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Saying No Gracefully - And still Get rude responces - Does this happen to anyone else. - [align=justify]I would have to say that I COMPLETELY concur with the statement, "that it is OKAY not to be interested". In fact, if we, D & M, get the feeling that couple we are chatting with plays with "everyone" they meet, we are much less inclined to pursue anything, at least without current test results. ;) People are people, and we all have emotions. Because of this, you will have those who bow out courteously, those who actually prefer an honest critique, as well as people that feel the need to "stomp their feet" on their way out,(metaphorically speaking, of course). People react differently to rejection. And no amount of candy-coating is going to change that. Don't be fooled by those that say, "You aren't a real swinger because you don't play with everyone." You just aren't "their" type of swinger, and probably would prefer not to be. Swinging is a lot like dating, sad to say, but sorry it is. You select those you would like to meet, decide where and how to meet, see if your interests match up, then meet to test the chemistry, and go from there. So if your interests aren't a huge orgy where everyone plays with everyone...those won't be the couples/singles you are interested in meeting. There is a place for everyone in swinging, so don't let people force you into their way of thinking, in swinging, or in life. If it's not what you wanted in the first place, you probably won't be happy doing it, so why bother. There are MANY, I'll bet the MAJORITY of swingers that won't play with everyone, so don't let anyone fool you with that line of BS. It is our privilege, and our right to say "No!" when and how we choose! We are Americans goddamnit! Don't sweat it, or take it as a compliment. The delete and block functions take only seconds, yet can eliminate so much aggravation. [/align][em]Emo_17[/em]

How do you ask if that hot couple are swingers ? - - As I was reading thru this thread Someone mentioned a hot tub... Maybe that would be a good way to get the question answered... If one had a hot tub invite them over for a soak, clothing optional. Maybe if you don't have a hot tub.... talking about getting one that can be shared by close friends....This could be a great discussion and why not bring up the idea of clothing optional at the same time....while everyone is thinking. How about a lingerie party with them and some swinger friends.... Let the friends run interference... that way you don't have to worry about you offending them...BTW this would be a party for couples...not just the ladies... and the ladies could model the goods. Another thought .... Adam & Eve as well as other companies now have toy parties...Maybe you and a friend could hold one for couples and you take the neighbors if they'd like to go... Just a few ideas to chew on....

What is your fantasy for 2008? - Many have made resolutions for 2008, but some of us may have made a resolution to fullfill a fantasy. What's yours? - Happy New Year everyone! May 2008 be filled with fantasies fullfilled and desires satisfied. Ours would be to find a couple who have the desire to do an "actual" full swap. Me (male) with their fem for a night, day, or whatever of conversation, flirting, eye play, and erotic touching leading up to making passionate love to each other and the same for the other halves of both couples. It seems that most "open-minded" swingers are threatened by this idea. I know that some of you will say, " but we like watching each other." We do too, but think this experience would be hot. Anyone out there????

Swingers in a vanilla bar... - - Dr. Ziggy... How would someone approach a couple in a vanilla bar if you suspect (or know from a reliable source) that they are swingers? (And the wife/gf seems to be quite friently.)

is this legit?? - - A good reason for someone to show discretion in this area of life is if the person is military. Thanks to some of the things written in the UCMJ(Uniform Code of Military Justice), the military swingers have to keep their lifestyle a secret because they can get into a heap of trouble. Just a couple examples who ever just has sex in the missionary postion, never has their partern go down on them or for those that like anal, no anal sex & the big kicker for the swinger lifestyle doesn't have sex with another person's spouse? All of that is punishable under the UCMJ so it wouldn't be a far fetched idea for them to lose their job if it came to the attention of the swinger's commander.

Do you cut to the chase? - What's your history - [quote=DELICIOUSLYWET]We have noticed, that perhaps people who started swinging young, at the time their lives together were developing, as was their social circle, tend to have more friends that are swingers, that they hang out with on a regular basis. If more of their good friends swing, then hooking up, is perhaps, just part of what happens as they socialize. If their friend's friends are also mostly swingers, then it may accelerate the possibility that they will easily meet new lovers. People who entered into the swing scene later in life, who may have already developed a busy social circle, mostly within the vanilla world, may look at swinging a bit differently. It's not like you want to drop your long time social circle, just because they don't swing. Again, how swinging plays out in one's life is most probably affected by every other aspect of one's life. We started swinging when I was 48 or 49 and Mrs. Delicious was 41 or 42. We lived a very busy life, and were involved in a lot of different activities prior to that time. During the decade plus that we have been swingers, our lives have really only gotten busier. Most of our vanilla friends know we are pretty open minded and liberal. We have been involved in volunteer efforts through schools and other secular sources of community out-reach too. Some of our friends, colleagues and associates know we swing. A few are also swingers. Our vanilla friends are much more numerous than our swinger friends. We enjoy people. Swingers, that can and do easily and tastefully, move about within family, and vanilla society, tend to be a good fit for us when it comes to deeper friendships. We do enjoy hooking up with people that may be a bit more swing-centric too. We just won't be at all the house parties, events and or meet and greets very often. We will show up every now and again. [/quote] Would agree very much with Delicious, usually do. Started young before being married, even when married large percentage of my friends were swinging or checking it out, only friends that were not were his, converted some. After my divorce and moving back to Miami a large majority to this day are swingers. One aspect is work, mostly business relationships, not swinging with any but having sex with. Rarely go to parties or functions where I don't know all because my social circle are all friends that swing. So if I had to answer it would b or a. Rarely run into or introduced to swingers I don't know. Very happy with my circle and rarely meet anyone I want to be with. Of course some exceptions, but not many.

Imus Fired - The beginning of the end of Free Speech? - - ..................."we are squabbling over Sharpton and Jackson. Granted, I think the glorify things that are small. They are trying to make mountains out of mole hills.".................... You really coulda stopped typing right THERE. They DO try making mountains and in this case they REALLY succeeded. Would someone pulll--eeeezzze explain the point of fact away that if the phrase he used was SO horrible, SO despicable, SO outlandish, SO hurtfully-meant, SO otherworldly, Why OH WHY is it that it has been regurgitated to us 4,852,956,811 times in other media outlets....If he had come out and said the word "nigger" (derived originally from the Latin negro, which describes the COLOR black...not the human being....) noone in their right MIND would have republished it, but the "phrase that pays" in this case has actually become the punchline already. We all need to have the conversation that rages now as a result of this incident but not for the SAKE of the incident, rather for the sake of understanding. We also need to realize that we should not be quite this hypersensitive over words... and that is all this boils down to...language. Thank goodness that swingers are inherently open-minded...because the rest of the mainstream country sure falls short. ........."But, when the Rutgers girls were insulted, that gave the NCAA a position ".......... I sure would like to know how many of these women actually knew who the hell Don Imus was before they had this shoved in their faces as being an issue they should be hurt by.

would you? - if you found this on your car in the morning? - Well, since we don't take the bus, probably would push it off, since it's novelty is old. The people that would find it amusing would be either A- immature, or B- Swingers. You'd run across a lot of A's but the B's are much more rare. Guess I'd have to push it off and go to work..

Help us understand double standard?? - - Ok all.... first dont flame us just a simple question. Why is there people in the swing lifestyle that dont swing both ways? Let me explain why are there so many swingers that only seek females? Isnt the purpose in swinging to trade partners? Why does only the female seek the pleasure? Is it just us that feels this way? Seems a double standard. Whats in it for him if you only seek pleasure for her? Seems selfish to us... sorry to rant and rave just need to vent:) hope we are not the only ones that feel this way

Jealousy - Coping tips for the beginning swinger - I've read the articles on the site about jealousy, but I am hoping that some of you more seasoned swingers can give me some advice. Remembering back to when you first started, were there any times that jealousy and hurt crept up, despite your willingness to let your partner play? How did you deal with this (obviously besides talking it through with your partner?) For me, I can logically work through it, and know how I should feel, especially given the fact that I've been on the other side of things for 4 years, but now having him play, it makes me feel insecure and a little hurt. Help :)

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