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Ken and Barbie Syndrome...... - is this a real affliction? - So we just read Classy's profile. We find nothing wrong with it. In fact, we agree completely. Wish we had worded ours to say it that well. We also prefer face pics. That is the most important to us.. face pics. besides.. Parts is parts. Just because someone thinks they want to fuck you, doesn't mean you have to fuck them... We may be here as swingers, but we don't have to swing with everybody.. there HAS to be attraction. We realise that we don't appeal to everybody either. :) Maggi & Luke PS. You crack me up UTHOT :)

Party Etiquette - How do people manage risks? - Mr here. So, the party that we went to before Halloween was a good party. It seemed much like another orgy that I participated in a few years ago, except this time I had Ms. Honeybunny with me :) That made me a little more aware of how people were interacting with each other, and I have a few questions about etiquette in those situations. Obviously, protection is important for a number of reasons, and pretty much everybody there was using condoms, cleaning toys after use, etc. However, one thing that I did not notice anybody using was dental dams or any kind of protection for oral sex. In a world where 70% of Americans have some form of herpes, for example, how do you deal with the risk of contracting it if you don't? Or what if you have other STDs? I would hope that if you have a temporary STD like chlamydia you would avoid lifestyles events until it cleared up, but nobody was talking about it. What if you have a more permanent STD, like the herpes mentioned above? Or AIDS? Or HPV? Two of those are really common, but also relatively harmless; do people just assume that other swingers do/don't have them or that the risk in not meaningful? I didn't really hear anybody talking about it, but I"m not sure if that's unusual or not. What's the typical protocol for situations like that? Also, now that I'm thinking about it. What would be the protocol if you DID pick something up from an event?

Permissive still requires permission. - Permissive still requires permission. - [quote=WildNomad]I could go on for days about the misogyny and objectification I have experienced in the swinger world. I'll try to be concise. Here's a quick guide on how to not be part of the problem at lifestyle events. (And when I say "you" below, I mean everyone) 1) Don't objectify women at every opportunity. If my tits are out, they are not out for you to stare at and make comments on every time you interact with me. They are certainly not out for everyone to touch without permission. They are out because I enjoy being naked. Even when I am naked I am still a strong feminist woman. I am not a toy for your to objectify. Treat me like a human. 2) Ask for what you want. Never presume. Do you want to hug, kiss, touch or fuck me? Ask. It's as simple as that. Here's an example. You: "Can I kiss you?" Me: "Hell yes" See? Easy. 3) If it's not a Hell Yes, it's a Fuck No. If all parties involved do not feel 100% Hell Yes! about the situation, it's a no. I see this a lot in one partner "taking one for the team". That is never ok. There is more but if everyone would do those 3, swinger events would be vastly improved. [/quote] Just because an actress or actor chooses (Hopefully it was their choice) to be nude on camera, and or act sexual, as in acting, does not mean they owe anyone anything, and they are not granting anyone permission to take sexual liberties with them. Same can be said for nudity, or sexual behavior at a swingers event. Or on a web site for what it's worth. We suppose, that if we get naked and behave sexually, in a semi public venue, that we cannot completely control who might see us. Granting permission to view, through proximity, does not grant permission to touch, or take any other sexual liberties.

playtime - - I dont think you will have any trouble finding volunteers. The best place to find friends is Habits in south salt lake. on a friday or saturday there are typically 50 or more swingers there. have a great time in the lifestyle....

Fly-fishing Swingers - New Swingular Group - I like to Flyfish. Been doing it for many years.

Curiosity - What pitfalls should I watch out for? O.o - The biggest pitfall is being a single guy itself. Just leave, get a girl and come back as a couple. It's just simple logic, allow me to explain: Why would a couple get with a single guy when there is an abundance of hot couples which include a guy and a girl? Unless the other dude is bi, then you are on your own. If you are over 30, male and single there must be something seriously wrong with you, no excuses. People break up all the time. So take a break, set a goal and come back to the real fun with a girl. Without a girl you'd just see how the fun goes in front of your eyes. Is like arriving a the track without a thoroughbred and then you'd want to ride everybody's mare. Guess what? No one would give a shit about what happened to you. And your X will be banging some douchebag while all this happens. On the other hand, this is a great time to be single. Younger men are flat broke and hot younger girls are going for older guys. Go get yourself into a serious relationship with an early 20's college chick. If you have 1/2 an ounce of game, are not a douche and a little something to show for (car, apt) you should have no problem. I've seen the dorkiest, dumbest white college guy, skinny and with facial hair with some hot yet shy asian girl at a damn classy swingers ball near JAX FL. Shit if I become single I would not last a week in the market with so much college pussy out there annd I'm 43. Also, it is also easier to turn younger chicks, especially nowadays, into swinging I turned my loving wife when she was 22 and she's been at it since then. Yes, I am a douche, but I have a hot wife, we get along well with other couples, love to flirt and party and we play with hot couples often, more frequently that we'd like to admit lol. Your X may be fucking some douchebag but she's gonna get upgraded. This is it. Go get em' big guy.

Tonight, great party @elixir lounge - Tonight, Thursday, great party @elixir lounge - Elixir is a very nice, very clean, very chill and small upscale bar. We go there every now and again and we really like it. Overt public sexual activity would seem really out of place there, and it is too small to be a swingers event venue. In our experience, the clientele are mostly locals that live nearby, like we do, guest staying at the hotel next door, which are often out of town business people, conference attendees and or skiers during the winter. In our opinion, monogamy, in the classical sense, is in a gradual and consistent decline. Open and relaxed non-monogamy, as a possibility, but not really a driven hunt, but something okay, when it just seems right, is on the rise and happens. So as for takeovers, well yeah you can find people participating in the non-monogamy takeover there, but not really a swingers venue. Non-monogamy happens with couples that do not self identify as "swingers", when it just seems right. Can you meet people at Elixir and end up having sex with them? Yes you can. Yeah the hotel nearby is convenient. Elixir is not the sort of place where people ever show up ready to recite some sort of swingers pledge or ask you what's your profile name. It's not, and maybe should not be the kind of place, where you are at a table with some friends you either came there with, or just met while you were there and have somebody come up to your table and address you by your profile name and start asking what kind of sex you are into.

Obvious Misunderstanding - - Don't let it get to you. As has been pointed out people will talk shit...just don't let it affect you. It was probably someone who got pissed cause you wouldn't fuck 'em. We've had people accuse us of similar over the years. Or claim that we weren't "real" swingers simply because we wouldn't fuck them or because we didn't swing in the exact manner that they did. It's all BS. If you guys are happy and fulfilled and on the same page FUCK everyone else (well, not literally-lol) :-)

Swing clubs in Vegas - - UtahUptownGirl, If you are going to Sacramento, we would suggest Faces if you want to meet a lot of Swingers. Not sure if you will be there until the 21st, but if you are here is a cut-and-paste of their venue notice: ******************** Cum join your old friends and make some new ones, at Faces the third Friday of each month, for yet another exciting night of sexy mingling, drinking and dancing. MeAT us upstairs by the big windows. You can't be a club-goer in Sacramento without making the occasional trip to Faces. And, it seems, you can't be anyone at all without having checked out the enduringly popular club's new look. Brighter and flashier than ever, with a whopping six new bars and two new rooms in which to see and be seen, the new face of Faces made its big debut a couple of weeks ago, complete with thumping bass, a who's-who crowd and a line around the block. A sunken silver dance floor ringed with speakers looks so much like an ice rink that you feel the need to step with care. The glass brick and chrome fixtures serve as prisms for the always-flashing lights, and the jade-colored bar and adjacent waterfall are a peaceful counterpart to all the glitz. The upstairs is designed for lounging, with leaning posts and soon-to-be-VIP areas featuring lovely blue booths. Faces Nightclub 2000 K Street Sacramento, CA 95814 (916) 448-7798 When: Third Friday of each month Time: 9pm till close Attire: This is a public venue, so dress appropriately. Sexy club, dress to impress. Cost: No cover before 8PM. $5 w/Valid I.D. 8-10PM. $10 w/Valid I.D. 10PM-close ******************** How about the Bottoms Up Club? ******************** Have you been naughty or nice this year? Come see what Santa has to say and join the Bottom's Up Club Dec 15th for our XXX-Mas House Party. Come and enjoy the 1/2 acre of lush tropical forest. Play in a real bamboo hut, listen to the water trickle in the nearby fountains, relax on a large hammock or dance to the latest and greatest hits. Sit and socialize on 600+ sq ft redwood deck or skinny dip in our 8 person mirrored hot tub. Play in our 3 level old growth redwood cabin that over looks the delta or have friends come to your own semi private cabana. The party is set to start anytime after 7 pm and we ask that everyone plan on heading out by 3. If you need a place to stay - talk to us, we have very limited accommodations so they are on a first come first serve basis. ***PLEASE PARK ON TUXEDO, NO PARKING IN FRONT OF THE HOUSE*** New!!!!! You can now RSVP on our web site!!! (www.TheBottomsUpClub.net) Click on the calendar, then the event, and then RSVP and you're done. COST: $40 at the door and $30 prepaid. Single men pay full price and single women are $10. Please bring your own drinks and mixers. Also bring you personal playing items you may need. Bring a towel and cover up if you plan on using the spa. Regarding the number of single guys that can attend, we will be limiting the number of single men to 1 per 10 couples. If you have any questions e-mail or call us! E-mail: [email protected] Phone: 209-992-0469 ******************** If you are interested in some parties in the San Francisco Bay Area, let us know. - The (not so) Newbies

closed doors? - - It seems as if the doors are closed to a couple with little or no experience. Why is that? My wife and I have been posting ads on various swing sites for a while now and haven't been lucky enough to find a nice couple or single female to hook up with. Is it that swingers don't want to "waste their time" breaking in newbies or what? We've chatted with a single female who blew us off and a couple of couples who have done the same. We would just love to find a couple or single female who we can actually hook up with. How are you supposed to "enjoy the lifestyle" when the lifestyle won't enjoy you?

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