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Just curious are we the only ones? - Just curious are we the only ones? - The black-ring on the right-hand has quickly become the new "standard" on how to tell if someone's a swinger in public. (No, it's not a sure-indicator, but it's gaining traction FAST in the swinger community -- especially outside of Utah where Swingular isn't so well known, and there's not so much of a swinger-bubble).
- It started off as a discussion on Kasidie a few years ago. (Many people think it's been around longer, but I've never seen any verified instance of it referenced prior to about 5 years ago... would love to be corrected on this with hard proof, however).
- Several swingers bloggers and podcasters picked it up and endorsed it.
- Almost all of the larger online swinger communities are now endorsing it.
- It's even been mentioned a few times on PBTV's show "Swing".
- We recently went on a swingers cruise and saw LOTS of couples wearing them.
It's actually got some real traction..... The great thing is that it's small. It's cheap. It's not obvious to anyone else. It's easy to 'deny' if you ever ARE caught ("Oh.. I just liked the ring..")..
My wife and I both wear them now... But we've never seen them "in the wild" in Utah... We found that they made a great conversation starter.
More Info here:
- http://www.okswing.com/ind..
- http://www.lifestylerings.com/faqs.html
- http://swapfu.blogspot.com/p/black-ring-right-hand.html
Swingular tends to create a little bit of a bubble for us Utah people... since the rest of the country uses other sites. The black-ring concept is trending elsewhere, nationally... and not so much in Utah.
How close is too close - - I think that the question poses a number of possibilities... If only one person is starting to feel something beyond sexual attraction then that person should step back and examine why they are feeling this way. If it is only one way then the person who is having the feelings needs to take stock of the reality of the situation and realize the potential problems involved. If the situation is mutual and noone else realizes it then the two involved need to discuss it... and they both have to weigh the situation. Why is this happening and are the possible ramifications worth the risks involved... If it is possible talk about it with everyone concerned and make a determination as to what needs to be done. I've actually heard about a situation where a couple split over a swinging situation and the lady from the one couple went with the guy from the other couple and the gal from the other couple went with the husband of the woman that went with her husband.. A real twist on the concept of swapping....
Being poly may put a totally different slant on how I look at this problem... since I am involved with a married woman. My wife and her husband are not poly... The other couple are not swingers and we are very good friend as couples... and everyone knows about she and I. It's very difficult to explain to anyone how this works but it does and it can..... So I have a unique perspective on love and swinging... or just married people and love between non married people in married situations.
I would generally say, however, that swingers should not get into love situations unless you and your mate and the other couple can handle this situation.. If a love relationship starts to happen run don't walk to the nearest exit and don't turn around.
Just possibilities .. There are quite a few poly people involved iin swinging...including some of the older people entering into swinging... They are looking to expand their sexual and love relationships as well. THere are also younger people in the lifestyle who are poly.. The subject has come up a surprising number of times of various swinger sites...
So if you're not poly and start to feel love for someone other than you mate... Assess you first as to why... but regardless, if you love your mate....get away fromo that particular situation...
Ray
Do you cut to the chase? - What's your history - [quote=EVILDOERS]b. Rarely
We STRONGLY prefer to get to know people first. It HAS happened in the past but it's quite rare and we don't feel bad if we go out and don't 'get lucky' because we can just go home and get lucky with each other. For us, sex is WAY more fun with people we know (at least a little bit), like, and have something in common with. And taking just pure physical attraction out of the equation, somewhat, has helped us see beyond the superficial and find traits in people that are attractive beyond simple outward appearance. We never go into any meeting with any expectations other than, hopefully, good conversation and maybe a few laughs. Sex is great but friendships are what keep us coming back. Besides, we've found that often people who are TOO eager to get to the bedroom are usually hiding some personality trait that we don't find appealing at all. YMMV[/quote]
Yeah if they are pushy in the least, it is a sign that they might always be pushy, and or try and be controlling. We meet people with no expectations, no pressure. Expectations lead to disappointments. We never push. If we meet have a good conversation, that's just fine. One reason we don't meet with other swingers all that often, is because we do a lot of socializing in the vanilla world. So sex, much as we like it, often takes a second seat to just socializing. When we do meet with a couple, for the first time, who we met due to our mutual affiliation of sorts, with the swing scene, we meet with no expectations. It's just been our experience that if we all end up being mutually attracted, physically and mentally, that sex seems to happen kind of often. I guess we could read some sort of flaw into that. We certainly are not flawless. We did however meet, because our mutual shared interest, was sex, and so really it should not be such a big surprise if sex actually happens.
Swing Camp (7/15 - 7/17) - Swingers Campout in Birch Creek Idaho - We also are planning for the NxN campout and have to do extra hours. Sounds like a lot of fun, maybe next year *hopefully*
Swinger & 🦄 Bait - An experiment to attract swingers and unicorns. - Would
We have heard about it many times........... - Couples that are swingers - We all meet with people we aren't compatible with. It's the nature of the beast. Why focus on the shitty times? It appears you've had successes. Focus on the positive :-)
-D-
looking for a girl...Right Now! - - Kind of typical of your single male, they are a dime a dozen. The real swingers among them are as rare as a precious gem.
Christain Swingers? - - Politics!?! Okay we are out of here!;)
That's one thing that we don't get enough of in this town (grin.)
We really are enjoying reading the different views on here..it's hard to think of not being on these forums.
Have a great saturday night!
A&D
Who are spending thier 3rd saturday night sick or injured...oh well, we will have lots of making up to do in the coming months!:D
Bi mmf couple - Looking for a real mmf bi play couple - Look, I am from South Africa working and staying here in Louisiana. Me and my wife are swingers back home, I'm straight and she's bi-curious... we had a bi guy over once and it was an interesting experience... I don't mind a bi guy playing with us, or in this case seeing as she isn't here with me, playing wit a couple where the guy is bi as long as everybody respects everyone's boundries. Certain thing I for one would allow and will even do, but there is limits and boundries I wont cross
This one time at Swingers Camp - Discussion about N by N camp out - Thanks everyone for another awesome weekend! We just got home stayed over Sunday night. Today the entire camp looked like we were all never there. Great job everyone for leaving the site so clean and nice!
Wolf & Majestic
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