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Evening swingers.
The new site location is: http://www.ntaktagf.info
We have busy jobs like the rest of you, so we are sorry that the site is moving slowly. We have to be a bit careful with the login sign for obvious reasons. We don't know a thing about web design and we aren't really that interested in learning either LOL! But, we know we are stuck with it for now.
Swingular has run amuck and is effectively being controlled from the inside by a few select members. Be careful out there. Legal counsel IS monitoring the forums. Computer security is POOR at best. The more venomous Forum posters are trying to Google, search, find, or create any dirt they can to muddy the water here. We've taken a pretty good bashing, but we're OK so far.
It looks like TR and his "Free Thinkers" have really roughed up some swingers on this site. Since we've opened up for donations to help pay the bills for this cause, we have received $1,340 in cash in envelopes sent to the POB. Not a single one of these letters has a return address, which is smart. If you know who goes down, he will fight dirty. Do not leave any sensitive information out there in your accounts. We are positive that certain members at Swingular have cracked other members passwords (including ours).
1. Change your password to at least ten characters, including special characters. Currently free software on the internet can crack a 8 character password in 60 minutes. Adding 2 or more characters makes cracking much more difficult.
2. If Swingular is hosting your personal web page
Rock Hill or Close by!!!!!!!!! - Whats Up(2 Questions) - wondering
are their really any swingers who isnt afraid of rules and respect what the other couple wants.
are their really any swingers who will meet that are not into alot fo e-mail tag,phone calls,etc?
Heck,,look at us...if we are that god ugly,,,let us know and we will retire.
been having to much bad luck here lately with to many bullshitters and want a be'ssssssssss
J&C
Swingers Club - Swingers Club - Clearfleld would never approve the club if was officially a swingers club but the cliches could send a subliminal message. Make the logo a hand wearing a black ring holding a upside down pineapple. Charge a reasonable cover charge for couples, no cover charge for single females, and an outrageous cover charge for single males and then allow them access to about 1/8th of the club. Have the seating be about 80% sex swings and people might catch on as to what the club's theme really is. Don't forget to include a lot of lava lamps. Offer special pricing available on drinks with names like "Sex on a Beach" or "Sweet Tight Pussy". Make toga Thursdays and booty call bingo Wednesdays regular weekly events and only play music that has a lot of obvious sexual content.
As for the meatballs I now feel so stupid that I never realized, until now, that the Chinese Buffet on State Street and 45th South was a covert swingers club.
Swingers now officially a high risk group for STDs and STIs - Do your own research - It's pretty simple, play as safe as possible &
take a little risk or get out. I think that's
enough on this subject. Lets not keep beating
this dead smelly horse.
Black Rings - Do Swingers really? - [quote=HYM4CYN]We came across a piece of jewelry that is supposed to identify lifestyle participants that can be worn as a bracelet, necklace, anklet or pin. Its the shape of a heart combined with the infinity sign. We had one special made for Cyndi and when asked by vanilla people, we simply responded it stood for our love forever for each other. It was not long after we noticed another friend and neighbor wearing something similar. They had found it on a jewelry sight that caters to the lifestyle. Our friends are so vanilla they have no idea what they stumbled across. It seems there really is no for sure sign until you start swapping or taking your clothes off.[/quote]
Interesting. This sounds just like the Polyamory symbol.
I'll say, I've never been approached whether I've been wearing a black ring, polyam symbol, pineapple, buying the store out of unicorn cereal/merch, or otherwise, unless I've been at a lifestyle event. 🤷♀️ Maybe I'm doing it wrong?
Rules - - This is not merely an issue on Swingular, but is a mind-set that we have encountered on every site we have belonged to, in every geographical area, and at many parties.
Seemingly the single ladies get the accolades, while their counterparts, the dreaded single males, get the proverbial foot in the ass.
Is it fair? We don't think so.
However, it is what it is, and not likely to change soon.
I'm sure that everyone has an opinion as to why this occurs (opinion/assholes being synonymous; everyone has one). Here are a few of our thoughts....
Perhaps one could say that this disparity is due to the fact that most couples are searching for females...either single or part of a couple?
This is only PARTIALLY true as there are many swingers that are not looking for singles of either gender. Many couples are, in fact, only looking only for other couples to share friendship and intimacy.
Perhaps the old adage "Men are a dime a dozen", comes into play?
Well...one has to admit that yes...us guys really are rather numerous. Regardless of being within the Lifestyle or out....you can always find a guy, willing to hump your wife. Go to any vanilla event to find that out.
Many might say that all single guys are pushy ass-wads, that lack the intelligence, class, or sophistication to show respect and patience towards a couple that's willing to share intimacy with them.
Again, not totally true. We have met many polite, kind and respectful single men. We have also had numerous run-ins with females...both single and married, that have been just as crass, obnoxious and presumptuous as the most obnoxious single guy anyone could imagine. We like to call them the Bi-Nazi's: you know...the "it's-all-about-the-women" types.
This brings me to yet another mentionable. There is also an unspoken "assumption", that just because any individual of the female persuasion is involved in swinging...she's automatically "bi-curious", "bi-sexual", or "just doesn't know that she wants to be yet".
The obvious outcome of this mind-set is that unwanted advances, groping and attention comes towards the females/couples that are not looking for this type of interaction. Ironically, the same advances made by a male, married or single...would be dealt with severely in most cases. However...with the ladies...many consider it "appropriate", if not expected.
Do you see the double-standard? Somewhat hypocritical I would say.
Many get so caught up in stereotyping, and outcomes having to look a certain way, they are quick to assign social roles to various members of our Lifestyle. In the process, they forget objectiveness, compassion, and open-mindedness. Isn't that what we, as swingers pride ourselves on, "open-mindedness", and being "out of the box"?
Ok..since sweeping swinger social changes (wow, say that fast three times...haha), are not likely to happen...Siren and I elect to manage what we know we can, and that's ourselves.
We never expect anyone or anything to be anything but themselves, and let their actions and behaviors be the ultimate factor as to how we interact with them, regardless of marital status, gender, or seeking preferences.
J
Sex drive!! - My wife has a extremely high sex drive - [quote=TATTOOCOUPLE11]My wife has a very high sex drive we have only had 3 somes with women which she and I love but I was wondering if I should include more sex driven men in our sex life to totally fulfill her needs ?[/quote]
It works for us! It will certainly work for you two! Good hunting! Men, women, and couples, and all ethnic origins are all good for us. There are so many hot people and so little time to play with them. We go out of our way to reach out try it all with open arms so long as people are healthy and nice and there is some attraction. We are going to get the equal opportunity logo tattooed on our butts. Be careful, some old school right wing swingers might question your husbands
WE NEED SOME ACTION THIS WEEKEND!!!!! - - WE ARE LOOKING FOR SOME KINKY STUFF THIS WEEKEND (9-9 thru 9-11). TRAVEL PLANS FELL THROUGH, SO WE NEED SOME NEW PLANS. LET US KNOW IF YOU CAN HELP A HORNY COUPLE OUT!!! NO TIME FOR "LET'S MEET AND SEE WHERE IT LEADS". SERIOUS SWINGERS ONLY, NEED APPLY!!! PLEASE CHECK OUR PROFILE AND MAKE SURE YOU FIT THE DESCRIPTION. HELPS US AVOID ANY UNCOMFORTABLE REPLIES. NO SINGLE GUYS. THANKS.
-BNA
Black Ring - Who has theirs and how have they caught on? - We don't go around looking at what kind of rings people are wearing on their right hand unless we are somewhere that swingers are at least rumored to frequent and at a time we suspect they might be there. Black rings might be just another way to help swingers come a little closer to confirming a suspicion they have about someone they already know. Even if the efficacy of wearing a black ring is questionable, if in the end your having fun then enjoy it.
