / chat with someone, DON"T ask idiotic questions. And don't get TOO personal. Remember, this is like dating. If a woman at a bar showed some interest, would the next thing out of your mouth be 'What size is your bra?', or 'Do you like it in the ass?'. it's no wonder some of you are in this lifestyle, you'd never get laid otherwise. 2) Keep SOCIAL meetings SOCIAL. No one cares how long you've been a proctologist, or how much money your kids have stole from you. That's YOUR business. Polite conversation is one thing, but there's nothing worse than hearing a 3 hour lecture on YOUR life experiences, followed by 'So, would you guys like to play with us?' Yeah, as if 3) There ARE other things besides sex to chat about. In person or on the computer. That's right, SWINGERS HAVE BRAINS. and we're very able to carry on converstaion (well, some of us anyway) We were at a party once, and my other half said 'I've heard sex mentioned until I'm not turned on at the thought anymore' ...it happens, just a tip 4) Unless you're planning a very long trip, or own your own private jet, don't add someone to your friend's list here OR on yahoo that lives 3,000 miles away. Let's face it, we'll never meet. Hell, we'll probably never even talk. so what's the point? Air sex? gimme a break. 5) And probably the most important. From the first meeting, to every visit you have (if someone's lucky enough to invite you back, RESPECT OTHER PEOPLE!. Just because we have a wild orgy at the pool of a local motel with wild monkeys and lots of cool whip, it DOES NOT MEAN TO GROPE US EVERYTIME YOU SEE US. We're in couples for a reason, to be in a couple. And just because we're turned on by you, or have sex, doesn't mean you own our bodies afterward. That's what your spouse/gf/bf is for. And most of us aren't here for love. NEWSFLASH...WE'RE HERE FOR SEX! These are just off the top of my head, after recieving some horrible emails, and experiencing some terrible meetings. Oh, yeah, and in response to the post, most single guys DO get a hard time in the lifestyle. But good, they should. This is about the couples, single guys are VERY easy to come by. And those who have treated us with RESPECT have been treated EXCEPTIONALLY WELL. Bravo on a great post, and good luck to you sir! Him p.s. anything I missed? list it below!

Polyamory v swinging...and judgement! - Discuss! Thoughts? Feelings? Judgement? - That's a long post haha. Ill just put my two cents in (mrs here) I have recently decided our "label" is poly swingers. Typically I'm with my husband and a boyfriend at any given time (poly). Plus I (or we or he) occasionally sleeps with other partners (swinger). We are not lazy hippies haha but I have found a lot of poly people to be like that. But then again I've found a lot of swingers to be like that as well. Speaking of, a lot of people are like that haha. So on the wife being assertive or not...... I get my needs totally met and if they aren't all find someone to meet them. I'm very assertive and we are more poly by my doing then the mr. I am bisexual. I typically don't "totally" screw other women because frankly I am not good at it and I prefer 3 sums anyhow. But I'm verY attracted to both makes and females. Has absolutely nothing to do with wanting to excite the mr or anything like that. Also my Mr has no idea how to run the site haha 99.9% of everything "we" do on here is all Mrs ;) and I'm not passive at all. Haha. Ask the people that went to the NBN campout ;) BUT that's my two cents and yes I have been told we have a odd relationship even for swingers, but we are happier then we have ever been so we are staying the course ;)

Finding Connections - Do the majority of swingers wait to be approached? - For context, I'm the male of the couple and have been on a single male profile for most of my time on this site. I don't think I've ever actually met anyone for the first time from this website. I send out the occasional email, and I get approached every once in a while, but nothing ever happens. For me, this was a place to stay connected with the people that I met in person, at parties and events and things like that. It has been a much more effective tool for that than for meeting people. But like I said, I was a single male profile for a very long time. Now that we're on an account together, we might have more luck meeting other couples on here. We'll have to wait and see. As for being approached... it varies. If it's someone I'm not interested in, I do usually try to reply and let them know that it's not going to work for whatever reason. I don't do that as often for single males, because I've had some bad experiences with them harassing me afterwards, but for couples I personally try to reply. Not everybody does, and I imagine that for some people who get lots of requests it would become time-consuming to reply to everyone.

25 WAYS TO TELL IF YOU'RE A SWINGER................. - - ;) I am glad I turned on the computer before this posting got buried. I laughed and can't help but wonder if all that read this did'nt feel the lame way. Not all swingers are stuffed shirts who think that they must keep there feelings to themselves. Thanks for the humor. I am still laughing and will keep these things in mind when I go to the mall and look at others and wonder if they are in the lifestyle...................Larry

The road less traveled less tested - Is swinging still in its infancy and what is it anyway? - [quote=EVILDOERS]Jesus Titty Fucking Christ! Anyone have the CliffsNotes for this bad boy? Or maybe someone can put it on Books on Tape? [em]Emo_67[/em] [/quote] It just goes to prove that swingers do not necessarily get more sex. Apparently he has not had any lately. Will some one please give that man a head job.

My first time... - - Tell us about your first time. Was it absolutely spectacular? Was it, "Meh". Was it horrible? A comedy of errors? Was it on your wedding night? In the back seat of a tiny compact car? Was it with your spouse? With "the one who got away"? Was it in college or high school? Junior High? GRADE SCHOOL?!!? Did you cum? Did you THINK maybe you came...sorta? Did it turn you into a sex fiend? Did it kind of turn you off from sex? Did you wonder what all the fuss was about? Was it with your fiance? Your boy/girlfriend? Your cousin?!!? Did you get caught? Did you use birth control? Did you try oral sex for the first time as well? Did you get completely naked? Just naked enough to expose the important parts? Would you want to go back and relive or redo it? Just thought it would be fun to hear about and reminisce about our first times and see if we could find any commonalities that turned us all into perverted swingers.[em]Emo_49[/em]

New to swingular!!!!! - - My husband and i are new swingular and i was just woundering if you fellow swingers can give some pointers on how to get people ot talk to you:q Any feed back would be great..

2 year swingular experience - - Ok, so I read the OP and the rest of the thread well I "skimmed it" (sorry, couldn't resist...great line from Scott Pilgrim vs. The World). I guess the feedback I would offer is that Swingular (and other sites) as well as swinging in general is kind of what you make it. Yes there are plenty of flakes, just as there are in real life. After two years on the site I would think you would start to see some patterns and start to recognize those types before things get too far along so you don't waste your time. One thing that strikes me about many swingers (I'm not talking about you at all because I don't know you) is that often it seems like they look for reasons NOT to hook up or play rather than looking for reasons TO play. We have actually found ourselves in this pattern (for lack of a better term) where we would discount this particular couple for this reason or that couple for that reason. We were really shooting ourselves in the foot. Now, however, when we truly want to meet someone new and play we try to look for things we have in common or like about a given couple rather than things we don't. Works much better. We've met some great people and hey, even if it wasn't spectacular it was usually still pretty good. What's the old saying about pizza and sex? ;-)

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